Eyona nto ayicingayo malunga neProfayili yakho yokuthandana kwi-Intanethi

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Ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi kunokuba nzima. Uyazi ukuba ungumfazi okrelekrele, osempilweni, oqhutywayo, kodwa ukuzibeka phambili emhlabeni kulula ukutsho kunokwenza. Kuya kufuneka uyazi njani into ekufuneka uyibandakanyile, ngaphandle, kunye nendlela yokuthetha ngayo yonke into ukuze utsale abantu abafanelekileyo?

IBravouthotho olutsha Isithethe sokuDibana kwi-Intanethi kwindoda yaseMelika kuvavanya abona bantu uzama ukufikelela kubo: amadoda. Umboniso ujonga izimvo zabo kwilizwe lokuthandana nge-cyber, kwaye ukongeza kumxube, senze uphando lwethu lwekhamera. Apha, abafana bayitya kwiifoto, iiprofayili, kunye nazo zonke izinto ozenzayo ezilungileyo nezingalunganga ukuze zihoye. Akuyomfuneko ukuba ulungise isicwangciso sakho esisekelwe kwiingcamango zala madoda, kodwa ukuba ukwi-rut, thatha iingcebiso ngqo emlonyeni we-stallion.

Oko Akucinga Ngeefoto Zakho

"Ukuba imifanekiso emibini okanye nangaphezulu ukuyo nomfana omnye, kufuneka inkcazo." -Jeff, engama-35

"Xa unemifanekiso emininzi kakhulu kunye namalungu osapho, isenza sicinge ukuba uza kusirhuqela kwimisebenzi yosapho kwangoko. Balance iifoto zosapho kunye nawe usenza into emnandi-njengokuxhoma kwibala lemidlalo-ke ndinokulunga uluvo lokuba ixesha lethu sikunye liya kuba njani. " -Yakobi, 42

"Ukuba iifoto zowasetyhini zinabahlobo kuphela, ndicinga ukuba uneentloni kwaye akazithembanga ngenkangeleko yakhe. Ndingathanda ukubona umfanekiso wakhe ozithembileyo esenza into ayithandayo. Oko kundinika into yokuthetha." —UJavier, oneminyaka engama-30

"Abafazi abanemifanekiso yabo benza izinto ezizidenge kunye ne-dorky bahlala bedibanisa kum-ibonisa uburharha kwaye intombazana inokuzihlekisa." —UDan, oneminyaka engama-32

"Ndiyayithanda ifoto yendalo, intombazana entle kunye noncumo lwayo olunamandla. Oko kundixelela ukuba akazami kakhulu kwaye uyayazi into ebalulekileyo ebomini bakhe." –Carlo, oneminyaka engama-37

Oko Akucinga NgeProfayili yakho

"Iprofayili yomntu wonke ithi bathanda ukuhamba, izilwanyana, ukuzama ukutya okutsha, kwaye banika i-intanethi ukuthandana itrayi. Ukuba uvakala ngathi wonke umntu, ndiza kucinga ukuba awuzange ubeke nayiphi na ingcamango kwiprofayili yakho. Eyona nto ingcono kakhulu Iiprofayili zimfutshane kwaye zibonisa ukuba intombazana inengqondo evulekileyo." -Uza, 31

"Ndiya kudlula iprofayili ukuba iprofayili yowesifazane ithi umfana 'kufuneka andihlekise.' Sukundixelela nje ukuba ufuna ntoni umntu akwenzele kona-gxininisa kwiimpawu ozibona unomtsalane kuwe.Ukuba uthi uyamthanda 'umntu ongazicingeli kakhulu,' oku kundinika ukuqonda kubuntu bakho. " –UDan, 32

"Ndiyathanda xa iprofayile yakhe ibonisa ukuphoxa okuncinci kunye ne-spunk. I-Sarcass ingabonisa ukuba intombazana ayizithathi okanye ithathele ingqalelo kakhulu ubomi. Iprofayili yentombazana eyandenza ndahleka yathi ifuna 'i-rock star chef ukukhangela enzonzobileni engapheliyo. Ukuba ungenza ikeyiki ebomvu ye-velvet, kulungile, intle loo nto. '"–Rob, 31

"Uninzi lwamadoda ngokusisiseko ngabantwana. Ukuba iprofayile yakho ibonakala ngathi inzima kakhulu, soyika ukuba uza kusenza sithengise i-Xbox One yethu kwi-eBay. Sebenzisa isilingo esidala kwaye utshintshe! Beka amagama aphambili okonwabisa kwiprofayili yakho ukuze ufumane nathi kwi-hook, emva koko ungatshintsha umdlalo xa sele sithandana kwaye asiyi kuqaphela ukuba sithatha i-apile nawe ngeempelaveki." —UJames, oneminyaka engama-42

"Amacandelo ahlukeneyo eprofayile yakho akufanele angqubane. Ukuba uthi awuseli rhoqo, musa ukubeka iifoto zakho zokusela." -Umhle, 26

Ukuba intombazana ithetha izinto ezininzi ezigxekayo, andinamdla kuyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba injani na, ingakumbi xa isebenzisa igama elithi ‘intiyo.’”—UJack 26

"Ndadibana nebhinqa elingenayo ifoto yeprofayili kwaye nam ndingenayo, kodwa lathi lithanda isixeko esandul 'ukusityelela kwaye ndisithandayo. Ndathi ndakuqonda ukuba izinto esinomdla kuzo kunye nohambo lwethu ziyafana, kwafuneka ndimthumele umyalezo ngokukhawuleza. ukuze ufumane okungakumbi." -UYohane, 30

Into Ayicingayo Ngawe Ukufikelela Kuqala

"Ukuba intombazana indithumelela imiyalezo kuqala, ngokuqinisekileyo inomtsalane. Kubonisa ukuba iyayazi into eyifunayo, kwaye ukuba ndim, ndingubani ukuba ndikhalaze? Mna ngokwam andithandi ukuqalisa ngokuthumela imiyalezo." -UDanny, 29

"Ndiyathanda xa intombazana iqala ukunxibelelana ukuba nje inikela ingqalelo kwiprofayili yam kwaye inokuthetha okungaphezulu nje kokuthi 'Molo' okanye 'Umhle.'”—UMike, oneminyaka engama-26 ubudala.

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