Ngaba ukuthandana kunokukunceda njani ukuba ube ngumdlali ophucukileyo

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Sonke siyazazi iinkolelo zokuba sithandweni, apho yonke into ingathi ihamba kakuhle, ubona iinkwenkwezi kwaye wonwabile. Kuvela ukuba ezo mvakalelo zothando zinceda kwibala leembaleki, nazo. Uphononongo olutsha oluthiwe thaca kwintlanganiso ye-American Psychological Association yafumanisa ukuba ukuba kubudlelwane obunothando kunceda ukukhulisa ukusebenza kwezemidlalo kumadoda nabasetyhini kwimidlalo eyahlukeneyo.

Ngelixa ukuthandana kungaqinisekisi uloyiso kwibala lebhola ekhatywayo okanye kwinkundla yebhasikithi, abaphandi bathi ukuba kubudlelwane obuzinikeleyo nothando kuzisa iimbaleki ukonyusa amandla kwaye, kuba iimbaleki zinomntu onokwabelana naye ngemisebenzi yasekhaya xa zikubudlelwane, kusenokwenzeka vumela iimbaleki ukuba zijolise ngcono kwimidlalo yazo (endaweni yokwenza izitya kunye neetoni zokuhlamba ngokwazo).

Kwiimbaleki eziphantse zibe ngama-400 ekwenziwe uphando ngazo, ezingama-55 ekhulwini zathi ukuthandana kuwenza aphumelele ngakumbi kwiimbaleki, yaye eneneni amadoda ayenamathuba amaninzi okutsho ukuba uthando lwawanceda aqhuba kakuhle. Ukongeza, iimbaleki ezizimeleyo zemidlalo (njengesiqendu somdlalo wamanqindi kunye nebhola ekhatywayo) zibeka uthando njengokuphucula ukusebenza kwabo kweembaleki kuneembaleki ezazidlala imidlalo yeqela njengebhasikithi kunye nehokhi.

Izinto ezinomdla kakhulu! Kuyabonakala ukuba uthando kunye nemidlalo yindibaniselwano ephumeleleyo.

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