Kubantwana Bam: Undenze ngcono

Umxholo

• Ke kuni, bantwana bam, ndifuna ukuthi - {textend} enkosi ngazo zonke iindlela enindenze ndangcono:

Ukuya ekukholweni ndiyayazi yonke into ekuqondeni ukuba kuncinci kangakanani okwaziyo ukuba bekungekho lula, kodwa abantwana bam bayaqhubeka ukundinceda nditshintshe.

Ndiyayazi into abayithethayo: Kungumsebenzi wam, njengomama wakho, ukuqinisekisa ukuba nonke niyakhula nibe nobuntu, nibe ngabantu abanesidima.

Kungumsebenzi wam ukufundisa izinto - {textend} njengokuthi "enkosi kanjani," kunye nokubambelela abanye iingcango, kwaye nokusebenza kanzima ukonga imali yakho.

Kungumsebenzi wam ukukwenza ube ngabantu abangcono. Ukukhulisa ukuba ube yinxalenye yesizukulwana esiya kwenza ngcono kunangaphambili, kwaye senze umhlaba ngokwawo ube yindawo engcono kuwo wonke umntu.

Kodwa ukuba ndinyanisekile apha, bantwana, inyani yile - {textend} niyenzile yonke mna ngcono.

Ngaphambi kokuba ndikwazi, ndiyavuma ukuba ndingumfazi ocinga ukuba uyazi konke. Umfazi owayehamba kwiindawo ezibaluleke kakhulu enoluhlu lokujonga olucwangcisiweyo kunye nezicwangciso ezininzi. Umfazi ongenalo ixesha lokuba nabani na okanye nantoni na ayeke, enkosi kakhulu.

Kwaye emva koko weza. Ewe, owokuqala kuni, kunjalo.

Uza kunye kwaye uliguqulele ngokupheleleyo ilizwe lam.

Zimkile izicwangciso endizenzileyo. Zihambile iindawo ebendifuna ukuya kuzo. Lwalungekho uluhlu lokutshekishwa kobomi bam kuba endaweni yoko, ngokungathi ngephanyazo, ngequbuliso ndajongana nesihloko esithi "Mama."

Andiqinisekanga ukuba ndikulungele. Njengokuba iintsana ziqhubeka zisiza, ndizamile nje ukubambelela kwisikhephe ukuze ndisinde kwisiphithiphithi sobomi nabantwana abane, aba-6 nangaphantsi. Kodwa kusana ngalunye kuye kwafika isifundo esifundwayo, intliziyo ithambile, umfazi kunye nomama kunye nodade kunye nenkosikazi yenze ngcono.

Ke kuni, bantwana bam, ndifuna ukuthi - {textend} enkosi ngazo zonke iindlela enindenze ndangcono:

Ndingcono kuba konke ukutya kwasebusuku kunye nawe kundifundisile umonde kunye nobulumko bokwazi ukuba awona manqanaba anzima ekugqibeleni aya kudlula.

Ndingcono kuba ukuswela ubuthongo kunzima ukugqitha kuye kundifundise ukuthobeka- {textend} ukuqonda imida yam kunye nokujonga kwezona zinto zibalulekileyo.

Ndingcono kuba ngoku ndiyazi ukuba umhlaba awuyi kuphela ukuba andipheki rhoqo ebusuku. Kwaye nokuba ukutya okuziinkozo kwisidlo sangokuhlwa kunokuba yinto entle kakhulu.

Ndingcono kuba xa ndiziva ngathi uxinzelelo lwabantu abadala ukuba uhlale "uvuliwe" - {textend} ukuba ube nemveliso kwaye uxakeke kwaye wenze zonke izinto - {textend} undibonisile uvuyo olulula ukuba kwakhona. Ukuhlala esofeni kwaye ungenzi nto ngaphandle kokuhleka indlela onokuzibamba ngayo iinzwane zakho njengeminwe, ukulala ngaphandle kwaye ubukele amafu njengaxa ndandisemncinci, ukufunda incwadi emva kwencwadi kwaye ungakhange ufumane umnqweno wokujonga ifowuni yam.

Kwaye xa ndithetha ngale fowuni, ndibengcono kuba undinike inkululeko yokukhumbula ukuba kwakunjani ukuhamba emhlabeni ngaphandle kokubhala kwam. Ukungabi nanjongo kunye nokuyila kwaye uhambe ixesha elipheleleyo ngaphandle kweminwe yam ukujija iscreen sokuskrola. (Thembeka: Uhambe ixesha elingakanani ngaphandle kokujonga ifowuni yakho?)

Ndingcono kuba ekugqibeleni, ndifunde ukuba xa umama engonwabanga, akukho mntu wonwabileyo. Indawo enzima ngokumangalisayo ukuba kuyo xa ubunzima beemvakalelo zosapho lwethu buhlala emagxeni am, kodwa okwangoku, yindlela eyiyo. Kwaye luxanduva endinalo ekugqibeleni.

Kuthetha ukuba xa ndi cranky kwaye ndinestresi, nonke niziva. Kwaye xa ndenza ngathi ndilungile kwaye ndiqhubeka nokutyhala, kuphela ukophuka? Kubuhlungu kuthi sonke.

Ke ndingcono ngoba ndiyamkele indawo yam njenge-navigator yeemvakalelo kule ntsapho. Oku kuthetha ukuvuma xa ndidiniwe okanye ndonganyelwe okanye ndifuna nje ukuzenzela isandwich ngenxa yokuba ndixhomile.

Ndingcono kuba ndinibukele nonke nisenza izinto ezinzima. Ndikubonile uthabathe izikolo ezitsha kunye nokuhlala kweNICU kunye nokudana kunye namaphupha. Ndikubonile ukhaliphile kunakuqala.

Ndingcono kuba ndifundile ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuhleka kwakhona kwesisu, ukudanisa ekhitshini, ukubukela ukuqhwithela, ukwenza ii-cookies kuba, enkampini kwigumbi lokuhlala, kwaye ndibalise amabali asileyo angenasiphelo sokwenyani.

Ndingcono, bantwana, ngokungqalileyo, kuba nguwe Zonke iintlobo ezilungileyo.

Ndiyabulela ke, kumama oza kuhlala ezama ukuba ngohlobo olulungileyo ngaye- {textend} kuba nonke niyifanele loo nto.

UChaunie Brusie ngumongikazi wezabasebenzi kunye nonikezelo wajika waba ngumbhali kunye nomama omtsha osandula kuvezwa wabantwana abahlanu. Ubhala ngayo yonke into ukusuka kwezemali ukuya kwezempilo ukuba uphile njani ngezo ntsuku zokuqala zobuzali xa konke onokukwenza kukucinga ngako konke ukulala ongakufumaniyo. Mlandele apha.