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Ngokuqinisekileyo ndinqwenela ukuba kubekho umntu ondinike eli cebiso ndisemncinci.

Ngama-30, ndacinga ukuba ndiyazi konke malunga nesondo. Ndandisazi ukuba ukubethelela iinzipho emqolo komnye kwamkelekile kuphela kwiimuvi. (Ulahlekile loo mfana). Ndifunde ukuba kufuneka ndigxile kwaye ndivule kwaye ndamkele ukuze ndibene-orgasm, kwaye ndiye ndafunda ukuba indoda iyakukulandela phantse naphina ukuba unetalente kwezokwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo. Ndizamile konke okusemandleni am, kwaye ngokuthobeka, ndicinga ukuba ndinetalente yokwenyani. Kodwa kwandithatha ixesha elide ukuqonda ezinye izinto endandinokuzisebenzisa ebudeni baloo minyaka yangaphambili xa ndandinexhala kodwa kungekhona ngokuyimfuneko ukuze ndikwazi ukuzisebenzisa ngobulumko ngakumbi.

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1. Ndandingakhethi.

Okokuqala, ndinqwenela ukuba ndibanqumle abantu abambalwa ebekufanele ukuba ndibazi kwangoko baya kuba besenza uthando kubo-okanye ngokwabo. Kungcono ngoku ndazi ukuba ngawaphi amadoda abathanda ngokwenene kwaye abaxabisayo abantu basetyhini, kwaye ngawaphi amadoda angenakuphuma kwi-aura yawo. Ndazi njani? Amadoda abathanda abafazi bayakwazi phezu kwetafile yesidlo sangokuhlwa, kwaye basebenzise oko bakufundileyo ngawe phaya kwigumbi lokulala. Umgaqo wesithupha: Ukuba indoda ayazi wena ngaphezulu kwekhola, akunakulindeleka ukuba iyakwenza naluphi na uphando lwenyani olungezantsi.

2. Ndikhawulezile.

Akwaba ndandifunde ukuyithatha kancinci kancinci. Ubukhulu becala ndandinomdla okhawulezileyo, endaweni yokuhamba kancinci, ukuphonononga ukwakha. Umhlobo wam ogqirha ngengqondo wakha wathi, "Uninzi lwabasetyhini luyi-orgasm yenkohliso kuba uninzi lwamadoda alikhohlisayo." Ndinqwenela ukuba ndenze amanye amathuba okuba ndibethwe ndibethwe ngumnatha endaweni yokufuna inkanuko engaka kwasekuqaleni. I-Quickies kunye nokungena kwangoko kunokuba nomtsalane njengesihogo, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo kuthetha ukuba uhlala kwiindawo ezisezantsi endaweni yokufikelela kwiindawo eziphakamileyo.

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3. Andizange ndibelane ngeemfihlo zam ezincinci ezimdaka.

Akwaba ndandikhe ndasebenzisa ifantasy ndisemncinci. Ukwabelana ngefantasy, ngamanye amaxesha uphume ebhedini, ngamanye amaxesha kuyo, kunokuba sesona sisondeleyo kuzo zonke izenzo zesondo. Kukho into malunga nokuvula kunye nokwabelana ngeengcinga zakho ezintsonkothileyo nezingalindelekanga omnye komnye ezenza ubudlelwane obukhethekileyo phakathi kwabathandi. Bendiya kuba neentloni kakhulu ukuvuma ezinye zeengcamango zam xa ndiselula. Ngoku ndiyaqonda ukuba eyona nto uyoyika kakhulu iya kukuhlukanisa inokuhlanganisa abantu ababini.

4. Ndiyithathele phezulu kakhulu.

Ngokuqinisekileyo ndingathanda ukuba ndikhululeke ngakumbi ekusebenziseni iithoyi kunye. Ewe uqinisekile, ndizamile ezimbalwa-kodwa kwandithatha iminyaka ukuba ndidlale njengangoku. Ndicinga ukuba ukuhleka ebhedini sisiqingatha sovuyo lokuba sisondelelene, kunye nokuhlekisa, kunye nokuzonwabisa, kukuvumela ukuba uzame ezinye zezixhobo zesini ezomeleleyo. Nokuba ungaze uphinde uzisebenzise awubalulekanga. Kwelinye icala, zizame kube kanye, kwaye unokuzibeka phakathi kwezona zinto zixabisekileyo! Ndicinga ukuba ulingo lukhulisa umdlalo kunye nomnqweno kubudlelwane bexesha elide, kwaye ingaba yintoni engalunganga ngaloo nto? Xa ndijonga ngasemva, bendingayi kuba neentloni ukuzama iipoyinti ezingcangcazelayo, ipeyinti yomzimba enokutyiwa, amakhonkco epenisi ...

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5. Andizange ndiwuxabise umzimba wam.

Akwaba bendikuxabisa konke oko umzimba wam ubunokukwenza kwaye ndingachithi xesha kuluhlu lwam oluhlekisayo lokungafezeki. Xa ufika kwiminyaka yakho yokuqala uyaqonda ukuba umzimba ophilileyo ngumzimba omkhulu-kwaye ndisikelelwe ngomnye osenamalungu onke, usathanda kwaye uyayixabisa isondo, kwaye usenamandla okwenza ukuba mna neqabane lam sizive uyolo ezingalweni zomnye nomnye. Ixesha elininzi lichithwe ngaphezulu kokukhathazeka malunga nobunzima, ubungakanani besifuba okanye ubume be-butt! Umntu ofuna wena, ufuna wena.

Ndifundile ukukholelwa ukuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuvumela umntu ukuba akuqubule kwaye onwabele nawuphina umzuzu eninawo kunye ngaphandle kokuthintela. Ndinqwenela ukuba ndandizinike imvume efanayo kunye nolwaneliseko kwakudala.

Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D, umbhali we-Prime: Adventures kunye neNgcebiso ngesondo, uthando, kunye neminyaka yeSensual.

NguPepper Schwartz, PH.D. YeYourTango.com

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