Le Meteorologist ibonakalise eyona mpendulo ilungileyo kumaShame Shows ilula: 'Ntombazana, Bye'

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Abantu uthando ukugxeka umntu wezulu (okanye, ahem, ubusazulu) ngokungalindelekanga kwemozulu. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umsebenzi wabo kukunika olona qikelelo lwayo lokuba uMama Wendalo uza kwenza ntoni (kwaye sonke siyazi ukuba wenza into yakhe iipesenti ezingama-99 zexesha). Ngalo lonke umqolo abasele bejongene nawo, ungacinga ukuba uluntu luya kubasindisa kwizimvo ezingacelwanga malunga nezinto ezingabalulekanga njengokubonakala kwabo.

Hayi.

U-Molly Matott, i-meteorologist e-Syracuse, i-NY-based CNY Central ukususela ngo-Aprili 2015 kunye nomfundi osandul 'ukuphumelela kwiYunivesithi yaseNew York e-Oswego, wabelane ngempendulo yakhe ye-epic kwi-comments ye-body shamer engacelwanga malunga nokukhetha kwakhe kwempahla kunye "ne-underar boob fat."

Umbukeli uthumele nge-imeyile uMatot ngezi zimvo zilandelayo, ngokwe NAMHLA:

Andazi, ewe, ngubani onxiba uMolly kwaye andizami kuthetha (b) ukuthetha kakubi okanye ukungabi nabubele kodwa indlela anxibe ngayo namhlanje ikhangeleka ngathi ufike ngqo ebusuku eze edolophini eze kusebenza! ... Usizi olulungileyo, yiba nomhombiso omncinci kwaye ungazibeki phantsi kwaye uzilondoloze kwisinxibo sakho. Zininzi izinto ezenzekayo apha kwaye akukho nanye kuzo elungileyo, uluhlu luvela kumanqatha angaphantsi kwekhwapha, ukuhombisa ubucwebe, ukungqubana ngombala, KUNYE nokuthambisa .... ndivule nje umabonwakude ndaza ndashukunyiswa ukuba ndiphinde ndibone konke oku kuqhubeka ngale ntsasa yangoMgqibelo! "

Um, inombolo yokuqala: ngokuthumela izimvo ezimbi ezingacelwanga malunga nenkangeleko yakhe, wena zi ukuba ngqwabalala nokungabi nabubele, nokuba "uyazama" okanye hayi.Eyesibini: ukusukela nini xa ulusu lwengalo lomnye umntu ulishishini lakho? Ukuba impahla ekuthethwa ngayo yile ikwi-tweet engezantsi (engacacanga kwezinye iingxelo), siqinisekile ukuba ukubonakala kuya kubhabha nakweyiphi na iofisi kwilizwe liphela.

UMatott uthumele i-tweet apha ngasentla, ehlekisa ngobuso bakhe be- # screengrab, ke akabonakali ngathi luhlobo lokuthatha kakhulu. Cue, impendulo yakhe ye-epic ye-Instagram (engasasebenziyo esidlangalaleni). Ngaphambi kokuba atshintshele ngasese, bobabini NAMHLANJE kunye ne-WUSA9 bayithimba kulo lonke uzuko lwayo:

"Umsebenzi wam kukunika uqikelelo lwengqikelelo olungcono noluchaneke ngendlela eqondakalayo. ... Ndiyaxolisa ukuba ukhethe ukugxila kwinkangeleko yam kunye 'namanqatha angaphantsi kwengalo' endaweni yoko. Mhlawumbi kwixesha elizayo unqwenela ukubhala umbhalo ombi ngokungeyomfuneko. I-imeyile kwingcali kamabonwakude, nawe ukhumbule ukuba kuncinci, ”ubhale uMatott, ngokutsho TODAY.

Njengokuba ayingomphathi ngokwaneleyo, uMatott emva koko wathumela ezi ngcaciso zingezantsi:

"Ndiziva INDLELA YOKULUNGA ngam namhlanje ukuba ndingaphenduli kule imeyile imbi (ngasentla ngasekhohlo).

"UHLAZIYO: lo mntu uphendule kwaye akayiqondi indlela endisabela ngayo 'kugxeka okwakhayo.' Ntombazana bye."

Siyavuya xa abantu abadumileyo bemelana neentloni zomzimba kodwa, akunjalo lonto ibuyiseka. Ukubona umntu oqhelekileyo (nokuba uyisazi semozulu esinqwenelekayo) ukumela ukugxeka okungakhathaliyo nokungazi kungaphaya kokukhuthaza kuthi. Intombazana, ewe.

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