Ndiluvule njani uxinzelelo lwam emsebenzini

Umxholo

• Utshintsho kumbono
• Uyilungiselela njani 'Incoko'
• Izifundo endizifundileyo
• 1. Uxinzelelo sisifo esifana nesinye
• Andindedwa ekujonganeni noxinzelelo emsebenzini
• 3. Baninzi ngakumbi abaqeshi abaxhasa impilo-ntle emsebenzini
• Ukuguqula indawo yam yokusebenza ibe yindawo ekhuselekileyo
• Endala kum, kunye nam yonke

Kuba lonke ixesha ndibambe umsebenzi, bendihlala nokugula ngengqondo. Kodwa ukuba ubungumntu endisebenza naye, ngekhe wazi.

Ndafunyaniswa ndinexinzelelo kwiminyaka eyi-13 eyadlulayo. Ndithweswe isidanga kwikholeji ndaza ndasebenza kwiminyaka eli-12 eyadlulayo. Njengabanye abaninzi, bendiphila ngokwenyani ebinzulu kangangokuba bendingenakho kwaye ndingafanelanga ukuba ndithethe ngoxinzelelo eofisini.Mhlawumbi ndikufundile oku ngokubukela utata esokola noxinzelelo olukhulu ngelixa egcina umsebenzi ophumelelayo wezomthetho. Okanye mhlawumbi yinto enkulu kunamava am-into thina njengoluntu asiqinisekanga ukuba singajongana njani nayo.

Mhlawumbi bobabini.

Nokuba ziphi na izizathu, uninzi lomsebenzi wam, bendiwufihlile uxinzelelo lwam koogxa bam. Xa bendisemsebenzini, bendinjalo ngenene. Ndiphumelele kumandla okwenza kakuhle kwaye ndaziva ndikhuselekile ngaphakathi kwemida yam yobungcali. Ndingadandatheka njani xa ndenza lo msebenzi ubaluleke kangaka? Ndingaziva njani ndixhalabile xa ndifumana olunye uphononongo lwentsebenzo?

Kodwa ndenzile. Ndaziva ndinexhala kwaye ndibuhlungu phantse isiqingatha sexesha endandiseofisini. Emva kwamandla am angenamda, iiprojekthi ezilungelelaniswe ngokugqibeleleyo, kunye noncumo olukhulu, yayiligobolondo lokoyika nokudinwa kwam. Ndandisoyika ukudanisa nabani na kwaye bendihlala ndisebenza ngaphezulu. Ubunzima bokudana buya kundityumza ngethuba leentlanganiso kunye nekhompyuter yam. Ndiva iinyembezi ziqala ukuhla kwakhona, ndandibaleka ndiye kwigumbi lokuhlambela ndilile, ndilile, ndilile. Kwaye emva koko nditshize ubuso bam ngamanzi abandayo abandayo ukuze kungabikho mntu uzokwazi ukuxela. Amaxesha amaninzi ndiphume eofisini ndiziva ndidiniwe ukuba ndingenza nantoni na ngaphandle kokuwela ebhedini. Kwaye zange-kanye-ndakhe ndayixelela umphathi wam into endikuyo.

Endaweni yokuthetha ngeempawu zokugula kwam, ndingathi izinto ezinje: "Ndiphilile. Ndidiniwe namhlanje. " Okanye, "Kuninzi endikuthethayo ngoku."

“Yintloko nje. Ndiza kuphila. ”

Utshintsho kumbono

Andizange ndiyazi indlela yokufakela u-Amy oPhezulu kunye no-Amy oxinezelekileyo. Babonakala bengabantu ababini abaphikisanayo, kwaye ndaye ndaya ndiphelelwa ngamandla kukungazinzi okwakukhona ngaphakathi kwam. Ukuzenza ngathi kukutsala, ngakumbi xa usenza iiyure ezisibhozo ukuya kwezili-10 ngosuku. Khange ndilunge, andilunganga, kodwa khange ndicinge ukuba mandixelele nabani emsebenzini ukuba bendisokola nokugula ngengqondo. Kuthekani ukuba abantu endisebenza nabo bayandiyeka? Kuthekani ukuba bendithathwa njengegeza okanye ndingakulungelanga ukwenza umsebenzi wam? Kuthekani ukuba ukubhengezwa kwam kuya kunciphisa amathuba exesha elizayo? Ndandilufuna ngokulinganayo uncedo kwaye ndisoyika isiphumo sokuyicela.

Yonke into yatshintsha kum ngo-Matshi 2014. Bendisokola iinyanga emva kokutshintsha kwamayeza, kwaye uxinzelelo lwam kunye noxinzelelo lwaluphuma ngaphandle kolawulo. Ngesiquphe, isigulo sengqondo sasinkulu kakhulu kunento endinokuyifihla emsebenzini. Andikwazi ukuzinza, kwaye ndisoyika ukhuseleko lwam, ndazijonga esibhedlele sabagula ngengqondo okokuqala ebomini bam. Ngaphandle kwendlela esi sigqibo sinokuluchaphazela ngayo usapho lwam, bendixhalabile ngokungakhathali malunga nendlela enokuthi iwonakalise ngayo umsebenzi wam. Bangacinga ntoni oogxa bam? Andizange ndicinge ngokujongana nomnye wabo kwakhona.

Ukujonga emva kwelo xesha, ndiyabona ngoku ukuba bendijongene notshintsho olukhulu kumbono. Ndijongane nendlela enamatye ngaphambili, ukusuka ekuguleni kakhulu ukuya kuchacha kunye nokubuyela kuzinzo. Phantse unyaka, ndandingakwazi ukusebenza konke konke. Khange ndikwazi ukujongana noxinzelelo ngokufihla ngasemva kwe-Amy Professional Professional. Khange ndiphinde ndizenze ngathi ndiphilile, kuba kucacile andiyiyo. Kwanyanzeleka ukuba ndiphonononge ukuba kutheni ndibeka ugxininiso olukhulu kangaka kwikhondo lomsebenzi nakudumo lwam, nditsho nokwenzakala kwam.

Uyilungiselela njani 'Incoko'

Xa kufika ixesha lokuba ndibuyele emsebenzini, ndaziva ngathi ndiyaqala kwakhona. Kwakufuneka ndithathe izinto kancinci, ndicele uncedo, kwaye ndizenzele imida esempilweni.

Ekuqaleni, bendisoyika malunga nethemba lokuxelela umphathi omtsha ukuba bendinengxaki yoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Ngaphambi kwencoko, ndafunda iingcebiso ezimbalwa zokundinceda ndizive ndikhululekile. Zezi ezi zindisebenzeleyo:

1. Yenze ngobuqu. Kubalulekile ukuba uthethe buqu endaweni yokuthetha ngefowuni, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ungathumeli i-imeyile.
2. Khetha ixesha elilungele wena. Ndacela intlanganiso xa ndiziva ndizolile noko. Kwakungcono ukuveza ngaphandle kokukhala okanye ukunyusa iimvakalelo zam.
3. Ulwazi ngamandla. Ndabelana nabanye ngolwazi olusisiseko malunga nokudakumba, kubandakanya nokuba bendifuna uncedo lobuchwephesha kwisigulo sam. Ndize noluhlu olulungelelanisiweyo lwezinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka, ndicacisa imisebenzi endiziva ukuba ndiyakwazi ukuyenza nalapho ndifuna inkxaso eyongezelelweyo. Khange ndibelane ngeenkcukacha zam ezifana nokuba ngubani unyango lwam okanye loluphi unyango endiluthathayo.
4. Yigcine ingcali. Ndivakalise umbulelo ngenkxaso kunye nokuqonda komphathi wam, kwaye ndigxininisile ukuba bendisaziva ndikwazi ukuwenza umsebenzi wam. Kwaye ndayigcina incoko imfutshane, ndayeka ukwabelana ngeenkcukacha ezininzi malunga nobumnyama boxinzelelo. Ndifumanise ukuba ukusondela kwincoko ngendlela enobuchule kunye nenyani kuseta ithoni yesiphumo esihle.

Izifundo endizifundileyo

Njengokuba ndibakha kwakhona ubomi bam kwaye ndenza ukhetho olutsha, kokubini emsebenzini nakubomi bam bobuqu, ndafunda izinto ezimbalwa endinqwenela ukuba ngendazazile kwasekuqaleni kobomi bam.

1. Uxinzelelo sisifo esifana nesinye

Isigulo sengqondo sasidla ngokuziva siyingxaki ehlazisayo kunesifo esisemthethweni. Ndinqwenela ukuba ndigqithe kuyo ngokuzama kancinci. Kodwa, kanye njengokuba unganqweneli ukuba kude neswekile okanye imeko yentliziyo, loo ndlela ayikaze isebenze. Kwafuneka ndamkele ngokusisiseko ukuba ukudakumba sisifo esidinga unyango. Ayilotyala lam okanye ukhetho lwam. Ukwenza lo mbono utshintshe ngcono ukwazisa ngendlela endijongana ngayo nokudakumba emsebenzini. Ngamanye amaxesha ndifuna usuku lokugula. Ndiyeke ukusola kunye neentloni, kwaye ndaqala ukuzikhathalela ngcono.

Andindedwa ekujonganeni noxinzelelo emsebenzini

Isigulo sengqondo sinokuzihlukanisa, kwaye bendihlala ndicinga ukuba ndim ndedwa osokolayo kuyo. Ngokuchacha kwam, ndiye ndaqala ukufunda ngakumbi malunga nokuba bangaphi abantu abachaphazeleka ziimeko zempilo yengqondo. Phantse umntu om-1 kwaba-5 e-United States bachatshazelwa sisifo sengqondo minyaka le. Ngapha koko, uxinzelelo lweklinikhi lusehlabathini lonke. Xa ndicinga ngezi nkcukacha manani kwimeko yeofisi yam, phantse iqinisekile ukuba bendingenguye kwaye andindedwa ekujonganeni noxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo.

3. Baninzi ngakumbi abaqeshi abaxhasa impilo-ntle emsebenzini

Ibala lezempilo yengqondo yinto yokwenyani, kodwa kukho ukuqonda okukhulayo kwendlela impilo yengqondo enokubachaphazela ngayo abasebenzi, ngakumbi kwiinkampani ezinkulu ezinamasebe emicimbi yabasebenzi. Cela ukubona incwadana yabasebenzi yomqeshi wakho. La maxwebhu aya kukuxelela into ekufuneka uyazi malunga namalungelo kunye nezibonelelo zakho.

Ukuguqula indawo yam yokusebenza ibe yindawo ekhuselekileyo

Kwinkoliso yemisebenzi yam, bendikholelwa ekubeni andimele ndixelele mntu konke konke ukuba ndinexinzelelo. Emva kwesiqendu sam esikhulu, ndaziva ngathi ndifuna ukuxelela wonke umntu. Namhlanje ndimise umhlaba ophakathi osempilweni emsebenzini. Ndifumene abantu abambalwa endibathembileyo ukuba bangathetha nabo malunga nendlela endiziva ngayo. Kuyinyani ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu okhululekile ukuthetha ngokugula ngengqondo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndiza kufumana ingxelo engachazwanga okanye eyenzakalisayo. Ndifundile ukushukumisa la mazwi, kuba ayingomboniso wam. Kodwa ukuba nabantu abambalwa endinokuzityand 'igila kubo kundinceda ndizive ndingahlali ndedwa kwaye kundinika inkxaso ebalulekileyo ngexesha leeyure ezininzi endizichitha eofisini.

Kwaye ukuvulwa kwam kudala indawo ekhuselekileyo yokuba bavule, nabo. Sisonke siphula ibala ngempilo yengqondo emsebenzini.

Endala kum, kunye nam yonke

Ngomsebenzi omkhulu, isibindi kunye nokuzihlola, u-Amy wobuqu uye waba ngu-Amy oPhezulu. Ndiphelele. Kwelo bhinqa lingena eofisini ntsasa nganye liphuma kulo ekupheleni kosuku lomsebenzi. Maxa wambi ndiye ndizikhathaze malunga noogxa bam abacinga ngokugula kwam kwengqondo, kodwa xa loo ngcinga ivela, ndiyayiqonda ukuba yintoni: uphawu loxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.

Kwiminyaka eyi-10 yokuqala yomsebenzi wam, ndisebenzise amandla amaninzi ndizama ukujonga abanye abantu. Uloyiko lwam olukhulu kukuba umntu angayiqonda kwaye acinge kancinci ngam ngokuba noxinzelelo. Ndiye ndafunda ukubeka phambili impilo-ntle yam phezu kwento enokucingwa ngomnye umntu ngam. Endaweni yokuchitha iiyure ezingenakubalwa ndigqibile ukufezekisa, ukuthanda kakhulu, nokuzenzisa, ndibeka loo mandla ekukhokeleni ubomi obuyinyani. Ukuvumela le ndiyenzileyo yanele ngokwaneleyo. Ukuqaphela xa ndoyisiwe. Ukucela uncedo. Ukuthi hayi xa ndifuna.

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