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Umxholo

• Amanqwanqwa abantwana: Ukuhlala
• Amanqanaba omntwana osisi
• Iimpawu umntwana wakho unokulungela ukuhlala
• Into onokuyenza ukunceda umntwana wakho ukuba ahlale
• Luluphi unxibelelwano phakathi kwexesha lesisu nokuhlala?
• Ngaba umntwana wam angakwazi ukusebenzisa isihlalo somntwana ngokukhuselekileyo?
• Ukuhlala ukhuseleko
• Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ukrokrela ukulibaziseka kophuhliso?
• Ngawaphi amanyathelo abalulekileyo alandelayo?

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Amanqwanqwa abantwana: Ukuhlala

Amanqanaba abalulekileyo omntwana wakho kunyaka wokuqala kunokwenzeka ukuba abhabha ngesiquphe. Ukuhlala kuyonwabisa ngakumbi kumncinci wakho, njengoko kuvula umhlaba omtsha wokudlala kunye nokuhlola. Ikwenza ukuba kube lula ukutya kwaye kunika umntwana wakho indlela entsha yokujonga indawo abakuyo.

Usana lwakho lunokukwazi ukuhlala phezulu kwiinyanga ezintandathu ubudala ngoncedo oluncinci lokungena kwisikhundla. Ukuhlala ngokuzimeleyo sisakhono sokuba uninzi lweentsana lube nenkosi phakathi kweenyanga ezisi-7 ukuya kwezi-9 ubudala.

Amanqanaba omntwana osisi

Iimpawu umntwana wakho unokulungela ukuhlala

Umntwana wakho unokulungela ukuhlala ukuba unolawulo olululo lwentloko. Ezinye iintshukumo zomzimba ziya kulawulwa ngakumbi kwaye zibe nenjongo.

Iintsana ezikulungeleyo ukuhlala nazo zinokuzityhala phezulu xa zilele ngobuso phantsi, kwaye kungenzeka ukuba ziye zafunda ukuziqengqa.

Usana lwakho lungaqala ngokuhlala ixesha elifutshane ukuba ubabeka nkqo. Kule nqanaba lokuqala, kubalulekile ukuxhasa umntwana wakho ukuze angawi.

Iintsana ezikufuphi kwindawo yokuhlala ezimeleyo, kufutshane neenyanga ezi-7 ukuya kwezi-9, kunokwenzeka ukuba zikwazi ukuqengqeleka kumacala omabini. Abanye banokuba bebaleka besiya ngapha nangapha, belungiselela ukukhasa. Abanye banokuzama ukuzinyanzela kwindawo eneemilo ezintathu. Kule ndawo, umntwana uhleli exhaswa sisinye okanye zombini izandla phantsi.

Kusenokwenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuba nakho ukuzibamba kwindawo ehleliyo phambi kokuba akwazi ukuzityhala ngokwakhe kweso sikhundla. Ngokuziqhelanisa ngokwaneleyo, baya kufumana amandla kunye nokuzithemba, kwaye baya kuhlala phantsi njengeprojista ngaphandle kwexesha.

Into onokuyenza ukunceda umntwana wakho ukuba ahlale

Ukuziqhelanisa kwenza ugqibelele, ke ukunika umntwana wakho amathuba okuhlala nkqo kunokubanceda bafumane amandla okuhlala ngokuzimela. Ukuhlala ngokuzimeleyo kufuna iishifti zesisindo ezilawulwayo ukusuka ekhohlo, ekunene, ngaphambili nasemva. Oku kuthetha ukuba kuthatha amandla amaninzi kunye nokuziqhelanisa nokuhamba kuzo zonke iindlela ezahlukileyo ukuze ulunge.

Ukunceda umntwana wakho afunde ukuhlala:

• Nika umntwana wakho uvavanyo oluninzi kunye neempazamo. Hlala kufutshane, kodwa mabaphonononge kwaye bazame iindlela ezahlukeneyo kunye nentshukumo yabo yomzimba.
• Ixesha elininzi emgangathweni linokunceda ukukhuthaza ukuzimela ngaphezulu kokubeka umntwana wakho kwizikhundla zokubeka izihlalo. Nenjongo yokudlala kumgangatho omninzi, ubuncinci amaxesha ama-2 okanye ama-3 ngosuku, ngezinto zokudlala ezifanelekileyo ubudala.
• Hlala nosana lwakho ethangeni okanye phakathi kwemilenze yakho phantsi. Ungazifunda iincwadi, ucule iingoma, kwaye uzame imidlalo eyahlukeneyo yokuhamba, "njengemithi" kwingubo ethambileyo.
• Nje ukuba bazimele ngakumbi, beka imithwalo okanye enye into yokugoba macala onke ngelixa ujongana nabo xa beziqhelanisa nomgangatho, hayi iindawo eziphakamileyo.

Luluphi unxibelelwano phakathi kwexesha lesisu nokuhlala?

Ixesha lesisu yindawo ebalulekileyo yokwakha ukuhlala. Ukuba umntwana wakho akathandi ukudlala esiswini ixesha elide, qala ngemizuzu embalwa amaxesha ambalwa ngosuku. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uphumle kakuhle kwaye une-diaper ecocekileyo. Fumana isisu sakho, nawe, ukuze ube kwinqanaba lemehlo nosana lwakho. Ukubona ubuso bakho kunokukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba ahlale kwindawo ende. Unokuzama ukubeka isipili esithambileyo phantsi ukuze umntwana wakho abone ubuso babo. Unokufumana izibuko zexesha lesisu kwi-intanethi okanye uninzi lweevenkile zonikezelo lwabantwana.

Njengoko beqhela kwesi sikhundla, ungonyusa ixesha kancinci.

Ngaba umntwana wam angakwazi ukusebenzisa isihlalo somntwana ngokukhuselekileyo?

Ukhe wabona izihlalo zabantwana ezahlukileyo kwintengiso. Isihlalo seBumbo, umzekelo, lukhetho oludumileyo phakathi kwabazali kwaye kufanelekile kwiintsana ezineminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwezi-9, okanye nje ukuba umntwana akwazi ukuphakamisa iintloko. Yenziwe kwinto exonxiweyo egonxa umzimba wosana lwakho ukuxhasa ukuhlala.

Ingcali yezonyango yabantwana uRebecca Talmud ucacisa ukuba xa abantwana bebekwe kwindawo yokuhlala kwangethuba okanye ixesha elide, oko kungaphazamisa ukukhula kwabo kwezakhono. Ngamanye amagama, ngelixa umntwana wakho enokuhlala ethe nkqo, ayisebenzi kwitranki ebalulekileyo kunye nolawulo lwentloko oluya kuphuhla ngcono xa besenza iintshukumo zomzimba omtsha ngokwabo.

Unokufuna ukulinda de umntwana wakho asondele ekufikeleleni kwindawo ephambili yokusebenzisa isihlalo somntwana. Endaweni yokuphakamisa umntwana wakho kwiinyanga ezintathu ubudala, cinga ukulinda de kube lixesha phakathi kweenyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-8. Kwaye ungaxhomekeki kwesi sihlalo njengesixhobo sodwa somntwana sokwenza.

Ukuhlala ukhuseleko

Xa umntwana wakho efunda nje ukuhlala kunye nenkxaso, unokufuna ukuhlala nabo phakathi kwemilenze yakho ukuze ubaxhase macala onke. Unokusebenzisa imicamelo njengeepropu, kodwa musa ukushiya umntwana wakho engakhathalelwanga xa unyuselwe.

Ngelixa usana lwakho lusenokungahambeli nje okwangoku, ukuhlala luphawu lokuba ungafuna ubungqina bosana kwindlu yakho ulungiselela ukuhamba ngakumbi.

• Sebenzisa amaqweqwe aphuma kuwo onke amagumbi abantwana bakho rhoqo.
• Khusela ezinye izinto okanye iindawo ngokufanelekileyo. Unokufumana izinto ezinje ngezitshixo zekhabinethi, izitshixo zangasese, iiankile zefanitshala, amasango abantwana, kunye nezinye izinto zokuqinisekisa ubungqina bomntwana kwiibhokisi ezinkulu nakwiivenkile zehardware.
• Gcina naziphi na iingozi zokukrwitshwa, izinto eziyityhefu, kunye nezinye izinto eziyingozi kude nokufikelela kosana. Kusenokukunceda ukufika phantsi kwinqanaba lomntwana wakho ukuze ujonge iingozi ezinokubakho.
• Emva kokuba umntwana ehleli, hlengisa umatrasi wabo wokulala kwindawo esezantsi. Ukutsala akusekude emva kwesi siganeko, kwaye iintsana ziyaziqhelanisa nezakhono zazo zeemoto ngawo onke amaxesha ahlukeneyo emini, kwanaxa kufuneka zilele.
• Bopha amabhanti okhuseleko kwizitulo eziphakamileyo nakwezinye izixhobo zokuhlala. Ukuhlala ngokuzimeleyo kuthatha amandla amaninzi. Usana lwakho lusenokufuna inkxaso eyongezelelekileyo kwimitya, ngakumbi xa uhleli ixesha elide. Kwaye musa ukubeka izihlalo kwiindawo eziphakamileyo, okanye ngaphakathi okanye kufutshane namanzi.

Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ukrokrela ukulibaziseka kophuhliso?

Ukuba usana lwakho aluhlali lodwa ngeenyanga ezisithoba ubudala, nxibelelana nogqirha wabantwana. Kungakuhle ukuba uthathe inyathelo kwangoko, ngakumbi ukuba umntwana wakho usondele kwiinyanga ezili-9 kwaye akakwazi kuhlala nenkxaso. Ukukhula kuyahluka ukusuka kusana kuye emntwaneni, kodwa oku kunokuba luphawu lokulibaziseka okukhulu kwezithuthi.

Ezinye iimpawu ezinokubakho zokulibaziseka kweemoto zibandakanya:

• izihlunu eziqinileyo okanye eziqinileyo
• iintshukumo zefloppy
• ifikelela kuphela ngesandla esinye ngaphezulu kwesinye
• ayinalo ulawulo lwentloko olomeleleyo
• ayifikeleli okanye izise izinto emlonyeni

Lukhona uncedo xa ukrokrela ukuba umntwana wakho anganakho ukulibaziseka. Kuqala thetha nogqirha okanye unesi wakho. Banokukuthumela kwiinkonzo zabantwana nabantwana abancinci, njengenkqubo karhulumente yakho yongenelelo kwangoko.

Unokufuna ulwazi kwi-intanethi kwiwebhusayithi okanye, eUnited States, ngokutsala umnxeba 1-800-CDC-INFO.

Ngawaphi amanyathelo abalulekileyo alandelayo?

Ke, yintoni kanye elandelayo elandelayo? Kwakhona, iyahluka ukusuka kusana ukuya kosana. Ngokubanzi, nangona kunjalo, unokulindela ukuqhubela phambili okulandelayo njengoko umntwana wakho esondela kusuku lokuqala lokuzalwa.

• ukutsala ukuya kwindawo emileyo
• erhubuluza kwaye erhubuluza phantsi
• ifenitshala yokuhamba ngenqanawa kunye namanyathelo okuqala axhaswayo
• behamba bodwa

Nje ukuba umntwana wakho ehleli, zama ukukhuthaza inkululeko yabo ngakumbi ngokwenza uguquko ukusuka kumgangatho ukuya ekuhlaleni. Ukuziqhelanisa kuya kunceda ukomeleza zonke izihlunu ezingundoqo kunye nokubanceda ukuba bazithembe kule ndawo intsha. Izinto zokudlala ezidlala kule ndawo zinokuba luncedo. Cinga ukuzama enye yezi ntlobo zamathoyizi, ezifumaneka kwi-intanethi okanye kwiivenkile zokudlala zasekuhlaleni (soloko ujonga ukubona ukuba into yokudlala oyikhethileyo ikhuselekile kubudala bomntwana wakho):

• ityhubhu yomsebenzi
• isitaki sendandatho
• isimilo sobumba
• iibhloko ezithambileyo

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