Izinto ezi-8 endifuna ukuba abantwana bam bazikhumbule malunga nexesha lokuvalwa kwehlabathi

Umxholo

• Mhlawumbi i-hankies ayisiyonto ingaqhelekanga emva kwayo yonke loo nto
• Qhubeka wenze loo vidiyo yeTikTok
• Amabali akho abalulekile
• Umhle unje ngalendlela uyiyo
• Akusoloko ngawe
• Ukuxabisa ngcono oko kutya kutafile yakho
• Unamandla kunokuba ucinga
• Ulithemba lam

Sonke siya kuba neenkumbulo zethu, kodwa kukho izifundo ezimbalwa endifuna ukuqiniseka ukuba ziyahamba nazo.

Ngenye imini, ndiyathemba ukuba ixesha lokuvalwa kwehlabathi libali nje endinokuthi ndixelele abantwana bam ngalo.

Ndiza kubaxelela malunga nexesha ababephume ngalo esikolweni kunye nendlela abandichukumise ngayo ngeeshedyuli zabo zasekhaya. Indlela endandikuthanda ngayo ukubona ubuchule babo ekhaya, njengekhonsathi ababeyibeka kwigumbi lethu lokuhlala, imidlalo abayenzileyo xa i-intanethi iphuma, kunye nezinto zokulala ezimnandi ababenazo kumagumbi abo ebusuku.

Nje ukuba babe badala, ndiza kuthi ndivume kubo ezinye zeendawo ezinzima endizishiyileyo ebalini.

Malunga nokuba umakhulu wabo wandibiza njani xa efumana iphepha langasese evenkileni ngokungathi yayiyintsasa yeKrisimesi, emva koko walila kwindlela yethu kuba wayengakwazi ukubanga. Nokuba ukufumana i-imeyile zethu kwakungathi sibeka ubomi bethu emngciphekweni, kwaye indlela ekhathazeke ngayo mna notata wabo, nangona sizamile ukwenza ukuba kube lixesha lokonwaba kunye kunye ngenxa yabo.

Ndiyathemba ukuba siza kufika kwindawo apho eli xesha ebomini bethu liba yimemori ekude, "inyuka yomibini le ndlela" ibali lexesha elidlulileyo esinokuphinda silibalise.

Kodwa inyani kukuba, nokuba kuyenzeka, ndiyazi ukuba la mava atshintshe iintsapho zethu - {textend} kunye nendlela engumzali- {textend} unaphakade.

Kuba le ntsholongwane isitshintshile. Eli xesha litshintshile mna.

Abantwana bam basenokungaqondi okwangoku, kodwa nantsi into endiza kubaxelela yona kwixa elizayo, njengomzali emva kwesifo:

Mhlawumbi i-hankies ayisiyonto ingaqhelekanga emva kwayo yonke loo nto

Eli xesha livule amehlo kwaye endaweni yoko kuyamangalisa ukufumanisa ukuba lingakanani iphepha lasendlini yangasese eliqhekezayo elisetyenziswa yintsapho esi-7 yonke imihla (ndiyathetha, ngekhe ulubale usana okwangoku, kodwa ezisi-7 zivakala zinomtsalane, ke Ndiyahamba naleyo).

Bendihlala ndicinga ukuvuthela impumlo yakho nge hankie ngumkhwa ombi wabantu abadala, kanti uyazi? Ndiyifumana ngoku. Ndiyayifumana Okuninzi.

Qhubeka wenze loo vidiyo yeTikTok

Ngeli xesha lokungaqiniseki, ndikhunjuzwe ukuba i-intanethi inokuba sisixhobo sokudibanisa sonke, kuba ngamanye amaxesha, sidinga ukukhanya kancinci phakathi kwenyani.

Kubonakala ngathi kusisidenge, kodwa abantu abathathe ixesha lokwenza i-meme endihlekisileyo okanye ividiyo yeTikTok endincedileyo ukuba ndisuse ingqondo yam kwinqanaba lokufa kwehlabathi okomzuzu nje ukuze ndilale ebusuku ngamagorha kum ngoku.

P.S. Ukuba umntwana wam oneminyaka eli-11 ufunda oku: Hayi, awungekhe ube nayo ifowuni okwangoku, uxolo ukuba oko bekudida.

Amabali akho abalulekile

Ndingumbhali, ke bendihlala ndikholelwa kumandla amagama - {textend} kodwa ngoku, kunakuqala, ndiyakhunjuzwa ukuba ngamaxesha obunzima, amabali ethu yeyona nto ibalulekileyo.

Ugqirha we-ER ethetha ephuma kwisibhedlele sakhe apho ilori efrijiweyo ibambe izidumbu, amabali abongikazi azisongele kwiingxowa zenkunkuma kwilinge elibuthathaka lokukhusela, amabali eentsapho athe ajongana nentsholongwane kunye - {textend} zezi Amabali angena ezintliziyweni zethu, angena kwiingqondo zethu, kwaye asikhuthaze ukuba sithathe amanyathelo.

Amabali akho anamandla. Baxelele.

Umhle unje ngalendlela uyiyo

Esi inokuba sisifundo ngakumbi kwintombi yam kunonyana wam, ohlala ekhetha iimpahla zangaphantsi entlokweni yakhe njengefashoni, kodwa lo bhubhane unefuthe elothusayo lokusiphinda sibuyele kwisiseko sethu kwakhona.

Akukho mntu uya kuphakamisa nabani na, akukho hambo ukuya esalon, akukho zandiso ze-eyelash okanye ii-microblading elimiselweyo, akukho waxing okanye ukutshiza iitani okanye indawo yokuthenga eUlta.

Kwaye kuye kwathi gqi isiqabu? Ndiyathemba ukuba yinto abantwana bam abanokubambelela kuyo njengoko bekhula, kuba iya kubonisa nje, awudingi nyani ukuba ibe yeyona nto intle kuwe.

Akusoloko ngawe

Ukuba le ntsholongwane isifundise nantoni na, ndiyathemba ukuba ngumyalezo wokuba ubomi bukhulu kunawe.

Uninzi lwethu lwaxelelwa kwasekuqaleni ukuba ukunqanda ukusasazeka kwentsholongwane kuye kwafuneka sihlale emakhaya, kwaye saluthobela olo bizo. Ayisiyiyo kuphela yokuzikhusela, kodwa nokukhusela abanye.

Ngamanye amaxesha, kuya kufuneka ujonge owona mfanekiso mkhulu ukuze wenze okulungileyo.

Ukuxabisa ngcono oko kutya kutafile yakho

Kude kube ngoku, usapho lwethu- {textend} kwaye ikakhulu ilizwe lethu lilonke- {textend} isebenze ngokulula.

Ulambile? Ungacofa iqhosha kwaye uhambise ukutya endlwini yakho. Kodwa ngoku, izinto zahluke kakhulu. Kuye kwafuneka sithathe inyathelo emva kwaye siphinde sivavanye ngokupheleleyo indlela esizondla ngayo iintsapho zethu.

Ngaba ngenene sifuna ukuyithenga le bhokisi ineswekile yokutya okuziinkozo nge- $ 4, okanye yile tub enkulu ye-oatmeal enokusondla iiveki kukuthenga okungcono? Ngaba kufanelekile ukuba semngciphekweni wokuya kwivenkile yokutya uze ulwele ibele lokugqibela lenkuku evenkileni ngoku? Kwaye uhlengahlengisa njani xa indlela yakho yesiqhelo yokuthenga okanye yoku-odola nje ingenakwenzeka kwakhona?

Inqaku leli, ngokokuqala ngqa kwixesha elide, uninzi lwethu lunyanzelwe ukuba luqonde ukuba ukutya akuveli nje ngomlingo - {textend} kukho uthotho olude lomsebenzi ongabonakaliyo othabatha ukufikelela kwiipleyiti zethu.

Xa ngequbuliso ungaqinisekanga ukuba loo khonkco iza kubamba, uqala ukuxabisa into onayo ngaphezulu kakhulu. Isizukulwana #finishyourplate sizalisile. Owu, kwaye kwakhona, tyala igadi ukuba unako.

Unamandla kunokuba ucinga

Ngokwenene, unguye.

Unokwenza izinto ezinzima. Kwaye xa usenza ezo zinto zinzima, kulungile ukuba uvume ukuba zinzima, kuba oko akukwenzi ube buthathaka.

Ulithemba lam

Ukubona ngoku, ekhaya, ubumsulwa bobuntwana obugqunywe kuwe, kundinika ithemba ngekamva.

Ndiyayibona indlela owomba ngayo emhlabeni, unomdla kwizidalwa ezingabonakaliyo emanzini echibi emva kokuba sithethe ngesifundo malunga neentsholongwane, kwaye ndicinga ukuba usisazinzulu kwimigca engaphambili yonyango lwesinye isigulo ngenye imini.

Ndiyaliva ilizwi lakho elimnandi licula kwaye ndizithobile yindlela umculo onokuyichukumisa ngayo imiphefumlo nokuba iphi.

Ndikubukele umbala onoxinzelelo olunje kwaye ndiyazibuza ukuba ngaba ngaminazana ithile uyakutyikitya imithetho isebenze ngokugxila okufanayo kunye nokuzimisela.

Ndiyathemba kuba usisizukulwana esiza kuphuma kulo bhubhane, sibunjwe kwaye senziwe zizifundo esikufundise zona.

Ndiyathemba kuba ngaphandle kwelixesha apho umhlaba wasivalelayo, eyona nto ibalulekileyo- {textend} ukuba nonke kunye - {textend} ayikaze ibe ngcwele ngakumbi.

UChaunie Brusie ngumongikazi wezabasebenzi kunye nonikezelo wajika waba ngumbhali kunye nomama omtsha osandula kuvezwa wabantwana abahlanu. Ubhala ngayo yonke into ukusuka kwezemali ukuya kwezempilo ukuba uphile njani ngezo ntsuku zokuqala zobuzali xa konke onokukwenza kukucinga ngako konke ukulala ongakufumaniyo. Mlandele apha.