Isizungu Senza Iimpawu Ezibandayo Ziziva Zimbi

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Ukuthimla, ukuthimla, ukukhohlela, kunye nokuqaqamba azikho phezulu kuluhlu lomntu olonwabisayo. Kodwa iimpawu zengqele eqhelekileyo zinokuziva zimbi nangakumbi ukuba unesizungu, ngokophando olutsha olupapashwe kwi Psychology yezempilo.

Iqela lakho loluntu linantoni yokwenza nomthamo wentsholongwane egazini lakho? Okungaphezulu kunokwabelana nje ngeentsholongwane ezikugulisileyo kwasekuqaleni, kuvela. "Uphando lubonakalisile ukuba isizungu sibeka abantu emngciphekweni wokufa kwangethuba kunye nezinye izigulo zomzimba," utshilo umbhali wophando u-Angie LeRoy, umfundi ophumelele kwisayikholoji kwiYunivesithi yaseRice. "Kodwa akukho nto yenziweyo ukujonga isifo esibuhlungu kodwa esethutyana sonke esisengozini yokubandayo."

Kwiziphi izandi ezinje ngesona sifundo solonwabo esincinci esakhe senziwa, abaphandi bathatha phantse abantu abangama-200 babanika impumlo ngeempumlo elayishwe yintsholongwane ebandayo. Emva koko, babahlulahlula baba ngamaqela ngokusekwe kubudlelwane obuninzi ababuxelileyo ebomini babo kwaye babajonga ehotele kangangeentsuku ezintlanu. (Ubuncinane bafumana intambo yasimahla kunye nokubandezeleka kwabo?) Malunga neepesenti ezingama-75 zezifundo zaphela ngumkhuhlane, kwaye abo baxela ukuba bangabona bangamalolo nabo baxela ukuba baziva bebuhlungu kakhulu.

Yayingelilo nje inani lobudlelwane elalichaphazela ubukrakra beempawu. I umgangatho kolo lwalamano lwadlala eyona ndima inkulu. Unokuba kwigumbi elinabantu abaninzi kwaye uzive ulilolo, utshilo uLeRoy. "Lo mbono yinto ebonakala ibalulekile xa kuziwa kwiimpawu ezibandayo." (Qaphela: Uphando lwangaphambili luye lwabonisa ukuba ukuziva ulilolo kunokukwenza utye kakhulu kwaye uchithe ubuthongo bakho.)

Unesithukuthezi? Ukuziva ulikheswa ngokudabukisayo kuxhaphake kakhulu kule mihla nangona uluntu lwethu lunxibelelene kakhulu. Khumbula ukudibana nabahlobo be-IRL rhoqo kangangoko unako, okanye (siyazi ukuba oku kuyaphambana) thatha ifowuni kwaye ubambe abantu abahlala kude. Kwaye khumbula, nokuba sele ukhulile, yamkelekile ukubiza umama xa ugula. Unyango olumnandi.

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