Ngaba ukunika umntwana wakho ibhotile kubangela ukudideka kwengono?

Umxholo

• Yintoni ukudideka kwengono?
• Iimpawu zokudideka kwengono
• Ungakuphepha njani ukudideka kwengono
• Kuthekani ukuba umntwana wam uyala ukuncancisa?
• Kuthekani ukuba umntwana wam uyala ibhotile?
• Ukuthatha

Ukuncancisa kunye nokondla ngebhotile

Oomama abangabongikazi, ukuba bhetyebhetye ukusuka ekuncanciseni usiya ekuncanciseni ibhotile kwaye ubuye kwakhona kubonakala ngathi liphupha.

Ingayenza imisebenzi emininzi ilula- njengokutya isidlo sangokuhlwa, ukubuyela emsebenzini, okanye ukuthatha ishawa efuneka kakhulu. Kodwa ukuba uphupha ngokwenza le nto ibe yinyani, unokuba neenkxalabo.

Kuthekani ukuba umntwana wakho kunzima ukufunda ukusela kwibhotile? Kuthekani ukuba umntwana wakho uyala ukuncanca ngesiquphe? Kuthekani ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana ukudideka kwengono?

Ngethamsanqa, awudingi ukuba nexhala kakhulu. Uninzi lweentsana alunangxaki ukusuka ebeleni luye ebhotileni, kwaye lubuyele ebeleni. Kodwa gcinani engqondweni ukuba ukuncancisa kukuziphatha okufundwayo. Kungcono ukunqande ukubonelela ngebhotile ngaphambi kokuba nobabini nibe nentembelo kobu buchule.

Nantsi into ekufuneka uyazi malunga nokudideka kwengono kunye nento onokuyenza ukuyiphepha.

Yintoni ukudideka kwengono?

Ukudideka kwengono ligama elibanzi. Ingathetha ngomntwana owalayo ukondla ngebhotile, okanye umntu ozama ukuncancisa ngendlela efanayo abondla ngayo kwibhotile. Kwintsana, isenzo sokonga sibandakanya intshukumo elungelelanisiweyo yomlomo kunye nomhlathi.

Ngapha koko, ezi ntshukumo zahlukile kwisenzo sokuncancisa. Kwinto eyenziwa ziintsana ukuba ibonakale ilula, kuninzi okuqhubekayo.

NgokweNkqubo yePhulo leSizwe lezeNzululwazi, ezi ziindlela zokuncancisa:

• Ukuncamathisela kakuhle ebeleni, umntwana uvula umlomo wakhe ubanzi kakhulu ukuze ingono kunye nenxalenye enkulu yethishu yomzimba ifikelele nzulu ngaphakathi.
• Usana lusebenzisa ulwimi kunye nomhlathi ongezantsi ukwenza izinto ezimbini ngaxeshanye: bamba izicubu zamabele endaweni ethe nca kuphahla lomlomo wazo, kwaye wenze umkhombe phakathi kwengono kunye ne-areola.
• Iintsini zosana zixinanisa ii-areola kunye nolwimi lwazo luhamba ngesingqi ukusuka ngaphambili ukuya ngasemva ukukhupha ubisi.

Ukusela kwibhotile akufuneki ubuchule obufanayo. Ubisi luya kugeleza nokuba umntwana wenza ntoni ngenxa yomxhuzulane. Xa umntwana ezondla ngebhotile:

• Akunyanzelekanga ukuba bavule umlomo wabo ngokubanzi okanye benze itywina eliqinileyo ngemilebe evulekileyo ngokufanelekileyo.
• Akukho mfuneko yokuzoba ingono yebhotile nzulu emlonyeni wabo, kwaye akukho sidingo sokwenza ubisi ngasemva kolwimi.
• Banokuncanca kuphela ngemilebe okanye "ngentsini" kwingono yerabha.
• Ukuba ubisi luhamba ngokukhawuleza okukhulu, umntwana angalunqanda ngokutyhala ngolwimi lwakhe phezulu naphambili.

Iimpawu zokudideka kwengono

Ukuba umntwana uzama ukuncancisa ngendlela efanayo atya ngayo kwibhotile, banokwenza oku kulandelayo:

• tyhala ulwimi lwabo ngelixa bencanca, olunokutyhala ingono iphume emlonyeni wabo
• ukusilela ukuvula umlomo wabo ngokwaneleyo ngexesha le-latch (kule meko, abanakufumana ubisi oluninzi, kwaye iingono zoonina ziya kuba buhlungu kakhulu)
• Baphoxeke ubisi lukanina alufumaneki kwangoko kuba kuthatha umzuzu okanye emibini yokuncancisa ukukhuthaza ukubuyela umva

Imeko yokugqibela inokuba ngumcimbi kusana oludala. Omnye umzekelo lusana olunobisi lukamama alufumaneki ngokulula ngenxa yotshintsho lwenkqubo efana nokubuyela emsebenzini.

Ukuhlala ixesha elide phakathi kokuncancisa kunokunciphisa ubisi lwakho. Usana lungaqala ukubonisa ukuthanda ukukhawuleza kunye nokulula kwebhotile.

Ungakuphepha njani ukudideka kwengono

Eyona ndlela yokuphepha ukudideka kwengono kukulinda ukwazisa iibhotile de kube ukuncancisa kusekwe kakuhle. Oku kuhlala kuthatha indawo phakathi kweeveki ezine ukuya kwezintandathu.

Unokwazi ukwazisa i-pacifier kungekudala, kodwa kungcono ukulinda de ubisi lwakho lubonelelwe kwaye umntwana wakho uphinde abuyele ubunzima bokuzalwa, ngokuqhelekileyo emva kweeveki ezi-3.

Ukuba umntwana wakho unengxaki yokuncancisa emva kokuba ungenise ibhotile, zama ezi ngcebiso.

• Gcina ukuncelisa xa unako. Ukuba oko akunakukhetha, zama ukunciphisa iiseshini zebhotile xa ungekho.
• Qinisekisa ukuba wenza ubuchule bokuncancisa ukuze wena nomntwana wakho nibe nobabini.
• Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakala ekhathazekile ngenxa yokuba ubisi lwakho alufumaneki ngokulula, lungisa loo nto ngokupompoza kancinci ukutsiba-ukuqala kokuyekisa ingqondo ngaphambi kokuba umncancise.
• Musa ukulinda ade umntwana wakho ahluthe ukuze ancancise. Zama ukuyenza ixesha ukuze nobabini nibe nomonde wokulungisa izinto.

Kuthekani ukuba umntwana wam uyala ukuncancisa?

Kwimeko yosana oludala olubonisa ukuthanda ibhotile ngaphezu kwebele, gcina ubisi lwakho lubhobhoza ngokumpompa rhoqo xa ungekho.

Xa nikunye, yenza ixesha lokondla ubudlelwane bakho bokuncancisa. Umongikazi rhoqo xa usekhaya nosana lwakho, kwaye ugcine ukutya kwebhotile xa ungekho.

Kuthekani ukuba umntwana wam uyala ibhotile?

Ukuba umntwana wakho uyala ukondla kwibhotile ngokupheleleyo, kukho izinto ezimbalwa onokuthi uzame. Jonga ukuba iqabane lakho okanye umakhulu notatomkhulu angamnika umntwana wakho ibhotile. Ukuba oko akunakukhetha, zama ukugcina iiseshoni zokutyisa ibhotile ngoxinzelelo oluphantsi.

Qinisekisa umntwana wakho, kwaye ugcine imeko yokudlala kunye nokukhanya. Zama ukulingisa ukuncancisa kangangoko unako. Qiniseka ukuba kuninzi ukukhehla kunye nokunxibelelana kwamehlo. Ungalutshintshela usana lwakho kwelinye icala icala lokutyisa ukuze ulutshintshe. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyacaphuka, phumla.

Zama ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zeengono, nazo. Khangela abo baya kunika umntwana wakho ubisi olwaneleyo ukuze bahlale benomdla. Nje ukuba umntwana wakho avezwe kwibhotile kwaye aqonde ukuba lolunye uhlobo lokondla, ngekhe kuthathe ixesha elide ukuba bangene ebhodini ngombono.

Ukuthatha

Kukho izixhobo ezikhoyo ukuba ufuna uncedo lokuhamba ngebhotile- okanye ukuncancisa. Thetha nogqirha wakho ukuba ufuna ingcebiso kumcebisi wezokuncancisa, okanye fikelela kwisahluko sakho saseLa Leche League International.