Ummeli weMeena Harris ungomnye oMfazi oMangalisayo

Umxholo

• Ibali elingemva kwesikipa ‘soMfazi oPhenomenal’
• Abasetyhini abaMphefumlelayo kwiNtshukumo yakhe
• Njani ihempe eguqukayo yaba yintshukumo
• Ukuphakamisa Abasetyhini abanoMbala
• Ukuphendula ngexesha lamaxesha ongxamiseko
• Ukuba nguMama kwazisa njani ubuzaza bakhe
• Uyijika njani inkanuko yakho ibe yinjongo
• Uphengululo lwe

UMeena Harris une-resume enomdla: Igqwetha elalifundiswe eHarvard yayingumcebisi omkhulu kumgaqo-nkqubo nonxibelelwano kumakazi wakhe wase-US uSenator Kamala Harris we-2016 kwaye ngoku uyintloko yeqhinga kunye nobunkokheli e-Uber. Kodwa ukwangumama, uyilo, usomashishini, kunye nentshatsheli-izazisi eziye zanceda ukwazisa kunye nokukhuthaza iPhenomenal Woman Action Campaign, awayiqalayo emva konyulo luka-2016. Umbutho oxhotywe ngabasetyhini uzisa ulwazi kuxhotyiso lwabasetyhini obahlukeneyo kunye noonobangela bezentlalo kwaye ixhasa amaqabane angenzi nzuzo afana ne-Girls Who Code kunye neeNtsapho eziziNdawonye. (Eyeleleneyo: UPhilipps oxakekileyo uneZinto ezintle zokuthetha malunga nokutshintsha iHlabathi)

Yintoni eqale nge-t-shirt enye yentsholongwane 'yoMfazi oBonakalayo' -njengoko ibonwa kuyo yonke indumasi oyilandelayo- ikhule yaba liphulo elinemisebenzi emininzi enceda ukuxhasa uluhlu olubanzi lwamanyathelo afike ngexesha, njenge- # 1600 Men. I-ICYMI, i-Phenomenal Woman Action Campaign ikhuphe iphepha elipheleleyo kwintengiso ye- INew York Times ngokutyikitywa kwamadoda ayi-1,600 abonisa inkxaso yawo kuChristine Blasey Ford nakubo bonke abasindileyo ekuhlaselweni ngokwesondo, benika imbeko kwisibhengezo sika-1991 esatyikitywa ngabasetyhini abamnyama abali-1,600 bexhasa uAnita Hill.

Sithethe nomtshintshi malunga nento emkhuthazayo ukuba ajike isikipa sibe ngumbutho wobulungisa kwezentlalo, ukukhulisa iintombi kusapho olunobulungisa kwezentlalo, kunye nendlela yokungena kumlweli wangaphakathi wakho.

Ibali elingemva kwesikipa ‘soMfazi oPhenomenal’

"Njengabantu abaninzi abaphuma kunyulo luka-2016, bendiziva ndinxunguphele kwaye ndingenakuzinceda ngokwesiphumo esasijongene naso.Impembelelo yoku yavela ekucingeni, 'ndingenza ntoni njengomntu ngamnye kweli xesha lobumnyama?' Ndingumntu okhe wabandakanyeka kwezopolitiko ubomi bam bonke [umama wakhe uMaya wayengumcebisi omkhulu kaHillary Clinton kwaye umakazi wakhe uKamala ngumgqatswa kugqatso lukamongameli lwango-2020] kwaye nam ndandiziva ngathi, 'wow, ndingenza ntoni apha? ' Kwaye ke xa kwenzeka uMatshi wabasetyhini, kwaye andizange ndikwazi ukuhamba ngenxa yokuba ndandinosana ngelo xesha, kodwa ndandifuna ukuba yinxalenye yalo ngandlela-thile. Ndiye ndacinga ukuba, kuthekani ukuba ndenze izikipa? Bendifuna ukuhlonipha abantu ababhinqileyo ababengaphambi kwethu abavule indlela yokuba isizukulwana sethu sibenalo mzuzu wembali-ibingomnye woqhankqalazo olukhulu kwimbali-ke ibiyindlela yokuqonda amandla aloo mzuzu.

(Idibeneyo: Dibana noNoreen Springstead, uMfazi osebenzela ukuphelisa iNdlala yeHlabathi)

Abasetyhini abaMphefumlelayo kwiNtshukumo yakhe

"Igama uPenomenal Woman liphefumlelwe nguMaya Angelo, obhalileyo Umfazi oBonakalayo, umbongo endiwuthandayo. Abantu abaninzi bayamazi njengembongi nombhali, kodwa wayelitshantliziyo elinobukroti kwaye wayengumhlobo olungileyo noMalcolm X. Ukucinga ngabafazi abanjengaye nomama wam (umama ebesenza lo msebenzi ejikeleza ubulungisa bobuhlanga ngasemva ngaphandle fanfare ubomi bakhe bonke, ngokwenene), Ndaba oku ukuqonda ukuba amaxesha amaninzi ngabafazi abamnyama ngubani amanani ezifihlakeleyo ezikhokelela ezi ntshukumo. Ndifuna ukucinga ngendlela esinokubabeka kwaye sibabhiyozele ngayo kwaye siqonde ukuba silapha simi emagxeni abo ngenxa yabo.

Umakhulu wam wayeyinto enkulu ebomini bam nakubomi bukamama nomakazi. Ufundise umntu ngamnye kuthi ukuba, ewe, singayenza le nto, kodwa sinoxanduva lokwenza oku. Sinoxanduva lokubonisa emhlabeni ngentsingiselo kunye nenjongo kunye nokuzinikela ekwenzeni okuhle. Kwaye ukusebenzisa naliphi na ilungelo esinalo lokwenza utshintsho oluqinisekileyo kunye nokuphazamisa inkqubo yengcinezelo. Umakhulu wam wayengumzekelo ongaqhelekanga wokuphila ngokuchasene nezinto zemihla ngemihla. Andiqondi nje kuphela indlela endandinethamsanqa ngayo ekukhuleni kuloo meko, kodwa nendlela eyayihlukile ngayo. "

Njani ihempe eguqukayo yaba yintshukumo

"Bendicinga ukuba ndiza kwenza iihempe ezingama-20 okanye ezinye ndizithumele kunye nabahlobo bam. Bandithumele iifoto [ukusukela nge-Matshi yabaseTyhini] zinekhephu ngasemva kwiivenkile zabo behamba beqhankqalaza kwaye beyeyona mifanekiso inamandla Ndabona ukusukela ngonyulo. wow, le yinto. Kwaye emva koko, ngokuqinisekileyo, xa sithe sathatha inyathelo lokusungula iphulo elijikelezayo, abantu abangama-25 bathenga iihempe. Endaweni yokuba ndithi 'kulungile, siphumelele injongo yethu, mandibuyele kubomi bam besiqhelo,' ndacinga 'inkomo engcwele, kufuneka ndiqhubeke ndikhula oku, akunjalo? Ngokwenene sinento ethile apha.' Ukuguqula into endicinga ukuba yayilixesha lokuphelelwa lithemba kwaye eyona nto yayisoyikeka kubantu abaninzi ibe ngumzuzu wombhiyozo kunye nokuphakamisa abafazi, kwaye bathi abafazi bayomelela kwaye bayamangalisa ngeendlela zabo ngabanye kwaye, kunye, singakwazi. dlula kule nto-yiyo ngokwenene yintoni eyandikhuthaza ukuba ndizibophelele kweli xesha elide.

Ke, sisuka kwinyanga enye saya kumqhubi wenqwelo moya weenyanga ezintathu, ngelo xesha siphela sele sithengisa ngaphezulu kweehempe ezili-10,000. Kwaye ngoku ndilapha, ngaphezu kweminyaka emibini enesiqingatha kamva, ndithetha ngayo. Khange ndicinge ukuba ingayinto enkulu kunenyanga enye. "

Ukuphakamisa Abasetyhini abanoMbala

"Le miba ifunyenwe ngokwahlukileyo kuluntu olwahlukeneyo, ngoko ke yayiyinxalenye enkulu yesicwangciso. Andizange ndifune ukufaka isandla kwimibutho eyaziwayo kakhulu efana nePlanned Parenthood okanye Girls Who Code, kodwa kunye nemibutho emincinci, uninzi lwabo. ziqhutywa ngabafazi abanemibala abangafumani mali kakuhle kodwa abenza owona msebenzi ubalaseleyo nobaluleke kakhulu emhlabeni.Ndandifuna ukwazisa abantu ngaleminye imibutho efana neqela le-Essie Justice, umbutho ozinikeleyo ukunceda abasetyhini ababathandayo abavalelweyo okanye iZiko leLizwe leLatina lezeMpilo yokuzala, elijolise ikakhulu kuluntu lwaseLatino.

Sifuna ukufumana indlela enqamlezileyo kwaye sicinge ngabantu abangaphantsi kokumelwa kunye namabali angahlali eyinxalenye yencoko yababini. Sifuna ukusebenzisa iqonga lethu kunye nefuthe lethu ukukhanyisa amava oluntu olwahlukeneyo, ngakumbi xa sijikeleze abasetyhini abanemibala. Umzekelo, uninzi lwabantu luyazi uSuku lokuHlawula ngokuLinganayo, olwenzeka ngo-Epreli, kwaye lumele inani leentsuku ekufuneka bonke abantu basetyhini basebenze kulo nyaka uzayo ukuze bafikelele kwimali yokuhlawula kunye noko kwamkelwe ngamadoda kunyaka ongaphambili. Kodwa uninzi lwabantu aluqondi ukuba umsantsa ubanzi kakhulu kubafazi abanemibala, ke senza iphulo malunga noMhla wokuHlawula oLinganayo waBasetyhini abaMnyama, ongenzekanga de kube sekupheleni kuka-Agasti. "

(Izinto eziNxulumeneyo: I-9 yabasetyhini abaneeProjekthi zabo eziNcedayo ziNcedisa ukutshintsha iHlabathi)

Ukuphendula ngexesha lamaxesha ongxamiseko

"NgoMhla woMama, sasungula iphulo elibizwa ngokuba nguMama wePhenomenal ngokubambisana neFamily Belongs Together, esabela kwintlekele yobuntu kumda ojikeleze ukwahlukana kosapho. Elo phulo lalimalunga nokuphendula ngalo mzuzu kunye nokutsalela ingqalelo yabantu emva komcimbi kwaye Ukubonisa ukuba le yingxaki eqhubekayo.Sikwafuna ukuwasebenzisa ukuqonda amandla, hayi kwaba mama kuphela ababeka ubomi babo esichengeni ngenxa yabantwana babo kodwa nabomama abaqhelekileyo.Kwaye kwacaca kum ukuba yingxaki umba ochukumise ngokwenene oomama, ndicinga ngezizathu ezicacileyo- ucinga ukuba abantwana bakho bakrazulwa ezingalweni zakho.

Singaqhubeka nokuhlulahlula ngokwentlalo kunye nemicimbi eyahlukeneyo, kodwa sikwalilizwi elinyanzelekileyo kulawo maxesha ongxamiseko ... Imiba esinokuyisebenzisa. Ndicinga ukuba ngomnye wemiceli mngeni yam — ushukuma ngokukhawuleza kwaye uza kukhupha umba, ngakumbi ngeli xesha apho uziva ngathi kukho umcimbi omtsha suku ngalunye. Kukho intlekele entsha, uluntu olutsha oluhlaselwa. Kithina, iNyakatho yeNkwenkwezi kukuba kukudibana esikubalulayo, imiba echaphazela amaqela amelweyo kwaye sithetha ngemicimbi ngendlela ongayi kuzibona kwimikhankaso yentengiso yabathengi. "

(Eyeleleneyo: UDanielle Brooks uba nguMzekelo woCeleb awayesoloko enqwenela ukuba unaye)

Ukuba nguMama kwazisa njani ubuzaza bakhe

Andinakutsho ukuba ukuba ngumama kundikhuthaze ukuba ndenze iphulo ngokuyimfuneko, kodwa lenzile kwaye iyaqhubeka indenza ndicinge ngohlobo lwemodeli endiyibekela iintombi zam kwaye, ngokungafihlisiyo, ndingasondela njani kangangoko ndinako. kwinto eyenziwa ngumakhulu, into eyenziwa ngumama, eyazi ukuba yintoni impembelelo engakholelekiyo kum kunye nendlela eyakhiwe ngayo ukuba ndivezwe ukuthetha ngobulungisa bentlalontle ndisemncinci. Ukuba ngumzali, zininzi izinto ezingaziwayo kwaye ukugcina abantwana bakho bephila kunzima ngokwaneleyo, kungasathethwa ke ngokuzama ukuba neenjongo zokuba, 'ndilukhulisa njani usapho lwam olunobulungisa kwezentlalo?' Ndicinga ukuba uninzi, umzekelo, oomama beminyaka eliwaka nabo ngokwabo beza kolu hlobo lwesazisi malunga nokusebenza kunye nokuthetha. "

Uyijika njani inkanuko yakho ibe yinjongo

“Qala nje ndaweni ithile. Sikulo mzuzu apho kukho imiba engasikelwanga mda onokuyisongelwa. Ndicinga ukuba kunzima kubantu abaninzi kwaye kungoyikisa; yeyam. Njengomntu obandakanyekayo kulo msebenzi, kuvakala ngathi luhlaselo oluqhubekayo kwaye ndicinga ukuba ukwenza oku kwaye ukwenze ngempumelelo, kufuneka uthathe ixesha lakho lokuqwalasela into oyithandayo: Yintoni ekwenza ufune ukufumana. uphume ebhedini kusasa? Yintoni ekwenza ube nomsindo ngokwenene? Yintoni ekwenza uzive ngathi yinto engenabulungisa, ekwenza ukuba wehle iinyembezi xa ufunda ngayo kwiphephandaba kwaye uziva ngathi isidingo ukwenza into? Kwaye ke imalunga nokuqonda ukuba sonke siphila ubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla, kwaye andilindelanga ukuba ube litshantliziyo elisisigxina, kodwa uzibonakalisa njani ngendlela engaguqukiyo, enentsingiselo? Yile nto ke umyalezo wethu uphela: Imalunga nokudibana nabantu apho bakhoyo. "

(Izinto eziNxulumeneyo: Abaseki beSaalt Menstrual Cups bayakukwenza ube nenzondelelo malunga nokuZinziseka, uKhathalelo lweXesha elifikelelekayo)

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