Njengomzali ongatshatanga, bendingenabo ubunewunewu bokujongana nokudakumba

Umxholo

• Ndatyhala ngoxinzelelo lwentombi yam
• Ngamandla la
• Okukwintsusa

Umzekeliso ngu-Alyssa Kiefer

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Kwafika phezu kwam rhoqo ebusuku, emva kokuba intombi yam encinci ilele. Kwenzeka emva kokuba ikhompyuter yam ivaliwe, emva kokuba umsebenzi wam ucinyiwe, kwacinywa izibane.

Kulapho amaza axineneyo osizi kunye nesithukuthezi abetha kakhulu, esiza kum ephindaphinda, esongela ngokunditsalela ngaphantsi aze andirhwilize ngeenyembezi zam.

Ndakhe ndajongana noxinzelelo ngaphambili. Kodwa kubomi bam bokuba mdala, le yayiyeyona nto ndandingayeki ukuyenza.

Ewe, ndandisazi isizathu sokuba ndidandatheke. Ubomi babunzima, budidekile, boyika. Umhlobo wayethathe ubomi bakhe, nayo yonke enye into yaphosa ezantsi ukusuka apho.

Ubudlelwane bam bonke babonakala buqhekeka. Amanxeba amadala nosapho lwam ayesiza ngaphezulu. Umntu endikholelwa ukuba soze andishiye uvele wanyamalala. Kwaye yonke yafumba phezu kwam njengolu bunzima andinakukwazi ukuyithwala kwakhona.

Ukuba ibingeyontombi yam, ime emhlabeni phambi kwam njengoko amaza ebesoyikisa ukundidonsela ezantsi, ndiqinisekile andinakuze ndisinde kuwo.

Ukungasindi kwakungekho khetho, nangona kunjalo. Njengomama ongatshatanga, ndandingenabo ubutofotofo bokuwa. Andinayo inketho yokophula.

Ndatyhala ngoxinzelelo lwentombi yam

Ndiyazi ukuba kutheni ukuxinezeleka kwandibetha kakhulu ebusuku.

Emini, ndandinomntu othembele kum ngokupheleleyo. Kwakungekho omnye umzali owayelinde kumaphiko ukuba athathe indawo njengoko ndandisebenza ngaphakathi kwintlungu yam. Kwakungekho mntu wumbi onokuthi umake kuye ukuba bendinosuku olubi.

Kwakukho nje le ntombazana incinci, endiyithandayo ngaphezu kwayo nantoni na okanye nabani na apha emhlabeni, ethembele kum ukuba ndiyigcine kunye.

Ke ndenze konke okusemandleni am. Yonke imihla kwakusiliwa. Ndandinamandla amancinci kuye nabani na ongomnye. Kodwa kuye, ndatyhala onke amandla endinawo ngaphezulu.

Andikholelwa ukuba ndingoyena mama ubalaseleyo ngezo nyanga. Ngokuqinisekileyo ndandingenguye umama omfaneleyo. Kodwa ndazinyanzela ukuba ndiphume ebhedini imihla ngemihla.

Ndafika phantsi ndadlala naye. Ndasikhupha kwi adventures mama-ntombi. Ndilwe nenkungu ukubonisa, kwakhona kwaye kwakhona. Ndamenzela yonke lonto.

Ngandlela thile, ndicinga ukuba ukuba ngumama ongatshatanga kungandisindisa ebumnyameni.

Ukukhanya kwakhe okuncinci kwakukhanya kuye kukhanya mihla le, kundikhumbuza ukuba kutheni kubalulekile ukulwa nentlungu endandiyiva.

Suku ngalunye kwakusiliwa. Makungabikho ntandabuzo: kwabakho umlo.

Kwakukho ukuzinyanzela ndibuyele kunyango oluqhelekileyo, nokuba ndifumana iiyure zokwenza njalo ndiziva ndingenakwenzeka. Kwakukho idabi lemihla ngemihla nam ukuya kwitreadmill, inye kuphela into ekwaziyo ukucoca ingqondo yam-nokuba yonke into endifuna ukuyenza yayikukufihla phantsi kwamashiti am. Kwakukho umsebenzi onzima wokufikelela kubahlobo, ukuvuma ukuba ndawela kangakanani, kwaye ngokucotha ukwakha kwakhona inkqubo yenkxaso endandiyichithe ngokungazi kwindawo yam.

Ngamandla la

Kwakukho amanyathelo omntwana, kwaye kwakunzima. Ngeendlela ezininzi kwakunzima kuba ndandingumama.

Ixesha lokuzikhathalela lalibonakala linomda ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Kodwa bekukho nelizwi lisebezayo entlokweni yam, kundikhumbuza ukuba le ntombazana incinci ndisikelelekile ukuyibiza ngokuba yeyam yayixhomekeke kum.

Elo lizwi lalingasoloko linobubele. Kwakukho amaxesha apho ubuso bam babumanzi zinyembezi kwaye ndazijonga esipilini kuphela ukuva ela lizwi lisithi, “Ayisomandla la. Lo ayinguye lo mfazi ufuna intombi yakho imbone. "

Ngokusengqiqweni, ndandisazi ukuba elo lizwi alilunganga. Ndayazi ukuba nabona mama bangcono bayawa ngamanye amaxesha, kwaye kulungile ukuba abantwana bethu basibone sisokola.

Kwintliziyo yam, nangona kunjalo, ndandifuna ukuba ngcono.

Ndifuna ukuba ngcono ngentombi yam, kuba oomama abangatshatanga abanabo ubunewunewu bokophula. Elo lizwi entlokweni yam belihlala likhawuleza ukundikhumbuza indlela endisilela ngayo kwindima yam ngalo lonke ixesha ndivumela ezo nyembezi ukuba zehle. Ukucaca: Ndichithe ixesha elifanelekileyo kunyango ndithetha nje ngelo lizwi.

Okukwintsusa

Ubomi bunzima. Ukuba ubundibuze kunyaka odlulileyo, ngendikuxelele ukuba ndiyifumene yonke into. Ngendikuxelele ukuba iziqwenga zobomi bam bezihlangene njengamaqhekeza epuzzle, kwaye yonke into ibiyinto entle njengokuba bendinokucinga.

Kodwa andifezekanga. Andisoze ndibekho. Ndifumene uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Ndiyawa xa izinto ziba nzima.

Ngethamsanqa, ndikwanakho ukuzikhupha kule migibe. Ndiyenzile ngaphambili. Ndiyazi ukuba xa ndirhuqwa phantsi kwakhona, ndiyakuyenza kwakhona, nam.

Ndiza kuzikhupha ngenxa yentombi yam - sobabini. Ndizakuyenza kusapho lwethu. Okukwintsusa: Ndingumama ongatshatanga, kwaye andinabo ubunewunewu bokophula.

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