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Imibuzo yePop: Uhleli ngoMgqibelo owonqenayo kwaye isithandwa sakho siyalishiya igumbi. Uthe esahamba yabe ilayita ifowuni yakhe inesaziso. Uyaqaphela ukuba iphuma kugxa wakhe oshushu. Ngaba wena A) Thatha isigqibo sokuba ayisiyonto yakho kwaye ujonge kude, B) Yenza inqaku lokumbuza malunga nalo, C) Lithathe, swayipha ipasikhowudi yakho kwaye ulifunde, okanye D) Lisebenzise njengemvume yokugcwala Mnu Robot kwaye uhambe ngefowuni yakhe ephezulu ukuya ezantsi? Ukukhetha ukhetho lokuqala kufuna ukuzithiba kwengcwele-isilingo sokukroba kwifowuni yomnye umntu ke ngokwenene. Kodwa ukuba ukhetha nantoni na ngaphandle kokhetho A, unokuba kumhlaba osemthethweni ongazinzanga. Kuyavela ukuba ukuhamba ngolwazi lwedijithali yeqabane lakho kunokukufaka emanzini ashushu kunye nomthetho ukuba uye waphambana ngokwaneleyo malunga nokuya emapoliseni-ungakhankanyi ukuba ithini malunga nokuthembela kwi-SO yakho.

Isenokuvakala ngathi iyoyikisa, kodwa ukuqonda ezi ins kunye nokuphuma kubaluleke ngakumbi ngoku kunakuqala, kuthathelwa ingqalelo ukuba bangaphi abantu ababandakanyeka kuhlobo oluthile lobuchwephesha. "Kuxhomekeke kwiziphumo zophando ozifundileyo, naphi na ukusuka kuma-25 ukuya kuma-40 eepesenti abantu kubudlelwane bayavuma ukuba bayikhuphile ngokufihlakeleyo enye i-imeyile, imbali yesikhangeli, imiyalezo ebhaliweyo, okanye iiakhawunti zemidiya yoluntu," ngokweejaji uDana noKeith Cutler, amagqwetha obomi bokwenyani (kunye nesibini esitshatileyo) abaziqhelanisayo eMissouri kunye neejaji ezongameleyo zomboniso osanda kuqala, iNkundla yeCouples with the Cutlers. "Itekhnoloji yokulandela loo" gut ukuziva "kwezenzo ezikrokrisayo ziyafumaneka, kwaye abantu bayayisebenzisa."

Ngaphambi kokuba uhlole (nokuba nje umzuzwana!), Nantsi into ekufuneka uyazi:

Konke kwehla kwimiba emithathu: ubunini, imvume kunye nolindelo lwabucala. Umgaqo wokuqala ulula kakhulu: Ukuba akuyena umnini wefowuni, akuvumelekanga ukuba wenze nantoni na ngaphandle kwemvume yomnye umntu. Kodwa "imvume" kulapho izinto ziba mfiliba. Ngokufanelekileyo, umntu othandana naye angakunika ipasikhowudi yakhe kwaye athi uvunyelwe ukuba ujonge nantoni na oyifunayo nanini na uziva uthanda, kwaye nawe uya kwenza okufanayo, kuba nithembana ngokupheleleyo kwaye nicocekile kakhulu ukuba ningenza ntoni kweli hlabathi. Kodwa ayingobomi bokwenyani obuqhelekileyo (kwaye ukuba bekunjalo bekungafuneki ukuba ulale kwasekuqaleni). Ke ukuba akakuniki ipasikhowudi, kuya kufuneka ufumane imvume okokoko.

"Imvume yingcamango ekhohlisayo kuba inokulinganiselwa okanye irhoxiswe," utshilo uMgwebi uDana Cutler. "Kungenxa yokuba imeko kaxakeka eyayikhe yamfuna ukuba akuxelele ipassword yakhe ayikuniki layisenisi engapheliyo yokuhamba usiya kwifowuni ukhangela imifanekiso kunye nemibhalo nanini na uziva ngathi." Ungayichazanga le nto ayisiyondlela yokuziphatha esempilweni kwindawo yokuqala. Ukuba uziva ngathi inketho yakho kuphela kukuchwechwela kwifowuni yeqabane lakho, kuya kufuneka uphinde ucinge ngobudlelwane bakho-okanye ubuncinci ujonge iingcebiso zezibini.

Ngaphantsi komthetho wase-U.S., Abantu banelungelo lokulindela ukuba bucala, nkqu nabantu abasondeleyo, Ujaji Keith Cutler uyacacisa. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukuba uyakunika ifowuni yakhe kwaye akubonise into okanye ashiye isikrini sakhe singatshixwanga kwaye avuleke apho unokuyibona ngokucacileyo, akalindelanga ukuba ihlale ngasese. Ngaphandle koko, kuya kufuneka ubuze kuqala. Ingakhathaza into yokuba kunye nomntu oza kwabelana naye ngebrashi yamazinyo kodwa kungabi yifowuni yabo, kodwa ekugqibeleni yile fowuni yabo yokwenza. (Kwaye ngumnxeba wakho wokuthatha isigqibo sokuba le yinto onokuhlala nayo kubudlelwane.)

Izinto zisuka kumdaka ziye kuthi ga ngokungekho mthethweni ukuba uqikelela ikhowudi yakhe yokudlula, yibone ngokumjonga, okanye "uyiqhekeze" ngendlela eyahlukileyo. "Ukuba akayazi ukuba uyayazi iphasiwedi, kwaye kufuneka uvule kwaye uvule uluhlu lweapps kwifowuni yakhe ngelixa elele ukufumana oko ukufunayo, mhlawumbi uwele umgca ngeloxesha kwaye ngokungalunganga yangena kwimfihlo yakhe,” utshilo uMgwebi uDana Cutler.

Ngombulelo kumaqabane anomdla (okanye akrokrelayo), kukho ezinye iindlela zokukroba ezikosher. Imidiya yokuncokola, umzekelo, ilungile. Ukuba uthumela into esidlangalaleni, ulungile kumalungelo akho okuhamba kunye nekama elizinyo. Kukwasemthethweni kulwazi "lwasemva", okuthetha ukuba uhamba ngokuthunyelwa esidlangalaleni kwabahlobo bobabini ukubona izinto iqabane lakho elinokuthi liphawule okanye lithande. Awukwazi, nangona kunjalo, ukufunda imiyalezo yakhe yangasese, uMgwebi uKeith Cutler uyongeza.

Kodwa uza kuthini ukuba nguwe okwisikhundla sokuba isithandwa sakho siphumelele eyakho umnxeba? Ukuba khange uyinike ipasikhowudi yakho okanye kungenjalo unike imvume kwaye awuyishiyanga ilele ngokungavuleki kunye nescreen esivulekileyo, ngumcimbi osemthethweni lowo. Nciphisa isihendo sakhe nabani na ukuba ajonge nje ngokuqinisekisa ukuba sele uthatha amanyathelo asisiseko abucala, utshilo uMgwebi uKeith Cutler. Guqula iphasikhodi yakho kunye neepassword kwaye ususe izaziso kwiscreen sakho sokutshixa.

Ukuba idlulela ngaphaya kokufuna ukwazi okungafanelekanga, inokuwela umgca kwi-digital stalking. Zikhusele ngoko nangoko ngokuseta useto lwakho lwemithombo yeendaba zentlalo yabucala kunye nokungabi nabuhlobo kubahlobo. Qiniseka ukuba uvala ii -apps kwaye utshixe isikrini sakho sefowuni ngalo lonke ixesha, kwaye unxibelelane nenkampani yakho yefowuni malunga nokuseta ukhuseleko olongezelelweyo kumgca wakho. Isigqibo sakho sokugqibela, kwiimeko ezigqithileyo, kukubiza amapolisa kwaye ufake ifayile yezikhalazo. Ngelixa kungenakulindeleka ukuba ukuthotyelwa komthetho kubandakanyeke ngokulula "wafunda izicatshulwa zam!" ityala, ukuba kukho isoyikiso sobundlobongela okanye ukwenzakala emzimbeni, ukuba yinxalenye yepateni yokulandela, okanye ukuba ulwazi lwakho lusetyenziselwe ubuqhophololo (ubusela besazisi) ngoko baya kuyithatha kakhulu, uMgwebi uDana Cutler uthi.

Okukwintsusa: Musa ukuzifaka kwiifowuni zabanye abantu, nokuba zilingwa kangakanani. Ukuba kuyenzeka kubudlelwane bakho, lixesha lokuba ube neengcinga ezinzulu malunga nokuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuba nomntu ongamthembiyo. Okona kungcono, olu hlobo lokuziphatha (nguwe okanye iqabane lakho) alunampilo. Okona kubi kakhulu, "ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwedijithali" kunokuba yinxalenye yendlela enkulu, okanye eyandulela, yobundlobongela basekhaya.

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