Ngaba umntwana ongeva iimveku?

Umxholo

• Ukukhula kokuva kosana olungekazalwa: Umda wexesha
• Ngaba usana lwam-luya kulazi ilizwi lam?
• Ngaba ndifanele ndidlale umculo wosana lwam olusakhulayo?
• Ukuva kwasebusaneni
• Ukuthatha

Njengoko ukukhulelwa kuqhubeka, uninzi lwabasetyhini luthetha neentsana ezikhula kwizibeleko zazo. Abanye oomama-ukuba bacule iingoma okanye bafunde amabali. Abanye badlala umculo weklasikhi kwiinzame zokuphucula ukukhula kwengqondo. Uninzi lukhuthaza amaqabane abo ukuba athethe nomntwana.

Kodwa umntwana wakho angaqala nini ukuliva ilizwi lakho, okanye nasiphi na isandi esivela ngaphakathi okanye ngaphandle komzimba wakho? Kwaye kwenzeka ntoni ekukhuleni kokuva ebuntwaneni nasebusaneni?

Ukukhula kokuva kosana olungekazalwa: Umda wexesha

Ukuqala kwento eza kuba ngamehlo kunye neendlebe zomntwana wakho kuqala kwinyanga yesibini yokukhulelwa kwakho. Yilapho iiseli ngaphakathi kwimbungu ekhulayo iqala ukuzilungiselela kwinto eya kuba bubuso, ingqondo, impumlo, amehlo kunye neendlebe.

Malunga neeveki ezili-9, ukuvela okuncinci kwicala lentamo yosana lwakho kubonakala ngathi iindlebe ziyaqhubeka ukwenzeka ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Ekugqibeleni, ezi indentations ziya kuqala ukunyuka ziye phezulu ngaphambi kokuba zikhule zibe yinto oya kuyibona njengeendlebe zomntwana wakho.

Kwiiveki ezili-18 zokukhulelwa, umntwana wakho uva izandi zokuqala. Kwiiveki ezingama-24, ezo ndlebe zincinci zikhula ngokukhawuleza. Uvakalelo lomntwana wakho kwisandi luya kuphucula nangakumbi njengoko iiveki zidlula.

Izandi ezilinganiselweyo umntwana wakho azivayo ngeli nqanaba xa ukhulelwe zizandi onokuthi ungaziqapheli. Zizandi zomzimba wakho. Oku kubandakanya ukubetha kwentliziyo yakho, umoya ongena ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwemiphunga yakho, isisu sakho esihlokomayo, kunye nesandi segazi elihamba ngentambo.

Ngaba usana lwam-luya kulazi ilizwi lam?

Njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula, ezinye izandi ziya kuzwakala kubo.

Malunga neveki yama-25 okanye engama-26, abantwana abasesibelekweni babonakalisiwe ukuba baphendule kwilizwi nakwingxolo. Ukurekhodwa okuthathwe kwisibeleko kutyhila ukuba ingxolo evela ngaphandle kwesibeleko ithuliswa malunga nesiqingatha.

Kungenxa yokuba akukho moya uvulekileyo esibelekweni. Usana lwakho lujikelezwe ngamanzi e-amniotic kwaye lusongelwe kumaleko omzimba wakho. Oko kuthetha ukuba yonke imisindo evela ngaphandle komzimba wakho iya kudityaniswa.

Esona sandi sibalulekileyo umntwana wakho asive esibelekweni lilizwi lakho. Kwikota yesithathu, umntwana wakho sele eyamkele. Bayakuphendula ngenqanaba lentliziyo elonyukayo elibonisa ukuba baphaphile ngakumbi xa uthetha.

Ngaba ndifanele ndidlale umculo wosana lwam olusakhulayo?

Ngokuphathelele umculo weklasikhi, abukho ubungqina bokuba iya kuphucula i-IQ yomntwana. Kodwa akukho bubi ekudlaleni umntwana wakho umculo. Ngapha koko, unokuqhubeka nezandi eziqhelekileyo zobomi bakho bemihla ngemihla njengoko ukhulelwe.

Ngelixa ukuvezwa kwengxolo ixesha elide kunokunxulunyaniswa nokulahleka kwendlebe kwimveku, iimpembelelo zayo azaziwa. Ukuba uchitha ixesha lakho elininzi kwindawo enengxolo, cinga ngokwenza utshintsho ngexesha lokukhulelwa ukuze ukhuseleke. Kodwa umsitho wexesha elinengxolo akufuneki ubangele ingxaki.

Ukuva kwasebusaneni

Phantse i-1 ukuya kwi-3 nganye kwi-1,000 yeentsana iya kuzalwa ilahleko yokuva. Izizathu zokulahleka kwendlebe zinokubandakanya:

• ukuhanjiswa kwangethuba
• ixesha kwicandelo lokhathalelo olunzulu lweentsana
• i-bilirubin ephezulu efuna utofelo-gazi
• amayeza athile
• Imbali yosapho
• usulelo lwendlebe rhoqo
• meningitis
• ukubonakaliswa kwezandi ezivakalayo

Uninzi lwabantwana abazelwe belahlekile kwindlebe baya kufunyaniswa kuvavanyo lokuhlola.Abanye baya kuphuhlisa ukulahleka kwendlebe kamva ebuntwaneni.

Ngokutsho kweZiko leLizwe leZithulu kunye nokunye ukuphazamiseka koNxibelelwano, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuba ulindele ntoni xa umntwana wakho ekhula. Ukuqonda oko kujongwa njengesiqhelo kuya kukunceda ukuba ubone ukuba kwaye kufanelekile nini ukuya kugqirha. Sebenzisa uluhlu lokutshekisha olungezantsi njengesikhokelo.

Ukususela ekuzalweni kuye kwiinyanga ezi-3, umntwana wakho kufuneka:

• phendula kwingxolo enkulu, kubandakanya ngexesha lokuncancisa okanye lokuncancisa ibhotile
• hlisa umoya okanye uncume xa uthetha nabo
• lilazi ilizwi lakho
• ewe
• Iindidi ezahlukeneyo zokulila ukubonisa iimfuno ezahlukeneyo

Ukusuka kwiinyanga ezi-4 ukuya kwezi-6, umntwana wakho kufuneka:

• ukulandelela ngamehlo abo
• phendula kutshintsho lwethoni yakho
• qaphela iithoyi ezenza ingxolo
• qaphela umculo
• yenza ukubhuza kunye nokugubha izandi
• hleka

Ukusuka kwiinyanga ezisixhenxe ukuya kunyaka omnye, umntwana wakho kufuneka:

• dlala imidlalo efana ne-peek-a-boo kunye ne-pat-a-cake
• jika kwicala lezandi
• mamela xa uthetha nabo
• qonda amagama ambalwa ("amanzi," "mama," "izihlangu")
• ukubhuza ngamaqela avakalayo ezandi
• babble ukufumana ingqalelo
• banxibelelana ngokuwangawangisa okanye ukuphakamisa iingalo zabo

Ukuthatha

Iintsana ziyafunda kwaye zikhule ngokwesantya sazo. Kodwa ukuba unenkxalabo yokuba umntwana wakho akahlangabezani neziganeko ezibalulekileyo ezidweliswe apha ngasentla ngexesha elifanelekileyo, thetha nogqirha wakho.