Izabelo zikaLucy Hale Kutheni Ukuzibeka Kuqala Akungokuzingca

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Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ukuthatha ixesha elincinci elithi "me" kubalulekile kwimpilo yakho yengqondo. Kodwa kunokuba nzima ukubeka phambili ngaphezulu kwezinye izinto ezibonakala ngathi "zibalulekile". Kwaye ngaphandle kwento yokuba ngaphezu kwesiqingatha sabasetyhini abaneminyaka eyiwaka bazenzele ukuzinyamekela kwisisombululo sabo ngo-2018, abanye abafazi basaziva benetyala ngenxa yoko-bakholelwa ukuba ukuzibeka kuqala ngandlela-thile kubenza bazicingele. Amaxoki amahle amancinci alum uLucy Hale waziva ngendlela efanayo-de uhambo lwedwa lwatshintsha umbono wakhe ngokupheleleyo.

"Kule veki iphelileyo ndithathe uhambo ndedwa ndaya eArizona," ubhale ku-Instagram ecaleni kothotho lweefoto zakhe (kunye necacti kunye neekristal zokuphilisa). "Ndichithe iintsuku zam ndinyuka intaba, ndicamngca, kwaye ndichitha ixesha kunye nam. Andikaze ndiyenze le nto ngaphambili kuba bendisoloko ndiziva ngathi ukuzibeka kwindawo yokuqala kukuzingca. Akunjalo."

UHale uthi uye waqonda ukuba uncedo lokuzinyamekela aluphelelanga kuye ngokwakhe. “Ayisiyompilo kuphela, kodwa iyimfuneko ukuze ube ngoyena mntu ulungileyo kubo bonke abantu abakungqongileyo,” ubhale watsho.

Waqhubeka ecacisa isizathu sokuba wonke umntu azenzele ixesha lokuzinyamekela nokuba uvakalelwa kukuba akanalo. “Ndiyazi ukuba oku kuyenzeka nakwamanye amashishini ngaphandle kweli ndikulo, kodwa kulula ngendlela emangalisayo ukuzifaka emngciphekweni wokuba nexhala ngomsebenzi olandelayo, impumelelo yalo yangoku nokuba abanye bacinga ntoni ngawe,” utshilo uHale. . (Nazi ezinye izisombululo ezingama-20 zokuzikhathalela ekufuneka uzenze.)

"Olu hambo lwalusisikhumbuzo esihle sokuba impilo yam kunye nolonwabo lubalulekile kubomi endifuna ukubuphilayo kwaye ukuze ube ngowona uphambili kwikhondo lam kunye nabantu endibathandayo, kubalulekile ukuzenzela izinto ezintle. Cebisa ukunyanga ingqondo yakho, umzimba kunye nomoya (kwaye uthathe uqeqesho lwedwa). "

Iposti kaHale sisikhumbuzo esimangalisayo sokuba xa uxakeke kakhulu kwaye uxinezelekile ngakumbi, okona *ngakumbi* kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzibekela ixesha. Ingqondo nomzimba wakho uya kubulela ngayo-kwaye kuya kuba njalo nakubo bonke abanye ebomini bakho.

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