Luyintoni uVavanyo lwesini seSini- kwaye luyasebenza?

Umxholo

• Yintoni uvavanyo lwesini?
• Wenza njani?
• Inguqulelo yokuqala: ngaphezulu kwesisu somntu okhulelweyo
• Inguqulelo yesibini: ngentla kwesandla sokhohlo sombutho
• Ngaba iziphumo zichanekile?
• Iintsomi zabafazi abadala kunye novavanyo lonyango
• Yise kude

Wena ndifuna ukwazi. Wena imfuno ukwazi. Ngaba yinkwenkwe okanye intombazana?

Lo mbuzo ubangela umdla onokwenza ukuba ukhethe umbala wepeyinti ogqibeleleyo weziko lokugcina abantwana uziva ngathi kukunye ukukhanya okubomvu xa sele ufikile kade.

kutyhila ukuba ama-75 ukuya kuma-81 ekhulwini abasetyhini banqwenela ukwazi isini semveku yabo engekazalwa. Nokuba abo banobugcisa bokujonga kude ngexesha le-telltale ultrasound endaweni yokulinda de kuzalwe ukuze bafumane isini somntwana ngokubanzi banesibikezelo esisekwe kwiimvakalelo, intuition, okanye amaphupha.

Ukuvavanywa ngokwesini okuqhelekileyo kuxhomekeke ekuthembekeni ukuya ekuthandabuzeni ngokwenyani kwaye kubandakanya ii-ultrasound, iimvavanyo zegazi, iifilosofi zefolorloric, ukubetha kwentliziyo yomntwana, itshathi yekhalenda yaseTshayina, umbala wengono kamama, isoda yokubhaka, i-predictors ye-counter-the-counter, kwaye-nantsi ifika -uvavanyo lwesini.

Yintoni uvavanyo lwesini?

Uvavanyo lwesini lwesini yenye yeendlela ezininzi abantu abazame ngayo ukuqikelela isini sosana lwabo olungekazalwa. Yintoni eyenza ukuba olu vavanyo lwahluke ngohlobo lokuba uguqulelo olunye lubanga ukuba luyakwazi ukuqikelela inani kunye nesondo konke abantwana bakho bexesha elizayo.

Uvavanyo lwesini lwesini lunokwenziwa ngeendlela ezimbini, zombini ezibandakanya ukufaka umtya ngentambo.

Wenza njani?

Zimbini iinguqulelo zovavanyo. Zombini zisebenzisa izinto ezifanayo:

• iringi (iringi yomama ngokubanzi, okanye enye iringi ebaluleke kakhulu)
• umtya okanye umsonto weenwele
• umntu othabatha inxaxheba onokukhulelwa okanye angakhulelwa

Inguqulelo yokuqala: ngaphezulu kwesisu somntu okhulelweyo

Lala ngomqolo kwaye iqabane lakho, ilungu losapho, okanye umhlobo uxhoma umsesane onomsonto ngaphezu kwesisu sakho.

Lindela ukuba ihambe yodwa. Umbono kukuba kufuneka ujikeleze uye ngapha nangapha kumgca othe ngqo (intombazana) okanye isangqa (inkwenkwe).

Inguqulelo yesibini: ngentla kwesandla sokhohlo sombutho

Le nguqulo ikwacelwa ukuba ikwazise ukuba bangaphi abantwana oya kuba nabo, kwaye inokwenziwa kumntu okhulelweyo okanye ongakhulelwanga.

Beka isandla sakho sasekhohlo kwindawo ethe tyaba. Ukubamba umsesane onomsonto ngaphezulu kwesandla sakho sasekhohlo, yisa umsesane ukuba uphumle ngaphezulu kwesandla sakho.

Emva koko, yiphakamise kwaye ujike ngobunono iringi phakathi kweminwe yakho nganye, ulandele isandla sakho njengoko ubuya kwenza xa usenza isandla se-turkey, ukusuka kwipinky yakho ukuya kubhontsi wakho. Khawuleza ulandele umva, ubhontsi uye epinki, uphele apho uqale khona kwaye uyibambe ngaphezulu kweziko lesandla sakho.

Iringi kufuneka iqale ukushukuma iye ngapha nangapha kumgca othe ngqo (intombazana), okanye kwisangqa (inkwenkwe). Esi sisini somntwana wakho wamazibulo.

Nje ukuba isini sakho sokuqala sokuzalwa sivezwe, yiza neringi ukuba ihlale ngaphezulu kwesandla sakho kwakhona. Emva koko phinda inkqubo yokulandela!

Ukuba iringi iyajinga emgceni okanye kwisangqa, esi sisini somntwana wakho wesibini.

Qhubeka uphinda uvavanyo de kube iringi iye kuma ngxi. Oku kuthetha ukuba uvavanyo lugqityiwe, kwaye azisekho iintsana ezizayo zokuqikelela.

Ngaba iziphumo zichanekile?

Uninzi lwabantu luya kuvakalisa ngovuyo olu vavanyo ukuba luchanekile. Baza kukuxelela ukuba ukuphindaphinda olu vavanyo kuvelise uqikelelo olufanayo. Baninzi abantu abacinga ngokwenyani ukuba ngumlingo kaHarry-Potter.

Konke ukuvumisa ecaleni, masihle siye kwiinyani.

Inyani yile yokuba iintsomi zabafazi abadala ebezenzelwe ukuqikelela isini somntwana wakho azithembekanga ngaphezu kokuthelekelela. Akukho bungqina bubonisa ukuba uvavanyo lwesini lwesini luyinto engaphaya komdlalo ohlekisayo.

Iintsomi zabafazi abadala kunye novavanyo lonyango

Njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili, zininzi izinto abantu abazenzileyo ukuqikelela isini somntwana wabo.

Abanye bajonge ukubetha kwentliziyo yomntwana (ngaphezulu kwe-140 bpm kuthetha ukuba yintombazana; ngaphantsi kwe-140 bpm kuthetha ukuba yinkwenkwe), kwaye abanye bakholelwa ukuba ukumila okanye ubungakanani besisu sabo kunokuxela kwangaphambili ngesondo lomntwana. Ngelixa oku kunokuba ngumthombo wokuzonwabisa, abukho ubungqina bokuba baqikelela ngokuchanekileyo nantoni na.

Into enomdla kukuba, uphononongo oludala ukusuka ngo-2001 lufumanise ukuba abasetyhini abakhulelweyo abaneminyaka engaphezulu kwe-12 yemfundo bachanekile kuqikelelo lwabo ngokwesini malunga neepesenti ezingama-71 zexesha, ngelixa abo baneminyaka embalwa yokufunda besiba malunga neepesenti ezingama-43 ezichanekileyo.

Uphononongo luqaphele ukuba abasetyhini abasekele iingqikelelo zabo kwiimvakalelo, amaphupha, kunye ne-intuition babenenqanaba eliphezulu lokuchaneka kunabafazi abenza iimvavanyo ezisekwe kwimbali yamakhosikazi amadala.

Ngaphezu, omnye kwabasetyhini abangama-411 wafumanisa ukuba abasetyhini baxela ngokuchanekileyo isini seentsana zabo malunga neepesenti ezingama-51 zexesha, njengeflip yengqekembe.

Kwelinye icala, ukuvavanywa kwezonyango, kubandakanya isampulu ye-villus engapheliyo (i-CVS), uvavanyo olungenasiphelo lwangaphambi kokubeleka (i-NIPT), i-amniocentesis, kunye ne-ultrasound, inokubonelela ngolwazi malunga nesondo lomntwana wakho ongekazalwa.

Ezi mvavanyo ziqhele ukwenzelwa ezinye iinjongo, njengokumisela ukuba ingaba umntwana wakho unazo na iimpawu ze-Down syndrome, ukuxilonga indawo ekuyo umntwana, nokuchonga iinkxalabo zokukhula komntwana, kodwa kwenzeka nje ukuba zikwabonakalise isini somntwana.

Yise kude

Ngelixa kungekho bungqina bokuba uvavanyo lwesini luyasebenza, ayonzakalisi ukukhupha umtya weenwele entlokweni yakho, umsonto iringi, kunye nephupha. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni umphumo wolu "vavanyo" lubonisa, uya kudibana nomntwana wakho ozayo kwaye uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo kungekudala.

Ngaba ufuna ukuhlala kwilog kunye neengcebiso zokukhulelwa ezingaphezulu kunye nesikhokelo seveki-ngeveki esenzelwe umhla wakho? Bhalisela iincwadana zethu endizilindeleyo.