Ukunxibelelana nezigulana

Imfundo yesineke ivumela abaguli ukuba badlale indima enkulu kukhathalelo lwabo. Ikwangqamana nentshukumo ekhulayo iye kunyango olugxile- kwizigulana kunye nosapho.

Ukuze usebenze ngempumelelo, imfundo yesigulana kufuneka ingaphezulu kwemiyalelo kunye nolwazi. Ootitshala kunye nababoneleli ngezempilo kufuneka babe nakho ukuvavanya iimfuno zesigulana kwaye banxibelelane ngokucacileyo.

Impumelelo yemfundo yesigulana ixhomekeke ikakhulu kwindlela ovavanya ngayo isigulana sakho:

• Iimfuno
• Ukuxhalaba
• Ukulungela ukufunda
• Ukukhetha
• Inkxaso
• Izithintelo kunye nokusikelwa umda (njengokuqina ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasengqondweni, kunye nolwazi oluphantsi lokufunda nokubhala okanye ukubala)

Rhoqo, inyathelo lokuqala kukufumanisa oko sele kusaziwa sisigulana. Sebenzisa ezi zikhokelo ukwenza uvavanyo olunzulu ngaphambi kokuqala imfundo yesigulana:

• Hlanganisa imikhondo. Thetha namalungu eqela lokhathalelo lwempilo kwaye ujonge isigulana. Lumka ungazicingeli. Ukufundisa ngomonde ngokusekwe kwiingcinga ezingachanekanga kusenokungasebenzi kakuhle kwaye kungathatha ixesha elininzi. Fumanisa ukuba isiguli sifuna ukwazi okanye sithathe ntoni entlanganisweni yakho.
• Yazi isigulana sakho. Zazise kwaye uchaze ngendima yakho kukhathalelo lwesigulana sakho. Ukuphonononga irekhodi labo lonyango kwaye ubuze imibuzo esisiseko yokwazi wena.
• Misela unxibelelwano. Mjonge emehlweni xa kufanelekile kwaye uncede isigulana sizive sikhululekile xa sikunye nawe. Nika ingqalelo kwiinkxalabo zomntu. Hlala phantsi ecaleni kwesigulana.
• Zuza intembelo. Bonisa intlonelo kwaye uphathe umntu ngamnye ngovelwano nangaphandle kwesigwebo.
• Misela ukulungela kwesigulana sakho ukufunda. Buza abaguli bakho malunga nembono yabo, izimo zengqondo kunye nezizathu zabo.
• Funda imbono yesigulana. Thetha nesigulana malunga namaxhala, uloyiko, kunye nokuqonda gwenxa okunokwenzeka. Ulwazi olufumanayo lunokukunceda ukukhokela ukufundisa kwakho ngomonde.
• Buza imibuzo efanelekileyo. Buza ukuba ngaba isigulana sinenkxalabo, hayi imibuzo kuphela. Sebenzisa imibuzo evulelekileyo efuna ukuba isigulana siveze iinkcukacha ezingaphezulu. Mamela ngenyameko. Iimpendulo zesigulana ziya kukunceda ufunde ezona nkolelo ziphambili zomntu. Oku kuya kukunceda uqonde ukukhuthazeka kwesigulana kwaye kukuyeke ucwangcise ezona ndlela zokufundisa.
• Funda malunga nezakhono zesigulana. Fumanisa oko sele kusaziwa sisigulana sakho. Unokufuna ukusebenzisa indlela yokubuyela umva (ekwabizwa ngokuba yindlela yokubonisa okanye ukuvala iluphu) ukubona ukuba isigulana sinokufunda ntoni na kwabanye ababoneleli. Indlela yokubuyisela umva yindlela yokuqinisekisa ukuba uchaze ulwazi ngendlela isigulana esiqondayo. Kwakhona, fumanisa ukuba zeziphi izakhono isigulana esisenokufuna ukuziphuhlisa.
• Bandakanya abanye. Buza ukuba ngaba isigulana sifuna abanye abantu ababandakanyekayo kwinkqubo yokhathalelo. Kungenzeka ukuba umntu ozinikelayo ukuba abandakanyeke ekunyamekeleni isigulane sakho angabi ngumntu ogulayo isigulane sakho ukhetha ukubandakanyeka. Funda ngenkxaso yesigulana sakho.
• Chonga izithintelo kunye nokusikelwa umda. Unokuqonda izithintelo kwimfundo, kwaye isigulana sinokuqinisekisa. Ezinye izinto, ezinje ngezempilo esezantsi okanye ukubala ngamanani kunokuba yinto ecekeceke kwaye kunzima ukuyazi.
• Thatha ixesha lokwakha ubudlelwane. Yenza uvavanyo olubanzi. Kufanelekile, kuba iinzame zakho zemfundo ngomonde ziya kusebenza ngakumbi.

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