Ibali likaJade Roper Tolbert leNgozi lokuZalwa ngeKhaya eliBalulekileyo lelinye kufuneka ufunde ukuze ukholelwe

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Isidanga I-alum uJade Roper Tolbert uthathe i-Instagram izolo ukubhengeza ukuba uzele umntwana oyinkwenkwe osempilweni ngoMvulo ebusuku. Abalandeli babechulumancile kukuva iindaba ezivuyisayo—kodwa bothuswa yindlela uRoper Tolbert awayesebenza ngayo kunye nokuhanjiswa kwayo.

"Ngengozi ndizalele ekhaya phezolo, kwigunjana lethu eliyintloko," inkwenkwezi yenyani yangaphambili ibhale njalo nge-Instagram, ecaleni komfanekiso wakhe omde ephethe usana lwakhe ejikelezwe ngabezonyango kunye namalungu osapho. (Inxulumene: Indlela yokuZala ubungayazi nokuba ikhona)

“Ndisalungisa umothuko wayo yonke le nto, njengoko ibingekho yonke le nto bendiyicwangcisile, kodwa ndinombulelo ongazenzisiyo kumntu ngamnye oncedise ekuziseni unyana wethu emhlabeni ekhuselekile,” uqhubeke watsho.

Kuphuma, amanzi kaRoper Tolbert aqhekeka okwesibhakabhaka kwaye umsebenzi wakhe wenyuka ngokukhawuleza emva koko. Kwakubonakala ngathi alikho ixesha lokuba aye esibhedlele. "Imizuzu engamashumi asixhenxe anesihlanu kamva ndibeleke umntwana wethu oyinkwenkwe ophilileyo ngelixa ndibambe isitulo kwigunjana lethu," wabelane.

Ngombulelo, uRoper Tolbert kunye nonyana wakhe basempilweni. Kodwa imeko ngokuqinisekileyo yayingaphantsi kokufanelekileyo.

ICYDK, ucwangciso oluninzi luza kuzalelwa ekhaya. Oomama abakhetha ukubelekela ekhaya bahlala beqesha umbelekisi, onceda ekuqinisekiseni ngamava okhuseleko nokuzola, ngokwe-American Pregnancy Association (APA). Ngapha koko, kukho isiCwangciso B kwimeko apho ukuhanjiswa kwesibhedlele kunyanzelekile. I-APA ikwacebisa ukuba kubekho i-backup ob-gyn yokunxibelelana, kunye nogqirha wabantwana onokuhlola umntwana kwiiyure ezingama-24 zokuzalwa. (Idibeneyo: Ukuzalwa kwe-C-Icandelo kuphantse kuphinda-phindwe kabini kule minyaka yamva nje-Nantsi le nto ibalulekileyo)

Nangona kunjalo, iipesenti ezingama-40 zoomama bokuqala kunye neepesenti ezili-10 zabasetyhini abaye bazala ngaphambili batshintshelwa esibhedlele ngenxa yeengxaki ngexesha lokuzalwa ekhaya, ngokutsho kwe-APA. Ke inyani yokuba uRoper Tolbert wakwazi ukuhambisa ngempumelelo unyana wakhe ngocwangciso olucacileyo, ayintle kwaphela. (Idibeneyo: Lo Mama wazala umntwana oziipesenti ezili-11 ekhaya ngaphandle kwe-Epidural)

Ngombulelo, wayenenkqubo yenkxaso eyomeleleyo yokumnceda ngamava.

"Lelinye lawona maxesha oyikekayo ebomini bam kuba ndaziva ndingalawuleki, kodwa uTanner, umama kaTanner, umama wam, kunye noogqirha kunye nabacimi-mlilo bandigcina ndiqhubeka xa ndiziva ngathi umhlaba ungena kum kunye nosana lwam olungekazalwa umntwana, ”ubhale uRoper Tolbert, equkumbela isithuba sakhe. "Ndibulela ngokungazenzisiyo ngenkqubo yenkxaso ebesinayo kwaye ngale nkwenkwe intle ndiyibambe ezingalweni zam."

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