Lo Mphembeleli woBuchule wayenempendulo egqibeleleyo xa umntu ebuza, "Ziphi iiBhobhs zakho?"

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Umphembeleli wezempilo kunye nomqeqeshi wobuqu uKelsey Heenan kutshanje uvule malunga nokufika kwakhe emva kokuphantse afe ngenxa yeanorexia kwiminyaka eli-10 eyadlulayo. Kwathatha umsebenzi onzima kunye nokukhula kwakhe ukuze afikelele kwindawo apho ekugqibeleni aziva eqinisekile eluswini lwakhe. Ngoku, uyayisebenzisa loo ntembelo ukuba abuye umva kwiitroli kwimidiya yoluntu.

Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, omnye wabalandeli bakaHeenan abali-124,000 ushiye uluvo kwividiyo yakhe ebuza, "Ziphi ii-boobs zakho?"

Ngokwendalo, intshukumisa yakhe yayikukuqhwaba umthiyile. "Ukuphendula kwam kokuqala:" Kuya kufuneka uyeke ukubakhangela ... Azange babekho apha ukuqala, "ubhale watsho ku-Instagram.

Endaweni yokuvumela olu luvo ukuba lumkhathaze, u-Heenan walusebenzisa ukuxhobisa abo bahlala kwindawo yakhe yokomelela komzimba. "Ndifuna ukwabelana ngale nto nawe ukuthumela inkuthazo ngendlela yakho," ubhale watsho. "Nantsi into. Kuza kuhlala kukho abantu phaya abaza kuzama ukukuhlisa kuhambo lwakho. Bazakuba mbi. Bayakuzonda ngale nto uyenzayo. Baze benze nezimvo ngomzimba WAKHO. "

Ingcebiso yakhe? Ukunyaniseka, mayiyeke (inzima njengokuba inokuba njalo ngamanye amaxesha), utshilo. "Indlela umzimba wakho obukeka ngayo lishishini lakho kwaye akukho mntu wumbi." (Idibeneyo: USia Cooper uthi uziva ngathi "ungowesifazana ngakumbi kunakuqala" emva kokususa izinto zakhe zebele)

U-Heenan ubongoze abalandeli bakhe ukuba bayikhumbule loo nto ukuba njewena wonwabile ngomzimba wakho, akukho zimvo zomnye umntu zibalulekile."Ukusebenza kwakho ngokuzimisela, ukuzibophelela kwakho, ukuzinikela kwakho, ubabalo olwenzileyo nawe kunye nokuzimisela kwakho ukwamkela izinto ongenakuzitshintsha ... ezi zinto ziyakukuvumela ukuba wakhe ukuzithemba kulo lonke uhambo lwakho," ubhale watsho.

Isenokuba yi-2019, kodwa ukuhlazisa umzimba iseyingxaki enkulu. U-Kudos kubafazi abafana no-Heenan abanokuthi bathathe oko kungalunganga kwaye babonise umyalezo okhuthazayo. (Eyeleleneyo: U-Emily Ratajkowski uthi Ubenentloni ngumzimba ngenxa yamabele akhe)

Ukugqibelela akukho, utshilo. "Fumana ukuzithemba kubuhlukile bakho."

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