Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuba umntwana uwile ebhedini

Umxholo

• Kwenziwe ntoni
• Nini ukuya kwigumbi likaxakeka

Ukuba umntwana uwela ebhedini okanye ebhedini, kubalulekile ukuba umntu ahlale ezolile kwaye amthuthuzele umntwana ngelixa kuvavanywa usana, ejonga iimpawu zokonzakala, ukuba bomvu okanye ukutyumka, umzekelo.

Iintsana nabantwana abancinci, bengazi ukuphakama, banokuqengqa ebhedini okanye esofeni okanye bawe kwizitulo okanye kubahambi. Nangona kunjalo, amaxesha amaninzi ayisiyongozi kwaye akuyomfuneko ukuthatha usana kugqirha wabantwana okanye kwigumbi likaxakeka, elinconywa kuphela xa umntwana wopha, ekhala kakhulu okanye ephulukana nokuqonda.

Kwenziwe ntoni

Ke, ukuba umntwana uwela ebhedini, ibhedi okanye isitulo, umzekelo, kufuneka kwenziwe ntoni kubandakanya:

1. Hlala uzolile kwaye umthuthuzele umntwana: kubalulekile ukuhlala uzolile kwaye ungabizi kwangoko ugqirha wabantwana okanye uthathe usana esibhedlele, kuba ukuwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba akubanga kukonzakala. Ukongeza, umntwana ufuna uthando ukuze azole, ayeke ukukhala kwaye umntu onoxanduva lomntwana angavavanya ngcono;
2. Vavanya imeko yomzimba womntwana: jonga iingalo zomntwana, imilenze, intloko nomzimba wakhe ukubona ukuba akukho ukudumba na, ukuba bomvu, kukutyumka, okanye kukhubazeka. Ukuba kukho imfuneko, khulula umntwana;
3. Faka isicelo kwingqalutye yomkhenkce kwimeko yokubomvu okanye i-hematoma: umkhenkce unciphise ukujikeleza kwegazi kuloo ndawo, ukunciphisa i-hematoma.Ingqalutye yomkhenkce kufuneka ikhuselwe ngelaphu kwaye ifakwe kwisiza sehematoma, kusetyenziswa iintshukumo ezijikelezayo, ukuya kuthi ga kwimizuzu eli-15, iphinde iphinde isetyenziswe kwiyure enye kamva.

Nokuba akukho zimpawu okanye zimpawu zihambelana nokuwa eziqwalaselweyo ngexesha lokuvavanywa, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana agcinwe yonke le mini ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuba akukho kuphuhliswa kwemivimbo okanye ubunzima bokuhambisa nawaphi na amalungu, kuba umzekelo. Kwaye, kwezi meko, kufuneka ubonane nogqirha wabantwana ukuba ukhokelwe kwinto ekufuneka yenziwe.

Nini ukuya kwigumbi likaxakeka

Kuyacetyiswa ukuba uye kwigumbi likaxakeka xa iimpawu kunye neempawu zibonwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba usana lwenze ingozi. Kucetyiswa ukuba uye esibhedlele xa:

• Ubukho benxeba elophayo liyabonwa;
• Kukho ukudumba okanye ukukhubazeka kwiingalo okanye emilenzeni;
• Usana luyaqhwalela;
• Usana luyagabha;
• Kukho ukukhala okukhulu okungaphumiyo nentuthuzelo;
• Kukho ukulahleka kwengqondo;
• Usana alushukumisi iingalo okanye imilenze;
• Usana lwaluzolile, lungenaluhlu kwaye lungaphenduli emva kokuwa.

Ezi mpawu zinokubonisa ukuba umntwana wenzakele entloko, ngakumbi ukuba uyabetha entloko, wophuke ithambo, wenzakele okanye enzakele kwilungu kwaye, ke, kufuneka asiwe kwigumbi likaxakeka. Bona ezinye iingcebiso kule vidiyo ilandelayo: