Ukhulelwe kwaye u-Horny? Ukuqonda ukuqhuba kwakho ngesondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa

Umxholo

• Ngaba ukukhulelwa kuyonyusa ukuqhuba kwakho ngokwesondo?
• Ikota yokuqala
• Ikota yesibini
• Ikota yesithathu
• Ngaba ukukhulelwa kunokunciphisa ukuqhuba kwakho ngokwesondo?
• Ngaba kukhuselekile ukulala ngesondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa?
• Iingcebiso ngokujongana neminqweno yesini ngexesha lokukhulelwa
• Ukuphulula amalungu esini
• Ezinye iindlela zokusondelelana
• Izikhundla ezahlukeneyo zesondo
• Izinto zokuthambisa
• Unxibelelwano
• Ukwamkelwa
• Yise kude

Umzekeliso ngu-Alyssa Kiefer

Ngaba uziva ungonwabanga ngakumbi emva kokubona loo mgca uphindwe kabini? Ngelixa usenokucinga ukuba ngumzali uya kuwomisa umnqweno wakho wesini, inyani inokuba yinto eyahlukileyo.

Kukho iimeko ezininzi ngexesha lokukhulelwa ezinokunyusa (okanye ukunciphisa) i-libido. Nazi ezinye izinto onokuhlangabezana nazo kwikota nganye, kunye neengcebiso malunga nendlela yokujongana nesiqhelo sakho esitsha.

Ngaba ukukhulelwa kuyonyusa ukuqhuba kwakho ngokwesondo?

Ewe inako.

Kweminye, enye yeempawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa ayikokugula kwasekuseni okanye amabele abuhlungu, kodwa uziva ungalindelekanga. Ukuba ngequbuliso unika iqabane lakho elinomtsalane ekubukeni kwikofu yasekuseni okanye ukufumanisa kunzima ukugxila kumdlalo weTV kuba ucinga ngokuthatha isenzo esithile - awuwedwa.

Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukubonisa, ukukhulelwa lixesha lotshintsho olukhulu emzimbeni. Nantoni na evela kwi-estrogen ekhulayo kunye neeprogesterone kumanqanaba okonyuka kokuhamba kwegazi kunye nokuzwela emabeleni nakwizitho zangasese kunokukhokelela kumanqanaba aphezulu okuvuka.

Ikota yokuqala

Ngelixa unokuba queasy kwaye ungaphaya kokudinwa kwi-trimester yakho yokuqala, iihormoni zakho ziyaphakama ngumhla. Oku kuthetha ukuba amabele kunye neengono zakho zinokuziva zikhulu kwaye zibuthathaka. Unokuziva uqhagamshelene ngokwasemphefumlweni neqabane lakho.

Kukho into ekhululayo malunga nokulahla ecaleni inzala kwaye uhambe nje kuyo, akunjalo? Kwaye awusoze ube nesisu esincinci kwasekuqaleni, ngenxa yoko uninzi lwezikhundla zesondo zihlala zikhululekile kwaye zikhuselekile. Akumangalisi ukuba ungenakuyeka ukucinga ngesondo!

Ikota yesibini

Ukuphazamiseka kokukhulelwa kwasekuqaleni kuyancipha kunye nokusikelwa umda kokukhulelwa kade akukafiki. Ikota yesibini yesibini ngenene lixesha lokutshata- kwaye inokuziva ngathi kukutshata kunye nobomi bakho bobulili ngokunjalo.

Inyaniso ekhawulezileyo: Abasetyhini bafumana ukubetha iiponti ezintathu zegazi ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Uninzi lweli gazi liphela lihamba ngesiqingatha esisezantsi somzimba wakho. Ngawo onke la manqanaba ongezelelweyo, unokuziva ngakumbi kwimeko yesiqhelo kunesiqhelo.

Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa ii-orgasms zakho zinokuziva zinamandla kwaye ziyilinde- unokufumana ii-orgasms ezininzi ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo.

Ikota yesithathu

Ngesisu esikhulu kunye neentlungu kunye neentlungu, ucinga ukuba isondo iya kuba yinto yokugqibela engqondweni yakho kwikota yakho yesithathu. Akunjalo. Unokufumana imeko yakho entsha, ejikelezayo ikwenza uzive usabelana ngesondo ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Ukuzithemba komzimba ngokuqinisekileyo kunokulingana nomnqweno owandileyo wokuhamba ze.

Ngelixa bonisa ukuba isenzo sesondo sithanda ukwehla njengoko iiveki ziqhubeka, gcina kuyo ukuba uziva ukwazi ukwenza umsebenzi kwaye unokuhlala kwindawo entle.

Ukwabelana ngesondo kunokuba yinto entle njengoko ungalindelanga ukuba umntwana wakho afike. Yintoni lo nto? Ewe. Usenokuba ukhe weva ukuba isondo sinokubangela abasebenzi.

Kukho isayensi exhasa isondo njengenkqubo yokuqalisa umsebenzi, kodwa uphando. Ukuvuselelwa kwengono kunye ne-orgasm kukhupha i-hormone i-oxytocin, eluhlobo lwendalo lwe-pitocin (ichiza elisetyenziselwa ukwandisa abasebenzi).

Iiprostaglandins kwisidoda zinokukunceda ukuvuthwa komlomo wesibeleko, ukuthambise ukuze wolule. Akukho sidingo sokukhathazeka, nangona-isondo asizukufumana izinto ezihambayo ukuba umzimba wakho awukakulungeli ukusebenza.

Ngaba ukukhulelwa kunokunciphisa ukuqhuba kwakho ngokwesondo?

Impendulo apha ithi ewe!

Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ungafuni nto yakwenza ngesondo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zokukhulelwa (okanye kuzo zonke iinyanga ezili-9). Isizathu esinye kukuba usenokungaziva ngendlela oqhelekile ngayo.

Ngapha koko, uphononongo lokukhulelwa kunye nokuzenzela umfanekiso kutyhila ukuba abantu basetyhini bathambekele ekubeni nokuzithemba okuncinci kwikota yabo yesibini kwaye umbono womzimba unokuba "mandundu" kwitrimester yesithathu.

Eminye imiba edlalayo:

• Ngokwanda kwenqanaba le-estrogen kunye neprogesterone kwikota yokuqala yokuqala kuza isicaphucaphu, ukugabha nokudinwa. Ukwabelana ngesondo kunokuvakala ngathi ngumsebenzi kunokuba ube yinto eyonwabisayo.
• Ngalo lonke olu tshintsho kunye nokungonwabi, iimvakalelo zakho zinokuba kuyo yonke indawo. Ukungena kwimood xa sele ungonwabanga kunokuziva kungenakwenzeka.
• Ukukhathazeka ngokuba isondo kunokubangela ukukhulelwa kwesisu kunokukhupha i-libido ngokunjalo. Iindaba ezimnandi apha zezokuba iingcali zithi isini asibangeli ukulahleka kokukhulelwa. Endaweni yokuba ukuphuphuma kwesisu kuvele ngenxa yemicimbi engaphantsi komntwana.
• Ukonyusa uvakalelo kunokwenza ukuba abanye abantu basetyhini banqwenele ukulala ngesondo ngakumbi. Kwabanye? Isenokuziva ingonwabanga kwaphela okanye ishushu kakhulu.
• Ukunyathela emva kwe-orgasm yinto yokwenyani, kwaye kunokuba yinto engathandekiyo ngokwaneleyo ukuba ube neentloni emaphepheni.
• Njengoko usondela kubasebenzi, unokonyuka kokuqhekeka kokuziqhelanisa kunye noxinzelelo lokuba ukulala ngesondo kunokubangela ukuba basebenze ngaphambi kwexesha.

Idibeneyo: Luluphi utshintsho emzimbeni onokulindela ngexesha lokukhulelwa?

Ngaba kukhuselekile ukulala ngesondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa?

Ukwabelana ngesondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa kukhuselekile ngokwenene-ngaphandle kokuba awunayo imicimbi ethile yezonyango. Buza ugqirha wakho ukuba ngaba kukho nasiphi na isizathu sokuba ungayeki. Ukuba akunjalo, ungaya kuyo njengoko ungathanda. Ngokwenene!

Ewe uya kufuna ukunxibelelana nogqirha wakho ukuba:

• Uva ukopha ngexesha okanye emva kwesondo.
• Amanzi akho aqhekekile okanye uvuza ulwelo olungachazwanga.
• Unomlomo wesibeleko ongafanelekanga (xa umlomo wakho wesibeleko uvula ngaphambi kwexesha).
• Une-placenta previa (xa i-placenta igubungela inxenye yawo wonke umlomo wesibeleko sakho).
• Unemiqondiso yokusebenza kwangaphambili okanye imbali yokuzalwa kwangaphambi kokuzalwa.

Inqaku nje: Unokuzikhathaza malunga nokuxinana emva kwesondo. Yinto eqhelekileyo, ngakumbi kwikota yesithathu. Kwakhona, nantoni na ukusuka ekuvuseleleni ingono ukuya kwi-orgasm ukuya kwiihomoni ze-prostaglandin kwi-semen yeqabane lakho inokuba ngunobangela.

Ukuphazamiseka kuya kukhululeka ngokuphumla. Ukuba akunjalo, qhagamshelana nogqirha wakho.

Kwaye ngelixa ukukhusela ekukhulelweni akuyiyo inkxalabo ngeli xesha (ngokucacileyo!), Uya kufuna ukuqhubeka usebenzisa iikhondom ukukhusela ukuhanjiswa kwe-STI ukuba awukho kubudlelwane bomntu omnye okanye ukuba ukhetha ukulala ngesondo kunye neqabane elitsha.

Iingcebiso ngokujongana neminqweno yesini ngexesha lokukhulelwa

Nokuba uziva ngathi uthixokazi wesini okanye, hayi, akunjalo konke konke, zininzi izinto onokuzenza ukujongana neemfuno zakho. Usenokude ufumanise ukuba umnqweno wakho wesini uyatshintsha-tshintsha kakhulu imihla ngemihla. (Enkosi, ukunyuka nokuhla kwamanqanaba ehomoni!)

Ukuphulula amalungu esini

Awudingi iqabane ukuze uhambe. Ukuzikhuthaza kunokuhlaziya kwaye kumnandi ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Kwaye -elona candelo lililo- ungayenza nanini na ufuna.

Ukuphulula amalungu esini yindlela elungileyo yokuqhelana nokutshintsha komzimba. Ubumnandi bunokunceda ukuphazamisa kwezinye zeempawu ezingathandekiyo ohlangabezana nazo, njengokugula kwasekuseni, iintlungu zomqolo, umlenze neenyawo ukudumba, kunye nokunye ukungahambi kakuhle.

Ukuba usebenzisa iithoyi zokwabelana ngesondo, qiniseka ukuba uzihlambe kakuhle xa uzisebenzisa kwaye ubenobulali xa udlala.

Ezinye iindlela zokusondelelana

Ayisiyo yonke into eyabelana ngesondo ekufuneka ibandakanye ukungena. Unokufuna ukuwola okanye ukuwola. Nika umyalezo okanye uphuze nje.

Kukho into ebizwa ngokuba yingqondo ekrelekrele exhomekeke kwinto ebizwa ngokuba yi "sensate focus," isenzo sokuchukumisa okanye ukuchukumiseka. Lo mkhuba ukhuthaza inkanuko xa kuthelekiswa nokwabelana ngesondo.

Ukuzibandakanya, unokuba unxibile okanye ungambathiswanga. Chonga iqabane libe linye ukuze libenike kwaye elinye libe ngumamkeli. Ukusuka apho, unokugxila kwindlela eyahlukileyo yokubamba kwiitempos ezahlukeneyo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zomzimba.

Nantoni na oyenzayo, khumbula ukuba isondo malunga nokusondelelana. Imvakalelo ebonakalayo inokuba yinto entle kakhulu, kodwa unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo luyanelisa.

Izikhundla ezahlukeneyo zesondo

Kwakhona, uninzi lwezikhundla zesondo zikhuselekile de ufike kwinyanga yesine yokukhulelwa. Okwangoku, indawo olele kuyo umqolo wakho (umthunywa wevangeli, umzekelo) unokungakhululeki kwaye ubeke uxinzelelo kwimithambo yegazi ebalulekileyo ezisa izondlo kunye neoksijini emntwaneni wakho. Zama ngento oziva ilungile.

Unokuzama:

• Umfazi ngaphezulu. Kanye njengoko kuvakala, esi sikhundla sikuvumela ukuba ube kulawulo olupheleleyo ngelixa ukhulula isisu sakho. Ungaseta isantya sokukhawuleza okanye ucothe okanye uhambe ngokulula kwezinye izikhundla ngale ndlela.
• Umfazi kuzo zone. Zibeke ezandleni zakho nasemadolweni kwaye vumela isisu sakho sixhome. Esi sikhundla sihlala sisebenza kakuhle kwikota yokuqala neyesibini, ngaphambi kokuba isisu sakho sibe nzima kakhulu.
• Icala okanye icephe. Ukufumana inkxaso eyongezelelweyo ekukhulelweni kamva, zama ukubeka ecaleni kunye neqabane lakho lingena ngasemva. Esi sikhundla sithatha uxinzelelo kumalungu akho asele erhafisiwe kunye nesisu, kwaye sikuvumela uphumle. Unokusebenzisa imicamelo ukunyenyisa inkxaso.

Izinto zokuthambisa

Unokuziva ubumanzi obuninzi bendalo ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ukuba akunjalo, igrisi elungileyo inokunceda ukwenza izinto zityibilika kwaye zikhululeke. Ulusu lwakho lunokuba novakalelo ngokukodwa ngeli xesha, ke uya kufuna ukukhangela i-lubes ezisekwe emanzini ezingacaphukisiyo okanye zikhokelele kusulelo.

Unxibelelwano

Thetha neqabane lakho rhoqo malunga nendlela oziva ngayo ngokubhekisele kubomi bakho bobulili. Ufuna ngaphezulu? Yazisa loo nto. Ufuna ukubuyela umva? Yiza nengxoxo. Ukuba ukuthetha ngesondo akuhambi kakuhle, ukuzama ukuzisa ngengxelo ethi "Ndiva" ukuze ndiqhubeke.

Umzekelo, “Ndiziva ndinesicaphucaphu kwaye ndidiniwe mva nje. Andifuni kulala ngesondo ngoku. " Nje ukuba ufumane unxibelelwano luvulekile, ninokusebenzisana nobabini ukufumana into esebenzayo nakweyiphi na inqanaba okulo.

Ukwamkelwa

Melana nokuzigweba ngendlela oziva ngayo- horny okanye hayi. Ukukhulelwa lixesha elinye lobomi bakho bothando. Indlela oziva ngayo ihlala iguquka kwaye iya kuqhubeka iguquka ubomi bakho bonke njengoko iimeko ezahlukeneyo kunye neemeko ziza zidlule.

Zama ukuhamba nokuhamba, ukonwabele ukukhwela kuba kuyintoni, kwaye uqiniseke ngokufikelela kwinkxaso ukuba uziva uyayidinga. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuncokola nje nomhlobo olungileyo kunokukunceda uzive uwedwa.

Idibeneyo: Ukuphulula amalungu esini ngexesha lokukhulelwa: Ngaba kulungile?

Yise kude

Ukuba uziva u-sexy kakhulu, unokuthatha inxaxheba kwiimvakalelo ezongezelelweyo zokukhulelwa. Nokuba ufumana i-frisky kunye neqabane okanye uchitha nje ixesha elithile kulonwabo lwakho, zivumele ixesha lokonwabela umzimba wakho.

Ukukhulelwa ngakunye kwahlukile, ke zama ukukhumbula ukuba umnqweno wakho wokwenza uthando wahlukile kumava akho ngalo mzuzu.

Akukho ndlela ichanekileyo okanye engalunganga yokuhamba malunga nobudlelwane bezesondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Isitshixo kukugcina umgca wonxibelelwano uvulekile kunye neqabane lakho kwaye ufumane into ekusebenzela.