Ukuqonda kunye nokujongana noMhlaza wesiphelo

Umxholo

• Lithini ixesha lokuphila lomntu onomhlaza ongapheliyo?
• Ngaba lukhona unyango kunyango lwesiphelo?
• Ukhetho lomntu
• Uvavanyo lwezonyango
• Olunye unyango
• Ngawaphi amanyathelo alandelayo emva kokuxilongwa?
• Yamkele indlela ovakalelwa ngayo
• Imibuzo yokubuza ugqirha wakho
• Imibuzo onokuzibuza yona
• Ukuthetha nabanye
• Ndingazifumana phi izixhobo?

Yintoni umhlaza ongapheliyo?

Umhlaza wesiphelo ubhekisa kumhlaza onganyangekiyo okanye onganyangekiyo. Ngamanye amaxesha ikwabizwa ngokuba ngumhlaza wamanqanaba okugqibela. Naluphi na uhlobo lomhlaza lunokuba ngumhlaza ongapheliyo.

Umhlaza wesiphelo wahlukile kumhlaza oqhubele phambili. Njengomhlaza ongapheliyo, umhlaza oqhubela phambili awunyangeki. Kodwa iyaphendula kunyango, enokuthi icothise inkqubela phambili yayo. Umhlaza wesiphelo awuphenduli kunyango. Ngenxa yoko, ukunyanga umhlaza wesiphelo kugxile ekwenzeni umntu ukuba akhululeke kangangoko kunokwenzeka.

Funda ukuze ufunde ngakumbi malunga nomhlaza ongapheliyo, kubandakanya nefuthe lokuphila kunye nendlela yokujamelana nayo ukuba wena okanye umntu omthandayo ufumana esi sifo.

Lithini ixesha lokuphila lomntu onomhlaza ongapheliyo?

Ngokubanzi, umhlaza wokuphela unciphisa ixesha lokuphila lomntu. Kodwa ukuhlala komntu ebomini kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi, kubandakanya:

• uhlobo lomhlaza abanalo
• impilo yabo iyonke
• ingaba zikhona ezinye iimeko zempilo

Oogqirha bahlala bexhomekeke kumxube wamava ezonyango kunye ne-intuition xa bemisela ixesha lokuphila lomntu. Kodwa uphononongo lubonisa ukuba olu qikelelo luhlala luchanekile kwaye luthemba kakhulu.

Ukunceda ukulwa nale nto, abaphandi kunye noogqirha beze neeseti ezininzi zezikhokelo zokunceda oncologists kunye noononophelo kunyango oogqirha banike abantu umbono oqinisekileyo wokuphila kwabo. Imizekelo yesi sikhokelo ibandakanya:

• Isikali sokusebenza seKarnofsky. Eli nqanaba linceda oogqirha bavavanye inqanaba lomntu wonke lokusebenza, kubandakanya nokukwazi kwabo ukwenza imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla kunye nokuzikhathalela. Amanqaku anikezelwa njengepesenti. Amanqaku asezantsi, amafutshane ixesha lokuphila.
• Amanqaku okuxela kwangaphambili. Oku kusebenzisa inqaku lomntu kwisikali sokusebenza seKarnofsky, iseli yegazi emhlophe kunye nokubalwa kwe-lymphocyte, kunye nezinye izinto zokuvelisa amanqaku phakathi kwe-0 kunye ne-17.5. Ukunyuka kwamanqaku, kufutshane nexesha lokuphila.

Ngelixa olu qikelelo lungasoloko luchanekile, lusebenzela injongo ebalulekileyo. Banokunceda abantu kunye noogqirha babo benze izigqibo, bazibekele iinjongo, kwaye basebenze ukuya kwizicwangciso zokuphela kobomi.

Ngaba lukhona unyango kunyango lwesiphelo?

Umhlaza wesiphelo awunyangeki. Oku kuthetha ukuba akukho nyango iya kuwususa umhlaza. Kodwa lukhona unyango oluninzi olunokunceda ukuba umntu akhululeke kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Oku kuhlala kubandakanya ukunciphisa iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga zomhlaza kunye nawo nawaphi na amayeza asetyenziswayo.

Abanye oogqirha banokuqhubeka nokulawula i-chemotherapy okanye i-radiation ukwandisa ixesha lokuphila, kodwa oku akusoloko kuyindlela efanelekileyo.

Ukhetho lomntu

Ngelixa oogqirha banegalelo elithile kwisicwangciso sonyango somntu onomhlaza ongapheliyo, ihlala isiza kukhetho lomntu.

Abanye abanomhlaza wokuphela bakhetha ukuyeka zonke iindlela zonyango. Oku kuhlala kubangelwa ziziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ezingafunekiyo. Umzekelo, abanye banokufumanisa ukuba iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga zemitha okanye iichemotherapy azikulungelanga ukonyuka kwexesha lokuphila.

Uvavanyo lwezonyango

Abanye banokukhetha ukuthatha inxaxheba kuvavanyo lweklinikhi.

Unyango olusetyenziswe kolu vavanyo alunakuwunyanga umhlaza ongapheliyo, kodwa banegalelo kuluntu lwezonyango ekuqondeni okukhulu unyango lomhlaza. Banokunceda izizukulwana ezizayo. Oku kunokuba yindlela enamandla yokuba umntu aqinisekise ukuba iintsuku zakhe zokugqibela zinempembelelo engapheliyo.

Olunye unyango

Olunye unyango lunokuba luncedo kwabo banomhlaza ongapheliyo. Unyango, unyango lokuthambisa, kunye neendlela zokuphumla zinokunceda ukunciphisa iintlungu kunye nokungonwabi ngelixa zisenokunciphisa uxinzelelo.

Oogqirha abaninzi bancomela abantu abanomhlaza ongapheliyo ukuba badibane nengcali yezengqondo okanye ugqirha wezifo zengqondo ukunceda ukujongana noxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Le miqathango ayiqhelekanga kubantu abanomdlavuza ongapheliyo.

Ngawaphi amanyathelo alandelayo emva kokuxilongwa?

Ukufumana isifo somhlaza ongapheliyo kunokuba nzima kakhulu. Oku kunokwenza kube nzima ukwazi ukuba wenzeni ngokulandelayo. Akukho ndlela ichanekileyo okanye engalunganga yokuqhubeka, kodwa la manyathelo anokukunceda ukuba awuqinisekanga ngento oza kuyenza ngokulandelayo.

Yamkele indlela ovakalelwa ngayo

Ukuba ufumana iindaba zokuba wena okanye umntu omthandayo unesifo somhlaza ongapheliyo, uya kudlula kuluhlu lweemvakalelo, rhoqo ngaphakathi kwithuba elifutshane. Oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo.

Umzekelo, usenokuziva unomsindo okanye ulusizi, kuphela emva koko uzive unesiqabu, ngakumbi ukuba inkqubo yonyango ibinzima kakhulu. Abanye banokuziva benetyala ngokushiya ngasemva abantu ababathandayo. Abanye basenokuziva bengento kwaphela.

Zama ukuzinika ixesha lokuziva ukuba ufuna ukuziva njani. Khumbula ukuba akukho ndlela ichanekileyo yokusabela kwisifo somhlaza ongapheliyo.

Ukongeza, musa ukoyika ukufikelela kwinkxaso kubahlobo kunye nosapho. Ukuba awuziva ukhululekile ukwenza oku, thetha nogqirha wakho. Banokuthumela kwizibonelelo zasekhaya kunye neenkonzo ezinokukunceda.

Ukufumana isifo somhlaza ongapheliyo kunokukhokelela kukuziva ungathandabuzeki. Kwakhona, oku kuqhelekile. Cinga ukujongana nokungaqiniseki ngokubhala uluhlu lwemibuzo, zombini ugqirha kunye nawe. Oku kuya kukunceda ukuba unxibelelane ngcono nabo basondeleyo kuwe.

Imibuzo yokubuza ugqirha wakho

Emva kokufumana isifo somhlaza esibulalayo, ugqirha wakho unokuba ngumntu wokugqibela ofuna ukuthetha naye. Kodwa le mibuzo inokunceda ukuqala incoko malunga namanyathelo alandelayo:

• Ndingalindela ntoni kwiintsuku ezizayo, iiveki, iinyanga, okanye iminyaka? Oku kunokukunceda ukukunika umbono wento eza kuza apha endleleni, ekuvumela ukuba uzilungiselele ngcono ukujongana nale mingeni mitsha.
• Iyintoni iminyaka yam yokuphila? Oku kunokuvakala njengombuzo otyhafisayo, kodwa ukuba nexesha elimisiweyo kunokukunceda wenze ukhetho onokululawula, nokuba kukuthatha uhambo, ukufumana abahlobo kunye nosapho, okanye ukuzama ukunyanga okunyusa ubomi.
• Ngaba zikhona iimvavanyo ezinokunika umbono ongcono wokulindelwa kobomi bam? Nje ukuba kwenziwe isifo somhlaza esibulalayo, abanye oogqirha banokufuna ukuqhuba iimvavanyo ezongezelelweyo ukufumana umbono olungileyo wobungakanani bomhlaza. Oku kuya kukunceda wena nogqirha wakho ukuba ube nokuqonda okungcono ngokulindela ubomi. Inokukunceda ugqirha wakho ukuba akulungiselele ukhathalelo olufanelekileyo lokuthomalalisa.

Imibuzo onokuzibuza yona

Umntu oqhubeka njani emva kokufumana isifo somhlaza kwisiphelo kubandakanya into elungileyo ayithandayo. Ezi zigqibo zinokuba nzima kakhulu, kodwa ukuya kule mibuzo ngokwakho kunokunceda:

• Ngaba unyango lufanelekile? Olunye unyango lunokunyusa ixesha lokuphila kwakho, kodwa kunokukwenza ugule okanye ungakhululeki. Ukhathalelo lokunyenyiswa komzimba kunokuba yinto onokukhetha ukuyenza endaweni yoko. Yenzelwe ukukwenza ukhululeke kwiintsuku zakho zokugqibela.
• Ndidinga ulwalathiso oluphambili? Olu luxwebhu olwenzelwe ukukunceda ufezekise iminqweno yakho ukuba ekugqibeleni awunako ukuzenzela izigqibo. Inokugubungela yonke into apho amanyathelo okonga ubomi evunyelwe khona apho ungathanda ukungcwatyelwa khona.
• Ndifuna ukwenza ntoni? Abanye abantu abanomhlaza ongapheliyo bagqiba ekubeni baqhubeke nemisebenzi yabo yemihla ngemihla ngokungathi akukho nto itshintshileyo. Abanye bakhetha ukuhamba kwaye babone umhlaba ngelixa besenako. Ukhetho lwakho kufuneka lubonakalise oko ufuna ukufumana kwiintsuku zakho zokugqibela kwaye ufuna ukubachitha nabani.

Ukuthetha nabanye

Into ogqiba ekubeni wabelane ngayo malunga noxilongo lwakho ixhomekeke kuwe. Nazi iingxoxo ezithile ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe:

• Ukuxilongwa. Nje ukuba unexesha lokuqhubekeka neendaba kwaye uthathe isigqibo malunga nesenzo, unokuthatha isigqibo sokwabelana nabahlobo bakho kunye nosapho- okanye ukuyigcina ngasese kakhulu.
• Yintoni ebalulekileyo kuwe. Kwezi nyanga neentsuku zishiyekileyo, unokuthatha isigqibo sokuba ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla bunjani. Khetha iindawo, abantu, kunye nezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe ngeli xesha. Cela usapho lwakho ukuba luxhase izicwangciso zakho zokuchitha iintsuku zakho ngendlela onqwenela ngayo.
• Iminqweno yakho yokugqibela. Ngelixa ulwalathiso oluphambili luya kuyiphatha le nto kuwe, kusoloko kububulumko ukwabelana ngeminqweno yakho nabahlobo kunye nosapho ukuqinisekisa ukuba izinto zenziwa ngendlela ofuna ukuba zibe yiyo.

Ndingazifumana phi izixhobo?

Ndiyabulela kwi-intanethi, kukho izixhobo ezininzi ezinokukunceda uhambe ngeendlela ezininzi zokufumanisa isifo somhlaza. Ukuqala, cinga ngokufumana iqela lenkxaso.

Iiofisi zoogqirha, imibutho yezenkolo nezibhedlele zihlala zilungiselela amaqela enkxaso.La maqela ayilelwe ukudibanisa abantu, amalungu osapho, kunye nabanonopheli abahlangabezana nokuchongwa komhlaza. Banokubonelela, kunye neqabane lakho, abantwana, okanye amanye amalungu osapho, ngovelwano, ngesikhokelo kunye nokwamkelwa.

Umbutho weMfundo yokuFa kunye noCetyiso ikwabonelela ngoluhlu lwezixhobo kwiimeko ezininzi ezibandakanya ukusweleka kunye nosizi, ukusuka ekwenziweni komgaqo ophambili wokuhamba ngeeholide kunye nezihlandlo ezikhethekileyo.

I-CancerCare ikwabonelela ngezixhobo ezahlukeneyo zokujongana nomhlaza kunye nokuqhubela phambili komhlaza, kubandakanya iindibano zocweyo zemfundo, uncedo lwezemali kunye neempendulo zobungcali kwimibuzo engeniswe ngumsebenzisi.

Unokujonga kwakhona uluhlu lwethu lokufunda ngokujamelana nomhlaza.