Izinto ezili-16 zokwazi malunga nePiquerism

Umxholo

• Yintoni?
• Zeziphi izinto eziqhelekileyo ezisetyenziswayo?
• Zeziphi iindawo zomzimba esijolise kuzo?
• Ngaba kuhlala kusenziwa komnye umntu, okanye kungenziwa nakuwe?
• Ngaba ihlala iyiparaphilia (yesondo)?
• Uvela phi lo mnqweno?
• Ngaba oku kuthathwa njengohlobo lwe-BDSM?
• Ngaba iqhelekile?
• Ngaba ikhuselekile?
• Ngawaphi amanyathelo okhuseleko onokuwathatha?
• Yintoni enokwenzeka ukuba kungathathwa amanyathelo okhuseleko afanelekileyo?
• Ngaba lukhona uphando ngalo?
• Iboniswe njani ngokwembali?
• Ngaba ibonakele kwiindaba zamva nje?
• Ngaba ibonakele kwinkcubeko ye pop?
• Ungafunda phi ngaphezulu?

Yintoni?

I-piquerism ngumdla wokuhlaba, ukunamathela, okanye kungene ngolusu kwizinto ezibukhali-cinga iimela, izikhonkwane, okanye iinzipho. Ngokuqhelekileyo ngokwesondo ngokwemvelo.

Kwiimeko ezinobuzaza, ukubambelela ezimpundu okanye kwilungu lobufazi ngepini kunokwanela ukubonelela ngokwaneliseka.

Eminye imidla, nangona kunjalo, igqithile. Ukulimala kakhulu-kunye nokufa-kunokwenzeka ukuba amanyathelo okhuseleko awathathwanga.

Zeziphi izinto eziqhelekileyo ezisetyenziswayo?

Nantoni na ebukhali inokusetyenziswa. Izikhonkwane, iinzipho, iireyitha, iimela, isikere kunye neepeni zinokukwazi ukungena eluswini.

Abanye abantu abanolu khetho lwesondo banokuthanda izinto ezithile kuphela. Banokukhetha imela ethile okanye iinaliti ezilahlekileyo.

Zeziphi iindawo zomzimba esijolise kuzo?

Ngenxa yokuba i-piquerism ithathwa njengokuzala ngokwesondo, uninzi lweendawo ekujoliswe kuzo zinonxibelelwano ngokwesondo. Oku kuhlala kubandakanya amabele, iimpundu, kunye nokugcuma.

Nangona kunjalo, kwabanye abantu, indawo ayinamsebenzi kangako njengesenzo sokuhlaba isikhumba.

Ngaba kuhlala kusenziwa komnye umntu, okanye kungenziwa nakuwe?

Kwiimeko ezininzi, i-piquerism iyonwabisa kuphela xa isenziwa komnye umntu. Kungenxa yokuba isenzo sokuhlaba okanye ukuhlaba omnye umntu sinokulinganisa ukungena ngokwesondo.

Abanye abantu bayonwaba ngokuzihlaba ngokwabo ngesondo okanye ngaphambili.

Nangona kunjalo, oku akufani nokusika kwaye akufuneki kudidaniswe nokuzenzakalisa.

Ngaba ihlala iyiparaphilia (yesondo)?

Ewe, i-piquerism ithathwa njengoluhlobo lweparaphilia, okanye umnqweno wesini "ongaqhelekanga".

Inokucingelwa njengendlela yoxinzelelo, nayo. Abanye abantu kwiindawo ze-BDSM banokubandakanya i-piquerism kumdlalo wabo wesondo.

Uvela phi lo mnqweno?

Akucaci ukuba kutheni abanye abantu beqala ukwenza ubuqhetseba.

Kwakhona akuqinisekanga ukuba iyaqhubeka isuka kolunye uhlobo lwekink okanye olungekazalwa okanye ukuba ekuqaleni ibonakalisa njengalo mnqweno.

Ngapha koko, akukho phando luye lwajonga ngokukodwa olu khetho lwezesondo ukuqonda ukuba kutheni abanye abantu benalo.

Ngaba oku kuthathwa njengohlobo lwe-BDSM?

Ewe, i-piquerism iwela phantsi kwesambulela se-BDSM njengoluhlobo lwe "edgeplay".

Kwezinye iindlela ze-BDSM, izibini okanye amaqabane asebenza ngokuqonda ukuba umntu ngamnye uya kugcina umdlalo wesondo ukhuselekile kwaye usempilweni. Abayi kucela mngeni okanye batyhale umdlalo kwindawo enobungozi.

Nangona kunjalo, iimfesane ezinjenge-piquerism zinobungozi ngokwendalo. Ukukhuseleka "ngokukhuselekileyo" akunakwenzeka ngenxa yeengozi ezizivelelayo.

Ukuba wonke umntu okwisivumelwano uyabazi ubungozi kwaye uzimisele ukubamkela, banokulungelelanisa isivumelwano sabo.

Kwimeko apho, i-edgeplay ibasa kwimisebenzi enokuthi ibe nemingcipheko eyongezelelweyo.

Ngaba iqhelekile?

I-piquerism ngumdla we-niche. Inokuba yinto eqhelekileyo kuluntu lwe-BDSM ngenxa yomdla okhethekileyo kwi-sadism kunye ne-edgeplay.

Nangona kunjalo, le kink yesini okanye ubuntwana akufane kugutyungelwe kuphando, ke akunakwenzeka ukuba wazi ngokuthe ngqo ukuba bangaphi abantu abanayo.

Ngokunjalo, abantu banokuba neentloni ukuthetha ngayo nayiphi na indlela yokuziphatha ethathwa njenge "engaqhelekanga" okanye "engaqhelekanga," ngoko ke ukuzixela ngokwakho kwezi ndlela zokuziphatha kunokuba nokulinganiselwa.

Ngaba ikhuselekile?

Ubuncwane abukhuselekanga ngokwendalo. Nangaliphi na ixesha ulusu luhlatyiwe, iintsholongwane zinokungena. Oku kunokukhokelela kusulelo kunye neziphumo ezibi.

Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukugqobhoza imithambo yegazi okanye imithambo. Oku kunokukhokelela kwixabiso elikhulu lokulahleka kwegazi, okunokuba yingozi.

Nangona kunjalo, kukho iindlela zokunciphisa ezinye zeengozi.

Nangona ukuthatha amanyathelo okuzikhusela kungabususi bonke ubungozi, amanyathelo athile anokunceda ukunciphisa ezinye zeengozi ezibi kakhulu.

Ngawaphi amanyathelo okhuseleko onokuwathatha?

Ungawunciphisa umngcipheko wosulelo kunye nezinye iingxaki ngokuthatha la manyathelo alandelayo:

• Fumana imvume enolwazi. Kubalulekile ukuba wonke umntu aqonde iingozi ezinokubakho kwaye anxibelelane nayiphi na imida ngaphambi kokuzibandakanya kolu hlobo lokudlala.
• Cofa zonke izinto. Naziphi na izinto oceba ukuzisebenzisa ukukrazula ulusu okanye ukugqobhoza ulusu kufuneka zicocwe. Ungababilisa emanzini okanye ubapheke. Unokuzibulala iintsholongwane usebenzisa ityuwa yamanzi kunye neblitshi, kodwa inzalo ikhethwa ngaphezu kokubulala iintsholongwane.
• Khetha indawo yolusu ngobulumko. Unokusika ngengozi umthambo omkhulu okanye inqanawa ukuba ugqobhoza indawo engalunganga okanye uhlaba ngokunzulu. Oku kunokuba sisongela ubomi. Khetha indawo eneemithambo ezincinci, ezinje ngamabele kunye neempundu.
• Coca ngokucokisekileyo. Emva kokuba umdlalo ugqityiwe, hlamba nawaphi na amabala ahlabileyo okanye usike ngesepha ye-antibacterial kunye namanzi ashushu kwaye wome kakuhle. Faka iyeza lokubulala iintsholongwane ngaphezulu kwamabala, uligqume ngebhandeji, kwaye uliphindaphinde yonke imihla de uphile.

Yintoni enokwenzeka ukuba kungathathwa amanyathelo okhuseleko afanelekileyo?

Nangaliphi na ixesha ulusu lophukile, iintsholongwane zinokungena ngaphakathi. Oku kunokuba sisifo. Ingadinga unyango, kubandakanya neyeza lokubulala iintsholongwane.

Ngokufanayo, nanini na uhlaba okanye uhlaba ulusu, unokusika imithambo yegazi okanye imithambo. Oku kunokukhokelela ekuphulukaneni negazi elinokuba sengozini yobomi okanye libulale.

Ngaba lukhona uphando ngalo?

Nangona kukho iimeko ezininzi ezibhaliweyo zokukrokrelwa kwe-piquerism kwimbali, akukho phando lokwenyani olwenziwe. Ulwazi lwezonyango kunye nezifundo zamatyala azikho.

Oku kwenza ukuba kube nzima ukuqonda ukuba kutheni abanye abantu benolu sana kunye nokuphuhlisa izikhokelo ezisesikweni zomdlalo okhuselekileyo.

Iboniswe njani ngokwembali?

Mhlawumbi esona siganeko sembali sidumileyo se-piquerism sivela kumbulali waseLondon ongasekhoyo kwinkulungwane ye-19 uJack the Ripper.

Ngo-1888, lo mbulali ungaziwayo wabulala abafazi abahlanu kwaye wayenzakalisa imizimba yabo, ehlala ebahlaba okanye ebasika.

Kuhlolisiso lukaJack the Ripper lowama-2005, omnye umphengululi wabhala wathi “ukwenzakala kwamaxhoba kubonisa ukuba utyikityiwe.”

Ngenkulungwane yama-20, umbulali waseRussia, u-Andrei Chikatilo, wayesaziwa ngokuhlaba nokusika amaxhoba ngaphambi kokuba ababulale.

Ukugqobhoza kusenokuba kwamnika ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo. Ekugqibeleni wabulala abantu abangaphezu kwama-50.

Ngaba ibonakele kwiindaba zamva nje?

NgoJuni ka-2007, uFrank Ranieri oneminyaka engama-25 wagwetywa ngokuhlukumeza ngokwesondo njengolwaphulo-mthetho olwenziwa ngokwesondo ngokugqobhoza amantombazana amathathu angaphantsi ezimpundwini ngezinto ezibukhali.

Ngo-2011, i- "Serial Butt Slasher" yenza abathengi eVirginia boyike xa wahlaba amanina alithoba ngeencakuba ezibukhali ezimpundu zawo. Emva koko wagwetywa iminyaka esixhenxe entolongweni.

Ngaba ibonakele kwinkcubeko ye pop?

Iidrama zamapolisa kumabonwakude zihlala ziboleka iindaba kwiintloko zamaphephandaba. Ukubonakala kwale miboniso kunokubangela ukuba abantwana abanqabileyo okanye umdla ubonakale uqhelekile kunokuba benjalo.

Ngo-2001, “Umthetho & Nocwangco: iCandelo eliKhethekileyo lamaxhoba” lalibonisa ubuqhetseba kwisiqendu esibizwa ngokuba yi “Pique.”

Kweli bali, ugqirha wezifo zengqondo we-FBI osebenza namagosa asebupoliseni uyaqonda ukuba umbulali owayebandakanyekile ekuhlatheni ngokwesondo ixhoba lakhe wayekhe wahlaselwa ngokwesondo.

Kwesi siqendu, ugqirha wengqondo uthi, “Unengxaki yokuphamba, umcebisi. Isitshetshe simele ipeni yakhe. Ayinakulahlwa. ”

Ungafunda phi ngaphezulu?

Unokwazi ukufumana ulwazi oluthe kratya kwaye ufumane abantu abanezinto ezifanayo ukuba unxibelelana noluntu lwe-BDSM yakho.

Ukuba awukenzi njalo, jonga ukuba kukho naziphi na iivenkile zabantu abadala ezikufutshane ezineendibano zocweyo okanye zokuhlangana.

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