Ukuququzelela Igumbi Lam Kugcine Ukucoceka Kwam Ngexesha Lesifo saseCoronavirus

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Izinto azizange zive zisiphithiphithi kangako kunonyaka wonke ka-2020 xa ngokucacileyo yonke into yagqiba kwelokuba ibethe abalandeli ngaxeshanye. Ndiyaphumelela xa ndinolawulo kwixesha lam, ikhalenda yam yentlalontle, isilawuli kude…uyibiza ngegama. Kwaye ngequbuliso ndiyasebenza, ndihlala, kwaye ndilala kwigumbi lam elincinci ngelixa ilizwe elingaphandle ligqibe kwelokuba lisiphithiphithi. Akufuneki ukuthetha, kuye kwaba yiphupha lokulawula into efana nam.

Ezinye iintsuku zingcono kunezinye. Ndiyakuthanda ukusebenza ndisekhaya injana yam yaseBrussels Griffon igoqwe ecaleni kwam. Kodwa ezinye iintsuku zinzima, kwaye ixhala lam liye landa ngenxa yokuhlaselwa rhoqo okubi kunye neendaba ezimbi ngakumbi kwaye ndingakwazi ukubona usapho lwam. Kwaye xa imeko yam yengqondo ihamba iziko elincinci, ke nendawo engqongileyo. Ngokusisiseko, ukungalungelelaniswa kwengqondo yam kuhlala kubonakaliswa ngokwasemzimbeni ngohlobo lokuxinana ... kuyo yonke indawo.

Nabani na ongena kwindlu yam uya kuba nakho ukuxelela okwenzekayo entlokweni yam. Izitya zenziwe? Izinto zokubala zicocekile? Izinto zilungile. Ndisonge umsebenzi wam ngexesha, bendinesidlo esimnandi, kwaye bendinalo ixesha lokubukela isiqendu samva sayo nayiphi na inkqubo yokwenyani eboniswa ngelixa ndicoca ikhitshi ngexesha lentengiso.

Kodwa xa ingelulo usuku oluhle kangako, indawo endihlala kuyo ibonakala ngathi yiloo nto umama ayibiza ngokuba “yindawo yentlekele.” Ayiyo imdaka, nganye, kodwa akukho nto icocekileyo. Mhlawumbi i-imeyile engavulwanga ifunjwe kwenye indawo kwaye zonke izihlangu zam zichithwe phantsi endaweni yokuba zibekwe ngocoselelo. Kubonakala ngathi yonke imihla echithwe kwindawo yokuzihlukanisa ekude ivula ithuba lokungonwabi okubangelwa luxinzelelo.

"Xa abantu benamaxhala, inkqubo yabo yemithambo-luvo ikwisimo esiphakamileyo," ucacisa uKate Balestrieri, uPsy.D, CSAT-S, ugqirha wezonyango novavanyo kwezengqondo. “Oku kuthetha ukuba ungaziva uxakeke ngaphakathi ngaphakathi ziingcinga ezinokuthi zibengaphezulu okanye zikhanyise. Kwaye xa kunjalo, imisebenzi yasekhaya okanye yezempilo inokuwa ecaleni kwendlela. ”

Loo nto yokugqibela ayinakuba yinyani kum, kwaye ngelixa kulungile ngokupheleleyo ukuyeka umgangatho ungatshayelwanga (ngokuqinisekileyo kukho iintlanzi ezinkulu zokuqhotsa ngoku), nje ukuba ifikelele kwinqanaba elithile lokungahlambuluki, eneneni ibangela ukuxhalaba ngakumbi. "Kubantu abacocekileyo, indawo yokuhlala engalungelelananga inokongeza ukoyikeka kwengqondo esele inovalo," ucacisa uBalestrieri. Enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo kuxinzelelo kukuziva ungenamandla, ungenakuzenzela nto, usengozini, okanye ungalawuleki. ” (Eyeleleneyo: Indlela ukuCoca kunye noLungiselelo olunokuyiphucula ngayo impilo yakho yomzimba neyengqondo)

Isisombululo (ubuncinci, kum) yayikukuphuma entlokweni yam kwaye ndithathe inyathelo ukuze ndingaziva nje ngcono kodwa ndiphinde ndibenolawulo oluncinci- into wonke umntu ayifunayo nangakumbi ngoku.

Ndaqala ngewodrophu yam. Ndiyayivumela ukuba iphuphume, kwaye ngoku ibisoloko ingumthombo woxinzelelo endinokuzama ukungahoyi ngalo lonke ixesha kufuneka ndityhalele izinto ngaphakathi. Ndiceba ukuqalisa ukulungiselela ikhabethe lam kwimpelaveki enye xa ndandisazi ukuba isoka lam liza kuphuma indlu, ukuze ndibenexesha elithile ndedwa kunye nomsebenzi owenziweyo.

Inyathelo lam lokuqala: ndatsala iMarie Kondo ndaza ndakhupha yonke into egumbini lam ndayibeka ebhedini yam. Uxinzelelo lokuyibona yonke isasazekile yayininzi kakhulu ekuqaleni, kodwa kwakungekho kubuya mva ngoku. Ndidlale isizini yokuqala ye Oomama bokwenyani beSixeko saseNew York ngasemva ukundinceda ndiphole, emva koko ndahlula iimpahla zam zibe ziimfumba ezintathu: gcina, nikela, kwaye uzame - ukulandela amanyathelo ombhali ka-Anna DeSouza.

Okukhona umfumba omkhulu womnikelo uye waba bhetele. Emva kokunxiba kakhulu i-sweatshirts kunye ne-leggings kulo nyaka, ndiye ndanqumama, ndizibuza ukuba ndingaze ndibenalo na ithuba lokunxiba ijean okanye ilokhwe kwakhona. Noko ke, andizange ndizivumele ezo ngcinga zimbi, ngoko ndenza izigqibo ndaza ndaqhubeka.

Inxalenye nganye ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiyigcine ndibuyele egumbini lam ngononophelo kwaye ndilungiswe ngokwamacandelo- into endiyithathileyo eDeSouza. Ndidlulele kwi dresser yam ne bin zogcino phantsi kwe bed yam bezigcwele izihlangu. Ngaphambi kokuba ndazi, bendisekhitshini ndicima iikhabhathi kwaye ndilahla izinto eziphelelwe lixesha kunye neenkonxa.

Kwiveki elandelayo okanye kunjalo, iyunithi yeeshelufu kwiholo yam engaphambili, ikhabhathi yam yamayeza… indawo nganye yokugcina exineneyo, engahoywanga yalungiswa, kwaye obunye bobunzima boxinzelelo bendibuthwele baqalisa ukuncipha. (Idibeneyo: U-Khloé Kardashian uhlengahlengise iFriji yakhe, kwaye zizinto zohlobo lwe-A-Amaphupha)

Ngoku, indawo apho ndivuka khona, nditye, ndisebenze, ndisebenzise, ​​ndonwabise, kwaye ukulala-ibhamuza yam encinci apho isoka lam, inja yam, kwaye ngoku ndichitha phantse wonke umzuzu ngesiquphe sibuyele kulawulo lwam. Ndiyakwazi ukuphefumla lula. Uloyiko olukhoyo lusabuyisa intloko yalo embi amaxesha ngamaxesha (hee, sisesonyaka wonyulo kunye nobhubhane), kodwa andinazo i sweatshi eziwa ngaphezulu kwentloko yam ngalo lonke ixesha ndivula ikhabhathi yam, yile ukuphumelela! Ekugqibeleni, ndinezinto ezincinci, kwaye ke zimbalwa izinto zokundixinzelela, nokuba ndiziva ngathi ndinolawulo oluncinci lwenzeka ngaphandle kwendlu yam.

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