U-Katrina Scott uneyona mpendulo ilungileyo ekubuzweni xa eza "kubuyisa umzimba wakhe"

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Unokuba ngomnye wabaphembeleli bokuqina komzimba we-OG ngasemva kwegama eliphumelelayo leTone It Up, kodwa emva kokubeleka kwiinyanga ezintathu ezidlulileyo, uKatrina Scott akanamnqweno wokubuyela kuye "ngaphambi komzimba womntwana." Ngoko, ngokungathí sina, ungambuzi-okanye nawuphi na umfazi ngaloo nto-xa "ebuyisela umzimba wakhe." (Inxulumene: UKatrina Scott Wabelane ngevidiyo ye-Postpartum Belly ukuze abonise uxabiso ngomzimba wakhe)

Ewe, uqhuba uphawu lokuqina ukuze aziphilise, kodwa njengoko ebhalwe ku-Instagram, oko akuthethi ukuba "ubunzima bomntwana" buvele buwa kwangoko. "Andizange ndilahlekelwe yiponti enye kwiiveki ezisibhozo zokungasebenzi kunye nokuncelisa," uScott usixelela kwisiganeko samva nje sokuzilolonga kunye noKohl. Wonke umntu uthi, 'Uza kuncipha kakhulu emzimbeni ngenxa yokuncancisa, uya kuncipha kwaye ubuyele umva ngaphandle kokuzivocavoca!'Kwaye emva koko ndaqala ukusebenza kwaye ndafumana iiponti ezintathu! Uyayazi yintoni, wonke umzimba wenza izinto ezahlukeneyo kwaye kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba uyazimamela hayi omnye umntu. "

Uthi usondele ekukhulelweni kwakhe enesimo sengqondo esifanayo. Kuye, oko kwakuthetha "ukuzinikela ngokupheleleyo" kwinkqubo nokumamela imeko yakhe- "Khange ndenze zifundo, andifundanga zincwadi zokuba ngumzali. Bendingafuni ukuba nolindelo entlokweni yam. kwithuku, kwaye xa ndifuna uncedo, ndiya kubuza uluntu lweTone It Up okanye uKarena [Ekuseni]."

Njengabahlobo abasenyongweni kunye namaqabane kwishishini kunye nokomelela, uDawn wayeliqabane likaScott lokuphendula kunye neguru lokomoya kuyo yonke le nkqubo. Uthi: “UKarena wayeliqabane lam lokuzilolonga kulo lonke ixesha lokukhulelwa kwam, kwaye wayesoloko endiphinda-phinda xa ndandingasebenzi. ("Ndibeka ubunzima obufanayo! "Iziqhulo ze-Dawn.) "Kwaye ngoku siza kulahlekelwa ubunzima bomntwana kunye. Ukufumana nje umntu omkhulu ngokwenene ebomini bakho ukukuxhasa kubalulekile," utsho. (Idibeneyo: Ukuzivocavoca ukuxolisa iTone It Up Girls bafuna ukuba uyeke ukwenza)

Okubaluleke ngakumbi kunenxalenye yomzimba, uthi uDawn wamnceda ukuba agcine imbono yakhe. "Ukungena ekukhulelweni kunye nommandla ongabhalwanga iinyanga ezilithoba, into yokuqala uKarena andifundise yona kukuba iqala apha, ngempilo yakho yengqondo," kusho uScott. "Kufuneka ukhathalele impilo yakho yengqondo ngaphambi kokuba ukhathalele umzimba wakho kunye nenye into."

“Ukucamngca kundincedile iminyaka, kwaye ibiyinto ebesivakalelwa kukuba sifuna ukwabelana ngayo noluntu ngosetyenziso lwethu,” utshilo. "Zininzi kakhulu izibonelelo zempilo-kubonakaliswe ukunceda uxinzelelo lwegazi oluphezulu, amanqanaba oxinzelelo, kwaye kunokukunceda ukuba uphile ixesha elide," kusho uDawn. "Yinyama, ingqondo, yile nto uyityayo-yile trifecta yenza iTone It Up."

Ngelixa uScott kunye noDawn bengabhalisi ncam "kwizigqibo," ukugxila ekubeni khona kubalulekile kubo bobabini abasetyhini kunyaka omtsha. KuScott, oko kuthetha ukuqhubeka nokugxila ekucamngeni naxa ixesha lilodwa kunzima ukuza ngalo. Ndiyenzile izolo ebusuku ebhafini Hayi wethu ndindodwa ndenzeni? Ndiza kumamela ilizwi likaKarena [ekubhekiseni ukucamngca kwi-TIU app]. Kum, bendisoloko ndinengxaki yokwehlisa isantya nokuphuma entlokweni yam, kwaye ndijonge ngaphakathi ukubona ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni. "

Emva kokukhulelwa, kuye kwabaluleke ngakumbi ukuba uScott agcine eli candelo lengqondo lijongiwe. "Ukuzithemba komzimba kubaluleke ngakumbi xa uba ngumama," utshilo. "Imalunga nokuzinika umonde nobabalo nothando. Ungumfazi ogqwesileyo kwaye wenze into engakholelekiyo." (Eyeleleneyo: Kutheni iTone It Up's Katrina Scott Uthi Ukhetha Umzimba Wakhe Wasemva Kokukhulelwa)

Kwaye ekupheleni kosuku, imalunga nokulungisa naluphi na uxinzelelo lwangaphandle, utshilo. "Abantu bahlala bendibuza, uzowubuyisa nini umzimba wakho? Kwaye ndithi, le ngumzimba!’

"Isisombululo" esiphambili sikaScott sika-2019 silula: "Ndifuna ukuba ngumama olungileyo kwaye ndizinyamezele kuba le yigig entsha," utshilo. "Ndifunda ukuba kakuhle ngayo yonke into kwaye ndifumanisa into eqhelekileyo-nokuba kufuneka ndenze udliwano-ndlebe ngelixa ndimpompa-ndiyazi ukuba ndim kuphela umntu onokundigweba. Akukho mama shame."

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