Uyithenga njani into yokudlala ekhuselekileyo kunye noMgangatho weSondo, ngokweeNgcali

Umxholo

• 1. Bonisa uhlobo lwethoyi yesondo oyifunayo.
• 2. Yenza uphando oluncinci.
• 3. Beka ixabiso lakho.
• 4. Qinisekisa ukuba yinto ekhuselekileyo yomzimba.
• Ukunyameka
• I-porous kancinci
• Non-porous
• 5. Yongeza izixhobo kwinqwelo!
• Unemibuzo eyongezelelekileyo malunga nokuthenga ithoyi yesondo?
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KwiSikali esiBabekileyo somnye ukuya kwimenyu kwiFactory yeCheesecake, ukuthenga into yokudlala ngokwabelana ngesondo kufana ne-11. Kodwa, ngokuphikiswanayo kunolonwabo olungaphezu kweqhekeza le-Oreo cheesecake (kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ubomi beshelufu ende), ngokuqinisekileyo kufanelekile.

Kodwa uqala phi? Apha. Skrolela ezantsi kwizinto eziphambili ekufuneka uzigcine engqondweni ngaphambi kokuba uthathe into yokudlala ngesondo ekhaya, ngokutsho kwezesondo-kubandakanya ukuba loluphi uhlobo lokudlala olulungele wonke umntu okanye imeko, iingcebiso zokukhetha izinto ezikhuselekileyo emzimbeni, kwaye njani lindela ukuhlawulela imveliso yolonwabo. Gcina oku engqondweni kuthengiso lwakho lokudlala ngesondo, kunye nayo nayiphi na into eza emva kwayo!

1. Bonisa uhlobo lwethoyi yesondo oyifunayo.

Ukusuka kwi-clit toys toys ukuya kwi-vibes ezibukeka njengeemakrofoni, iiplagi zokwenza i-prostate massagers, kukho phantse iintlobo ezininzi zeethoyi zesini njengoko kukho iipleyiti kwimenyu yeCheesecake Factory. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ujonge, yenza i-noodling malunga nohlobo lwento yokudlala oyifunayo. Esi sikhokelo kwiindidi ezili-12 eziphambili zezinto zokudlala ngesondo yindawo entle ongaqala kuyo.

2. Yenza uphando oluncinci.

Udibanisa iReddit kunye nophononongo ngaphambi kokutshiza kwimveliso entsha yokhathalelo lwesikhumba-kutheni kufuneka ukuthenga izinto zokudlala ngesondo kwahluke? Ukufunda into yokudlala ye-sex kwi-intanethi kunye / okanye ukuya kwi-IRL yevenkile yokwabelana ngesondo kufuneka kube yinxalenye yenkqubo, nayo.

"Ndikucebisa ngokufunda uphononongo lwe-Intanethi ngendlela obuya kwenza ngayo ngaphambi kokuba ubhukishe i-Airbnb," utshilo uDominnique Karetsos, ingcali yezesondo e-MysteryVibe. Ukufunda kwi-intanethi kukunika ithuba lokuphonononga into elapha phandle, ufunde malunga namava abanye abantu, kwaye ikunike ~ingubo engabonakaliyo ~ ukuba unoloyiko lokwabelana ngeminqweno yakho (nokuba yingcali efundileyo kwivenkile yokwabelana ngesondo), utshilo. .

Oko kwathethi, ukufundisisa esitolo kugcina izinto ezithile. "Abasebenzi abanolwazi banokuphendula imibuzo kwangoko kwaye bakuncede ukhethe," utshilo uKaretsos. Kule mihla, uninzi lwabathengisi kwiivenkile zesini banobuhlobo, banomzimba, banesondo, kwaye banolwazi lokwenene malunga neemveliso ezibonelelweyo. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba ngaba i-vibe X okanye i-vibe Y ingcono kuwe? Buza umntu osebenza naye. Ngaba ufuna ukwazi ukuba into yokudlala ikhuselekile emzimbeni ngaphandle kokufunda ngasemva? Buza umsebenzi. Kwaye, bahlala benamaqhinga asesandleni ukuze baphakamise amava akho kwinto yokudlala, utshilo.

Ekugqibeleni, kukho ixabiso elongezelelweyo lokukwaziukuchukumisa izinto zokudlala. Iivenkile ezithengisa ngesondo zihlala zibonisa iithoyi zokuvavanya. Bamba ezo ntsana ngesandla sakho. Cinezela onke amaqhosha. "Zinike imvume yokuvumela ii-turn-ons zakho zikhokele ekubeni uthathe isigqibo malunga nento ofuna ukuyithenga. Fumana into onokuyibona ilungile kwaye ikonwabise," utshilo uKaretsos.

3. Beka ixabiso lakho.

Sukuphambuka ngokudibanisa ixabiso lomgangatho. Ixabiso eliphezulu alibonisi umgangatho ophezulu kunye/okanye into yokudlala ye-orgasmic. Umzekelo, le plug ye-24K yeedola ezingama-2,500+ kaLelo inokuba nomtsalane kwi-AF kodwa, ngokusebenzayo, inokuthi isebenze njengayo nayiphi na enye iplagi yempundu ekhuselekileyo emzimbeni. Unoko engqondweni, akukho sizathu sokulahla itoni yemali kwinto yakho yokudlala ngesondo yokuqala. Apha ngezantsi, u-Amy Boyajian, umseki kunye ne-CEO yeWild Flower, ivenkile yokuthenga ngesondo ekwi-intanethi, uyaphula into onokuyilindela kumaxabiso ahlukeneyo.

Amathoyizi angaphantsi kwama- $ 50: Ezi zizinto zokudlala ezinkulu zokuqala, kodwa azinakuhlala ngaphezulu kweminyaka embalwa. "Kukho iindawo ezithile ezithandekayo kolu luhlu lwamaxabiso ezinokuthi zisebenze njengentshayelelo yovakalelo olutsha," utshilo uBoyajian. (Isalathiso, isidlidlizi endisithandayo sikhe sibe yi- $ 50.)

Amathoyizi aphakathi kwe- $ 50 kunye ne- $ 100: Apha, uya kufumana into yokudlala eqinileyo eya kuhlala iminyaka embalwa. “Uya kufumana iithoyi ezisemgangathweni ezineempawu ezintle kakhulu, ngaphandle kwethegi yexabiso leprimiyamu,” utshilo uBoyajian. .

Amathoyizi angaphezulu kwe- $ 100: Ngoku ungena ~ kubunewunewu ~ iithoyi zesini. "Ezi zinto zokudlala zihlala zineewaranti ezandisiweyo, uninzi lwezinto ezintle ezinje ngee-remotes, ii -apps eziqhagamshelwe ngeBluetooth, kunye neemeko zokugcina ezintle," utshilo uBoyajian. Ukuba uyazi ukuba loluphi uhlobo lweemvakalelo ozithandayo, utyalo-mali kwinto yokudlala ekumgangatho ophezulu eya kuhlala kwiminyaka yokusetyenziswa yintshukumo enkulu. Uqinisekisiwe ukuba uyazonwabela iithoyi zokufunxa iclit? Jonga i-Sona kaLelo (Yithenge, $149, lelo.com). Uthanda iithoyi zesini zesinyithi? Zilinge ngentsimbi engenasici i-Eleven Dildo ngu-Njoy (Thenga yona, $ 300, wildflowersex.com).

Izinto zokudlala ezingaphezu kwe-1000 yeedola: Ewe, la plug yegalati ikhankanywe ngentla yegolide ayisiyiyo * kuphela itoyitoyi enkulu. Kukho i-vibrator eyi-15K ye-Inez nguLelo (Yithenge, $ 15,000, lelo.com) eyenziwe ngeplati yegolide engama-24-karat kunye ne- $ 1,500 yeCowgirl (Yithenge, $ 1,500, ridethecowgirl.com) ongumatshini wesondo owenzelwe ukulingisa ukungena .

4. Qinisekisa ukuba yinto ekhuselekileyo yomzimba.

I-PSA: Ngenxa yokuba zihlelwa "njengezinto ezintsha," iithoyi zesondo azilawulwa yi-FDA. Oko kuthetha ukuba kuxhomekeke kubathengi (wena!) Kunye neenkampani ukuqinisekisa ukuba zikhuselekile emzimbeni. Ngaphezu koko, ukhuseleko lomzimba luluhlu olungachazwanga kakuhle; ngokusisiseko, kuthetha ukuba into yokudlala yenziwe ngezinto onokuzifumana ucoceke ngokupheleleyo. (Idibeneyo: Ukudlala kwakho ngesondo kunokuba yinto enetyhefu)

Izinto zokudlala zokwabelana ngesondo zihlala zenziwa zintathu ezona zinto ziphambili zezixhobo: zinokungena, zingenayo, kwaye zingena kancinci. Iindaba ezimbi kukuba unokufumana kuphela enye yazo inokucoceka ngokupheleleyoyyyy. (Yikes.) ICYDK, porous yenye indlela yokuthi "iintsholongwane zinokungena kwaye zihlale." Ngeso sizathu, ukhetho lwakho oluphambili luyinto yokudlala eyenziwe ngezinto ezingafunekiyo. Sebenzisa isikhokelo esingezantsi ukwazi ukuba zeziphi izinto oza kuzijonga.

Ukunyameka

Izixhobo: I-Polyvinyl chloride (PVC), irabha ye-thermoplastic (TPR), elastomer ye-thermoplastic (TPE), irabha yejeli, kunye ne-latex

Kububulumko ukuhlala kude nezi — ngakumbi izinto zokudlala zejeli zerabha, ezinezinto ezinobungozi emzimbeni. "Ezi zinto zokudlala zihlala zithambile kwaye zifana nejeli, kwaye zinevumba elahlukileyo," utshilo uBoyajian. "Awukwazi ukucoca ezi zinto zokudlala ngokupheleleyo, ukuze zibambelele kwiibhaktheriya ezinokubangela usulelo okanye ukucaphuka phantsi komgca." Ngelishwa, ezinye zezi zixhobo zisasetyenziswa ziinkampani zokudlala ngokwabelana ngesondo kuba zitshiphu ukwenza.

I-porous kancinci

Izixhobo: Isikhumba, ikristale, kunye ne-elastomer

"Ezi zikhuselekile ukuba zisetyenziselwe wedwa, kodwa kufuneka zisetyenziswe ngononophelo okanye ngesithintelo ngexesha lokudlala ngokubambisana ukuba awunamanzi," utshilo uBoyajian. (I-FYI: I-Fluid bonded ithetha ukuba wena neqabane lakho nenze ukhetho lokutshintshiselana ngeencindi zomzimba.) Ngokwesiqhelo, ezi zinto zokudlala zezabantu abangenayo le rodeo yabo yokuqala yezesondo. (Into omele uyazi malunga nee-STD zomlomo).

Umzekelo, abanye woo-woo abathandi bezinto zokudlala ngesondo bathi baziva bephezulu ~ ukungcangcazela ~ (njenge, ngokomoya) xa bephulula amalungu esini iithoyi zokulalana ngekristale, ngelixa abanye abantu abonwabela umtya wokulala ngesondo banokufuna ukuzama ukubopha isikhumba. Kodwa ngokusetyenziswa okokuqala, ncamathela kwizinto zokudlala ezingenazo i-porous kwaye ubuyele kwezi zixhobo ezifana, neenyanga ezintandathu-kunye. K? (Funda ngakumbi malunga nomtya odlalwayo apha.)

Non-porous

Izixhobo:Abicah, intsimbi engenasici, iglasi, iPyrex, kunye neeplastiki zeABS

Masiphinde: Ufuna into yokudlala engenahlwayi. Yeyiphi imathiriyeli engeyiyo i-porous engcono? Uninzi lweentlobano zesini luya kuthi abicah. Ngokwenene, kuxhomekeke kwinto oyikhangelayo. I-Silicone iya kuba ne-silky ivakale kuyo kwaye ibe yi-smidge pricier kune-plastiki ye-ABS, ekhuselekile emzimbeni kodwa ithambile kancinci xa ibamba.Kwakhona, iglasi kunye nentsimbi ziya kuba ngamaxabiso aphezulu, kodwa azikhuphisani.

Into oyithathayo apha: "Nokuba uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali, ungaze ulubeke esichengeni ukhuseleko lwakho. Zininzi izinto zokudlala ezinamaxabiso asezantsi, ezikhuselekileyo emzimbeni, nezinto zokudlala ezingangenanga," utshilo uBoyajian.

5. Yongeza izixhobo kwinqwelo!

"Ungalibali izincedisi!" Utsho uBoyajian. "I-Lube, iikhondom, kunye nokugcinwa zizinto ezibalulekileyo zokuqwalasela ukongeza ekuthengeni kwakho ngelixa uthatha into yakho yokudlala."

ILube, ngakumbi, inokuba ngumahluko phakathi kwamava amnandi kwinto yakho yokudlala kunye enkulu. "Inokwenza ngokoqobo nawaphi na amava ngesondo athandeke ngakumbi," utsho umfundisi-ntsapho ngesondo kunye nobudlelwane uSarah Sloane, obefundisa iiklasi zokudlala ngesondo kwiGood Vibrations kunye nePleasure Chest ukusukela ngo-2001. ubambe ibinzana.)

Ukudlala ezimpundu, i-lube esekwe kwi-silicone yeyona nto ilungileyo kuba ihlala ihlala ixesha elide; Nangona kunjalo, ayinakusetyenziswa ngeethoyi ezisekwe kubicah. Uninzi lwee-lubes ezisekwe kwisilicone ziya kudibana nale nto yokudlala, kwaye zijike ubume bayo, utshilo uBoyajian. Oko kwathiwa, kukho i-high-quality kunye ne-water-silicone-hybrid lubes engasetyenziswa kunye namathoyizi ase-silicone. "Njengovavanyo, faka into encinci kwinxalenye yethoyizi ongayi kuyisebenzisa ngokuthe ngqo (njengesiseko) kwaye uvumele ukuba uhlale imizuzu embalwa. Ukuba akukho tshintsho, ulungile ukuhamba."

Okanye, khetha i-lube esekwe emanzini, ehlala ihambelana namathoyizi e-silicone, kwaye kulula ukuyicoca kumashiti kunye nempahla, utshilo uBoyajian. (Jonga ngakumbi: Yonke into ekufuneka uyazi malunga noLube).

Kukwakho ne-aloe-based lubes kunye ne-oyile-based lubes. Oku akuthandwa kangako kwaye kunokumisa ngokukhawuleza kune-silicone lube, kodwa kuyehla kukhetho lomntu. Khawukhumbule ukuba i-oil-based lubes (kuquka i-coconut oil!) Ayihambelani ne-latex, kwaye inokwenza izithintelo ze-latex (njengeekhondom) zingasebenzi kakuhle. Ewe. (Idibeneyo: Yintoni ekufuneka uyazi ngaphambi kokusebenzisa ioyile yeCoconut njengeLube)

Ngokuphathelele ukugcina? Ayenzi njalo ngokwenene umba. Gcina ukhumbula nje ukuba ukuba awuthengi ityala elikhethekileyo okanye ibhegi yento yakho yokudlala, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuna ukunika into yokudlala isepha ngamanzi ashushu kunye nesepha ngaphambi nasemva kokuyisebenzisa. (Idibeneyo: Eyona ndlela yokuCoca iithoyi zakho zesondo)

Unemibuzo eyongezelelekileyo malunga nokuthenga ithoyi yesondo?

Yiya kwivenkile yakho yesini ukuba unayo! Kwaye ukuba awukwazi ukuya evenkileni, ungasoloko ubafowunela. Enye yeengcali zabo iya kuba nomnqweno ongakumbi wokukunceda. Zama iiVibrations eziLungileyo, i-Pleasure Chest, kunye ne-Babeland ukuthetha nomthengisi ngokuthe ngqo, kunye ne-Unbound Baby okanye i-Wild Flower ngenkxaso ye-imeyile.

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