Uqala nini ukuthetha umntwana?

Umxholo

• Ukukhula kwentetho ngokobudala kufanele ukuba kube njani
• Kwiinyanga ezi-3
• Phakathi kweenyanga ezi-4 ukuya kwezi-6
• Phakathi kweenyanga ezisi-7 ukuya kwezi-9
• Phakathi kweenyanga ezili-10 ne-12
• Phakathi kweenyanga ezili-13 ukuya kwezili-18
• Phakathi kweenyanga ezili-19 ukuya kwezingama-24
• Kwiminyaka emi-3
• Ungalukhuthaza njani usana lwakho ukuba luthethe
• Nini ukubona ugqirha wabantwana

Ukuqala kwentetho kuxhomekeke kusana ngalunye, kwaye akukho budala bulungileyo bokuqalisa ukuthetha. Ukusukela ekuzalweni, umntwana ukhupha izandi njengendlela yokunxibelelana nabazali okanye abantu abasondeleyo kwaye, ekuhambeni kweenyanga, unxibelelwano luyaphucuka kude kube, malunga neenyanga ezili-9, angajoyina izandi ezilula kwaye aqale ukukhupha izandi ezahlukeneyo ezinje nge "Mamamama", "bababababa" okanye "Dadadadada".

Nangona kunjalo, malunga neenyanga ezili-12, umntwana uqala ukwenza izandi ezininzi kwaye azame ukuthetha amagama athethwa ngabazali okanye abantu abasondeleyo, xa eneminyaka emi-2 ubudala uphinda amagama awavayo aze athethe izivakalisi ezilula ezinamagama ama-2 okanye ama-4 nango-3 Indoda endala inokuthetha ulwazi oluntsonkothileyo njengobudala bayo kunye nesini.

Ngamanye amaxesha intetho yomntwana ingathatha ixesha elide ukukhula, ngakumbi xa intetho yosana ingakhuthazeki okanye ngenxa yengxaki ezithile zempilo ezinje ngokungeva okanye i-autism. Kwezi meko, kubalulekile ukuqonda isizathu sokuba umntwana angathethi, ukuya kugqirha wabantwana ukwenza uvavanyo lophuhliso kunye nolwimi.

Ukukhula kwentetho ngokobudala kufanele ukuba kube njani

Ukukhula kwentetho yomntwana yinkqubo ecothayo ephuculayo njengoko umntwana ekhula kwaye ekhula:

Kwiinyanga ezi-3

Kwiinyanga ezi-3 ubudala, ukukhala yeyona ndlela iphambili kunxibelelwano losana, kwaye ulila ngokwahlukileyo ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Ukongeza, uqala ukuthathela ingqalelo izandi ozivayo kwaye uziqwalasele ngakumbi. Qonda ukuba kunokuthetha ntoni ukukhala kosana.

Phakathi kweenyanga ezi-4 ukuya kwezi-6

Malunga neenyanga ezi-4 umntwana uqala ukubhuza kwaye kwiinyanga ezi-6 uphendula ngezandi ezincinci ezinje ngo "ah", "eh", "oh" xa esiva igama lakhe okanye umntu ethetha naye kwaye aqala ukwenza izandi ngo "m" kunye no "B ".

Phakathi kweenyanga ezisi-7 ukuya kwezi-9

Kwiinyanga ezili-9 umntwana uyaliqonda igama elithi "hayi", ukhupha izandi ngokudibanisa amalungu amaninzi anjenge "mamamama" okanye "babababa" kwaye azame ukulinganisa izandi ezenziwa ngabanye abantu.

Phakathi kweenyanga ezili-10 ne-12

Umntwana, malunga neenyanga ezili-12, unokuqonda ii-odolo ezilula ezinje ngo "nika" okanye "uhambe", enze izandi ezifanayo kwintetho, athi "mama", "tata" kwaye enze izibongozo ezinje ngo "uh-oh!" kwaye uzame ukuphinda amagama owavileyo.

Phakathi kweenyanga ezili-13 ukuya kwezili-18

Phakathi kweenyanga ezili-13 ukuya kwezili-18 umntwana uluphucula ulwimi lwakhe, unokusebenzisa amagama alula aphakathi kwama-6 ukuya kwangama-26, kodwa ke uyawaqonda amanye amagama kwaye aqale athi "hayi" enikina intloko. Xa engakwazi ukuthetha into ayifunayo, wakhomba ukubonisa kwaye akwazi ukumbonisa okanye unodoli apho akhoyo, impumlo okanye umlomo.

Phakathi kweenyanga ezili-19 ukuya kwezingama-24

Malunga neminyaka engama-24, uthi igama lakhe lokuqala, uyakwazi ukudibanisa amagama amabini nangaphezulu, esenza izivakalisi ezilula nezifutshane kwaye uyazi amagama abo basondeleyo kuye.Ukongeza, uqala ukuthetha yedwa ngelixa edlala, ephinda amagama awakuva abanye abantu bethetha kwaye akhombe izinto okanye imifanekiso xa esiva izandi zabo.

Kwiminyaka emi-3

Kwiminyaka emi-3 uthi igama lakhe, ukuba yinkwenkwe okanye intombazana, ubudala bakhe, uthetha igama lezona zinto zixhaphakileyo kubomi bemihla ngemihla kwaye uyaqonda amagama antsonkothileyo anje ngala "ngaphakathi", "ngezantsi" okanye "ngaphezulu". Phantse kwiminyaka emi-3 ubudala umntwana uqala ukuba nesigama esikhulu, angathetha igama lomhlobo, asebenzise amabinzana amabini okanye amathathu kwincoko kwaye aqale ukusebenzisa amagama abhekisa emntwini onje ngo "me", "me", " thina "okanye" wena ".

Ungalukhuthaza njani usana lwakho ukuba luthethe

Nangona kukho iimpawu ezithile zokuphuhliswa kwentetho, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba usana ngalunye lunesantya salo sokukhula, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba abazali bayazi indlela yokuyihlonipha.

Okwangoku, abazali banokunceda ukukhula kwentetho yomntwana wabo ngeendlela ezithile ezinje:

• Kwiinyanga ezi-3nxibelelana nosana ngokuthetha nangokulingisa, ukulinganisa isandi sezinto ezithile okanye isandi somntwana, mamela umculo kunye naye, ucule okanye udanise ngokuthamba kancinci nosana emathangeni akhe okanye udlale, njengokufihla ukufuna fumana ubuso;
• Kwiinyanga ezi-6: khuthaza usana ukuba lwenze izandi ezitsha, walathe kwizinto ezintsha kwaye uxele amagama abo, phinda izandi ezenziwe ngumntwana, uxele ukuba ngubani igama elichanekileyo lezinto okanye uzifundele;
• Kwiinyanga ezili-9: ukubiza into ngegama, wenza iziqhulo esithi "ngoku lithuba lam" kwaye "ngoku lithuba lakho", thetha ngegama lezinto xa ekhomba okanye echaza into ayithathayo, njenge "ibhola eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kunye nebhola ejikelezayo";
• Kwiinyanga ezili-12: xa umntwana efuna into, qinisekisa isicelo, nokuba uyazi ukuba ufuna ntoni, funda naye kwaye, ekuphenduleni kwindlela yokuziphatha engalunganga, yithi "hayi" ngokuqinileyo;
• Kwiinyanga ezili-18: cela umntwana ukuba ajonge kwaye achaze amalungu omzimba okanye abonayo, mkhuthaze ukuba adanise kwaye acule iingoma azithandayo, sebenzisa amagama achaza iimvakalelo neemvakalelo, ezinje ngo "Ndonwabile" okanye "Ndibuhlungu msgstr "," Sebenzisa amagama alula, acacileyo kunye nemibuzo.
• Kwiinyanga ezingama-24: ukukhuthaza umntwana, kwicala elilungileyo kwaye ungaze ugxeke, utsho amagama ngokuchanekileyo njenge "moto" endaweni yokuba "ubize" okanye ucele uncedo kwimisebenzi emincinci kwaye uthethe into oyenzayo, enjengokuthi "masilungise iithoyi" ;
• Kwiminyaka emi-3: cela umntwana ukuba abalise ibali okanye abalise ngento ayenzileyo ngaphambili, khuthaza ukucinga okanye ukhuthaze umntwana ukuba ajonge unodoli aze athethe ukuba ukhathazekile okanye wonwabile. Kwiminyaka ye-3, isigaba se "whys" sihlala siqala kwaye kubalulekile ukuba abazali bazole kwaye baphendule kumntwana ukuze angoyiki ukubuza imibuzo emitsha.

Kuzo zonke izigaba kubalulekile ukuba kusetyenziswe ulwimi oluchanekileyo nomntwana, kuthintelwe izinciphiso okanye amagama angalunganga, anjenge "duck" endaweni ye "shoe" okanye "au au" endaweni ye "dog". Ezi ndlela zokuziphatha zivuselela intetho yosana, zisenza ukuba ukukhula kolwimi kuqhubeke ngesiqhelo kwaye, kwezinye iimeko, kwanangaphambi koko.

Ukongeza kulwimi, kubalulekile ukuba wazi indlela yokukhuthaza onke amanqanaba okukhula kosana, njengokuhlala, ukukhasa okanye ukuhamba. Bukela ividiyo ukuze ufumanise ukuba umntwana wenza ntoni kwinqanaba ngalinye kwaye ungamnceda njani ukuba akhule ngokukhawuleza:

Nini ukubona ugqirha wabantwana

Kubalulekile ukuba nodliwanondlebe rhoqo nogqirha wabantwana ngalo lonke ixesha lokukhula komntwana, nangona kunjalo ezinye iimeko zifuna ingqalelo ekhethekileyo, enje:

• Kwiinyanga ezi-6: usana alizami ukwenza izandi, alukhuphi izandi zezikhamiso ("ah", "eh", "oh"), aluphenduli kwigama okanye nasiphi na isandi okanye alunxibelelanisi ngamehlo;
• Kwiinyanga ezili-9: usana alusabeli kwizandi, aluphenduli xa lubiza igama lalo okanye alunantetho yamagama alula njengo "mama", "utata" okanye "dada";
• Kwiinyanga ezili-12: Akakwazi ukuthetha amagama alula anje ngo "mama" okanye "utata" okanye akaphenduli xa umntu ethetha naye;
• Kwiinyanga ezili-18: Akalingisi abanye abantu, akafundi amagama amatsha, akakwazi ukuthetha okungenani amagama ama-6, akaphenduli ngokuzenzekelayo okanye akanamdla kwinto emngqongileyo;
• Kwiinyanga ezingama-24: akazami ukulinganisa izenzo okanye amagama, akakuqondi oko kuthethwayo, akalandeli imiyalelo elula, akathethi amagama ngendlela eqondakalayo okanye uphinda-phinda izandi namagama afanayo;
• Kwiminyaka emi-3: Akasebenzisi binzana ukuthetha nabanye abantu kwaye amanqaku kuphela okanye usebenzisa amagama amafutshane, engayiqondi imiyalelo elula.

Le miqondiso inokuthetha ukuba intetho yosana ayikhuli ngendlela yesiqhelo kwaye, kwezi meko, ugqirha wabantwana kufuneka akhokele abazali ukuba babonane nengcali yezentetho ukuze intetho yomntwana ikhuthazwe.