Ukondla ngebhotile yePasta yokuNcedisa uMntwana oNcancisayo

Umxholo

• Yintoni ukondla ngebhotile?
• Yintoni ekufuneka ndiyenzile ukuHanjiswa kweNgxowa yeBhotile?
• Ngawaphi amanyathelo eKondliwe kweBhotile ePakethi?
• Ngawaphi amanyathelo okhuseleko endifanele ukuwathatha xa ukondla ngebhotile enepasile?
• Ukuthatha

Ukuncancisa kunika uninzi lwezibonelelo kusana lwakho, kodwa ngaphandle kwemiceli mngeni yalo.

Ngokufanelekileyo, ukuba ukwishedyuli yokondla nosana lwakho, kunokwenzeka ngexesha elithile apho unokufuna ukusebenzisa ukutya-ngebhotile ukuzivumela ukuba ubuyele emsebenzini okanye ungabi likhoboka kwishedyuli yakho yokuncancisa.

Umceli mngeni ekondliseni ngebhotile umngcipheko "wokudideka kwengono." Ngelixa inzululwazi yanamhlanje yenze iibhotile zisondele kwinto yokwenene kangangoko, kusekho okuncinci okuthatha indawo yebele. Ukondla ngeebhotile ngokwesiko kulula emntwaneni kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunokuchaphazela amandla okubamba komntwana - enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ekuncanciseni.

Enye indlela yokunciphisa umngcipheko wokudideka kwengono kukusebenzisa indlela yokondla ngebhotile. Ngokuncancisa ibhotile ngokukhawuleza, unokukwazi ukulinganisa ngononophelo.

Yintoni ukondla ngebhotile?

Ukondla ngebhotile ngokwesiko kubandakanya ukunika iintsana iibhotile kunye nokuzivumela ukuba zizisele ngendlela engagungqiyo.

Ngelixa oku kufezekisa umsebenzi wokondla, umntwana uhlala efumana ubisi ngesantya esikhawulezayo kunangexa elincancisa. Oku kunokuchaphazela ukubanakho kosana lokubuyela ebeleni kwaye kubangele nosana ukuba luthathe ubisi oluninzi kakhulu ngokukhawuleza ukuba uphawula ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakala emunca enganqumami esebenzisa indlela yesiko yokuncancisa ibhotile.

Ukondla ngebhotile ngesantya esiphezulu kunciphisa ukondla okulingisa ukuncancisa. Sebenzisa iindlela ezifana nokugcina ingono yebhotile yebhotile izele kwaye uvumele usana ukuba lutsale ingono yebhotile, ukondla okuhamba ngesantya esiphezulu kungabonakala njengokuncancisa.

Yintoni ekufuneka ndiyenzile ukuHanjiswa kweNgxowa yeBhotile?

Ukukhawulezisa ukutya, uyakufuna umthombo wobisi, njengefomula okanye ubisi oluponjiweyo. Uya kufuna kwakhona ibhotile kunye nengono yebhotile. Iinketho ezininzi zeengono ziyafumaneka kwintengiso.

Nangona kunjalo, ukondla okuhamba ngesantya esiphezulu, ingono ebanzi esekwe ngokuthe chu iyacetyiswa. Olu khetho lunokuziva ngathi yingono kanina kusana. Ukuba umntwana wakho unenkathazo yokwamkela olu khetho lwengono, kusenokufuneka uzame enye indlela.

Ngawaphi amanyathelo eKondliwe kweBhotile ePakethi?

Ukukhawulezisa ukondla umntwana wakho, beka umntwana wakho kwindawo ethe tye ngenkxaso eninzi yentloko nentamo. Bamba ngobunono ingono yebhotile emlonyeni wosana lwakho, njengoko ubunokwenza ngexesha leseshoni yokuncancisa.

Xa umntwana wakho evula umlomo, yisa ngobunono ingono yebhotile. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, ungabetha isidlele somntwana ukubakhuthaza ukuba bavule umlomo. Indawo elungileyo iya kuba apho ingono iphezulu kolwimi, enceda ukunciphisa ukungenisa umoya.

Bamba ibhotile ngokungqinelana nomhlaba, kwaye uvumele usana lwakho ukuba luthathe phakathi kwesihlanu nesi-10 seebhotile. Indawo efanayo iya kuvumela ulawulo lokuhamba okungcono. Yitsale kancinci ibhotile ubuye umva apho ingono isachukumisa umlebe ongezantsi.

Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba abuyisele ingono yakhe ngaphakathi, ngokungathi bayakwenza ngexesha lokondla. Olunye ukhetho kukunciphisa ukuthambeka kwebhotile ukucothisa ukuhamba de umntwana wakho aqale ukuncanca nzima.

Khumbula ukubetha umntwana wakho rhoqo ngexesha lokondla. Ungawatshintsha kwakhona amacala umntwana wakho abanjelwe kuwo, anokulinganisa kakhulu ukuncancisa.

Ukutya okunesondlo kufuna ukubukela ngokusondeleyo umntwana wakho kunye neendlela zokutya ezinokubonisa xa kufuneka ubisi olungaphezulu okanye oluncinci, kwaye xa usana lwakho lugqityiwe.

Ngawaphi amanyathelo okhuseleko endifanele ukuwathatha xa ukondla ngebhotile enepasile?

Ngexesha lokuncancisa, usana lukwazi ukulawula ukuba lutyiwa kangakanani kunye nomyinge.

Ukondla ngeebhotile kunokwenza ukuba le nkqubo yahluke, ke kubalulekile ukuba ujonge imiqondiso yokuba usana lwakho luthatha ubisi ngesantya esikhawulezayo. Oku kubandakanya:

• umzimba obonakala ngathi uyaqina
• grimacing ngexesha lokondla
• ukukrwitshwa, ukugagalala, okanye ukuphefumla nzima xa usela
• imilebe ebonakala ijike ibe luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka
• ubisi oluphuphuma emlonyeni
• impumlo
• ukuvula amehlo ngokubanzi

Ukuba uyayibona le miqondiso, yeka ukondla. Ukuba uphinde uqhubeke nokondla, cotha ukuphakama apho ubambe khona ibhotile.

Khumbula ukuba awunyanzelekanga ukuba ugqibezele ibhotile ngalo lonke uhlobo lokondla. Kanye njengokuba usana lwakho lunokuwa ebeleni, umntwana usenokungafuni ukusela bonke ubisi olukhoyo ebhotileni.

Ukuthatha

Njengokuncancisa, ukondla okuhamba ngesantya esiphezulu yindlela elawulwa ngumntwana yokondla umntwana wakho.

Ngokulinganisa ipateni kunye nokuhamba kokuncancisa, umntwana kunokwenzeka ukuba akwazi ukutshintsha phakathi kwebele kunye nebhotile, ukuba uyafuna. Ngokubukela imikhondo yosana lwakho, ukondla okuhamba ngeenyawo kunokubonakala kuyindalo emntwaneni.