Le TikTok icebisa ukuba uMakhulu wakho ubenendima ephazamisa ingqondo kwindalo yakho

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Nokuba loluphi uhlobo lobudlelwane onalo, nangona kunjalo, i-TikTok entsha yentsholongwane ibonisa ukuba ungasondela kumakhulu wakho kunokuba ubucinga.

NgoMgqibelo, umsebenzisi weTikTok @debodali uthumele ividiyo ngento ayibiza ngokuba "lulwazi olutshabalalisa umhlaba" malunga nenkqubo yokuzala yabasetyhini. "Njengabafazi, sizalwe nawo onke amaqanda ethu," uyachaza. "Ngoko umama wakho akazange enze amaqanda akho, umakhulu wakho uyenzile, kuba umama wakho wazalwa namaqanda akhe. Iqanda elenzileyo ladalwa ngumakhulu wakho." (Idibeneyo: Indlela iCoronavirus enokuChaphazela ngayo impilo yakho yokuzala)

Ubhidekile? Masiyaphule, siqale ngeziseko zeklasi yezempilo. Kwabasetyhini, ii-ovari (amadlala amancinci, amise okwe-oval abekwe emacaleni esibeleko) anoxanduva lokuvelisa amaqanda (aka i-ova okanye i-oocytes), aphuhla abe yimveku xa edibene nesidoda, ngokutsho kweCleveland Clinic. La maqanda aveliswa kuphelaEsibelekweni, kwaye inani lamaqanda liphezulu malunga nezigidi ezithandathu ukuya kwizigidi ezisixhenxe zamaqanda kwiiveki ezingama-20 zokumitha, ngokutsho kweAmerican College of Obstetrics and Gynecologists (ACOG). Ngelo xesha, inani lamaqanda liqala ukuya ezantsi, kwaye ngexesha lokuzalwa komntwana obhinqileyo, bashiyeke banamaqanda asisigidi esinye, ngokwe-ACOG. (Eyeleleneyo: Ngaba isibeleko sakho siyakhula ngenene ngexesha lakho?)

Ngelixa kuyinyani ukuba abantu ababhinqileyo bazalwa benamaqanda abo onke, amanye amanqaku ka- @ debodali ebengekho kwimali yonke, utshilo uJenna McCarthy, MD, i-endocrinologist eqinisekisiweyo yokuzala kunye nomlawuli wezonyango WINFertility. "Inkcazo echanekileyo kukuba umama wakho wadala amaqanda akhe ngelixa wayesakhula ngaphakathi kumakhulu wakho," ucacisa uGqirha McCarthy.

Yicinge njengodoli waserashiya wokuzalisa. Kule meko, umakhulu wakho uzala umama wakho esibelekweni sakhe. Kwangelo xesha, umama wakho uvelisa amaqanda ngaphakathi kwii-ovari zakhe, kwaye elinye lala maqanda ekugqibeleni lichunyiswe ukuze libe nguwe. Nangona umama wakho kunye neqanda elenza ukuba nibesemzimbeni ofanayo (umakhulu wakho) ngaxeshanye, nobabini niyilwe ngomxube owahlukileyo weDNA, utsho uGqirha McCarthy. (Idibeneyo: 5 Ubume Abahleli bathathe i-23andMe ye-DNA kuvavanyo kwaye yile nto bayifundileyo)

"Amaqanda kamama wakho enziwe yena [eyakhe] imathiriyeli yemfuza, eyindibaniselwano ye yena Umama notata weDNA, uyacacisa uGqr. McCarthy. "Ukuba iqanda okhule kulo lenziwe ngumakhulu wakho, iDNA yalo ngaphakathi hayi Faka iDNA katatomkhulu wakho. "

Uguqulo: Ayonyani ukuthi "iqanda elenza wena ladalwa ngumakhulu wakho," njengoko u-@debodali ecebisa kwiTikTok yakhe. Umama wakho wazenzela amaqanda yedwa - kwenzeka nje xa wayesesibelekweni sika gogo wakho.

Okwangoku, olu luvo lokumitha kwesibeleko lukhathaza ingqondo. "Kupholile ukucinga ngento yokuba iqanda eliye laba wena UGqr.

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