Into # 1 Okufanele Uyigcine Engqondweni Phambi kokuba Uzibekele Iinjongo Zokuphulukana Nobunzima

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Unyaka omtsha kaninzi uza nesethi entsha yezigqibo: ukusebenza ngakumbi, ukutya ngcono, ukunciphisa umzimba. (PS Sinesicwangciso seentsuku ezingama-40 zokugqibela ukutyumza nayiphi na injongo.) Kodwa nokuba ufuna ukuthoba ubunzima obungakanani na okanye isihlunu ofuna ukusifumana, kubalulekile ukuba uphathe umzimba wakho ngentlonipho nothando.

IBlogger uRiley Hempson ebeguqula ubomi bakhe ngokuba sempilweni kule minyaka mibini idlulileyo. Ulahlekelwe ziiponti ezingama-55 kwinkqubo, kodwa leyo yinxalenye nje encinci yomfanekiso. Ecinga ngeenjongo zakhe kulo nyaka uphelileyo, wabhala: “Oko kwaqala njengephulo lokulahlekelwa yimfumba yobunzima, yajika yaba luhambo lwempilo, uthando nolonwabo.

URiley waqonda ukuba inguqu yena ngokwenene imfuneko yayingaphakathi. "Ukuba uzimisele ukutshintsha umzimba wakho ukuze wonwabe ngento oyibonayo, awusoze wonwabe," uqhubeke watsho. "ZITHANDE ngokwaneleyo ukunyanga umzimba wakho kunye nengqondo ngesondlo esikudingayo. Futhisela uhambo lwakho ngothando, hayi inzondo. Yonke enye into iya kuwela ngokugqibeleleyo."

Uyigqibe iposi yakhe ekhumbuza wonke umntu ukuba singaphezulu kwemizimba yethu. "Ungaphezulu kwempilo yakho," utshilo. "Uyindlela ophatha ngayo abanye, uyindlela oncuma ngayo, indlela owenza ngayo abanye bancume, indlela olila ngayo, indlela ohleka ngayo nendlela ohla ngayo kwaye ungcolile kumgangatho we-D. UZINTO EZININZI , khumbula lonto. "

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