Ngaba abantwana baqala nini ukukhasa?

Umxholo

• Umyinge weminyaka yobudala bokukhasa
• Iindidi zokukhasa
• Iimpawu zokuba umntwana wakho uza kukhasa kungekudala
• Into onokuyenza ukukhuthaza ukukhasa
• Nika umntwana wakho ixesha elininzi lesisu
• Yenza indawo ekhuselekileyo
• Linga umntwana wakho ngezinto zokudlala
• Ukukhutshelwa
• Ngaba iintsana zize zirhubuluze zirhubuluze ngokupheleleyo?
• Kuxhalaba nini
• Ukuthatha

Umntwana wakho unokwaneliseka kukuhlala kwindawo enye, uthimbe ukujonga kwakho (kwaye mhlawumbi nekhamera yakho). Kodwa uyazi ukuba yintoni ezayo: ukukhasa.

Umncinci wakho usenokungahambi ngoku ngoku, kodwa kungekudala, baya kuba behamba. Sele ulungele? Ukuba akunjalo, lungela kwaye ufunde indlela yokulungiselela eli nyathelo libalulekileyo ebomini bosana lwakho.

Umyinge weminyaka yobudala bokukhasa

Kulula ukuphelelwa ngumonde xa ulinda umntwana wakho ukuba aqale ukukhasa. Usana lomhlobo wakho lunokuba ngumrhubhe wokuqala, kwaye kunzima ukungamthelekisi umntwana wakho kubo. Kodwa kukho uluhlu olubanzi oluqhelekileyo xa kufikwa ekukhaseleni.

Uninzi lweentsana luqala ukukhasa okanye ukukhasa (okanye ukukroba okanye ukuqengqeleka) phakathi kweenyanga ezintandathu ukuya kwezili-12. Kwaye kuninzi lwabo, inqanaba lokugaqa alihlali ixesha elide - nje ukuba bafumane incasa yokuzimela, baqala ukutsala uhambo lwabo lokuhamba ngenqanawa.

Iindidi zokukhasa

Zininzi iindlela zokwenza ukuba usana lusuke kwindawo engu-A luye ku-B ngaphandle kokuhamba. Ngapha koko, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokukhasa, kwaye umntwana wakho uya kuba nentandokazi. Kwaye iingcali zithi kulungile. Imalunga nokufika kwenye indawo uye kwenye, emva kwayo yonke loo nto.

Nazi ezinye zeendlela eziqhelekileyo, ngokweAmerican Academy of Pediatrics:

• Ukukhasa kweklasikhi. Yile nto wonke umntu acinga ngayo xa esiva igama "khasa". Usana lwakho lurhubuluza phantsi ezandleni nasezidolweni, lutshintshanisa izandla ngamadolo ajongene nalo, nezisu zisemgangathweni.
• Isikolo esisezantsi. Oku kufana nje nokuvakala kwayo. Iintsana zihlala ezantsi kwazo kwaye ziyazityhala kunye nezandla zazo.
• Ukuqengqeleka. Kutheni ukhasa xa unokuqengqeleka? Usafika apho uya khona, akunjalo?
• Ukulwa ukukhasa. Unokuva nale ndlela yothutho ibizwa ngokuba yi "commando crawl." Iintsana zilele kwizisu zazo, zijongise imilenze yazo ngasemva, kwaye ziyazitsala okanye zizityhalele phambili ngengalo. Akukho kufihla okufunekayo.
• Ukukhasa kwe-Crab. Kolu umahluko, iintsana ziyaziqhubela phambili ngezandla ngelixa zigcina amadolo egobile, njengenkala encinci ejikelezayo entlabathini.
• Ukukhwela ibhere. Uyakhumbula ukukhasa kweklasikhi? Oku kwahlukile kolo hlobo, ngaphandle kokuba iintsana zigcine imilenze yazo ithe nkqo, kunokuba igobe.

Iimpawu zokuba umntwana wakho uza kukhasa kungekudala

Xa umntwana wakho edlala phantsi, mhlawumbi sele ugcine ujonge imeko. Qala ngokujonga ezona mpawu zixhaphakileyo zokuba umntwana wakho ulungele ukukhasa.

Olunye uphawu kuxa abantwana bekwazi ukuqengqa ukusuka esiswini ukuya emqolo kwaye ngokungafaniyo. Olunye uphawu lokulungela kuxa umntwana wakho ekwazi ukuzikhupha esiswini sakhe aye kwindawo yokuhlala yedwa.

Abanye abantwana baya kuphakama ngezandla zabo kunye namadolo kunye nokugungqa ngapha nangapha, ngelixa ubambe umphefumlo wakho kwaye ulinde ukubona ukuba bayaqala na ukuya phambili. Abanye bade baqale ukuzama ukutyhala okanye ukuzitsala ngeengalo zabo xa belele ngesisu, onokuthi usibone njengesiqalo somlo wokurhubuluza. Ezi zizinto zonke ezinokuthi umntwana wakho abe malunga nokuqala ukuqhubela phambili.

Into onokuyenza ukukhuthaza ukukhasa

Rhoqo, xa ujikile umqolo, usana lwakho luya kukhetha loo mzuzu ukuba luqale ukukhasa okanye ukukroba phantsi. Kuze kube ngoko, unokukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba alungele ukukhasa ngezi ndlela:

Nika umntwana wakho ixesha elininzi lesisu

Nabantwana abancinci banokuxhamla ixesha lokujikeleza kwizisu zabo. Yicinge njengolona qeqesho lwamandla kwangoko. Ixesha lesisu liyabanceda ukuba bahlakulele amandla emagxeni abo, iingalo, kunye nomzimba. Ekugqibeleni, baya kusebenzisa ezo zihlunu ukubanceda ukuba baqale ukukhasa.

Yenza indawo ekhuselekileyo

Cima indawo ekhayeni lakho, mhlawumbi igumbi lokuhlala okanye igumbi lokulala lomntwana wakho. Susa nayiphi na ingozi kwaye uqinisekise ukuba indawo ikhuselekile. Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba angacwangciswanga, kodwa abekwe iliso, ixesha lasimahla lokulihlola.

Linga umntwana wakho ngezinto zokudlala

Misela into yokudlala oyithandayo okanye mhlawumbi into entsha enomdla ngaphandle nje kokufikelela kosana lwakho. Bakhuthaze ukuba bayifikelele kwaye babone ukuba bayazihambisa na. Oku kunokubalungiselela ukuhamba kwikamva elikufutshane, elinokuba lelona nqanaba lilandelayo kwingqondo yakho.

Ngapha koko, uphando lubonisa ukuba abantwana abarhubuluzayo ababeka izinto zabo kwigumbi lonke kwaye bazibuyise beneminyaka eli-11 ubudala banokuhamba ngeenyanga ezili-13.

Ukukhutshelwa

Musa ukulinda de usana lwakho luhambe ukuze luqale ukubhengeza ikhaya lakho. Qhubeka kwaye uqalise ngokujongana neengozi ezinokubakho ezinje:

• Iikhabhathi. Faka ii-latches ezisebenza kakuhle zokhuseleko kunye nezitshixo kwiingcango zekhabinethi nakwiidrowa, ngakumbi ukuba ziqukethe iimveliso zokucoca, amayeza, iimela, imatshisi, okanye ezinye izinto ezinokwenzakalisa umntwana wakho.
• Ukugquma iifestile. Intambo ejingayo iseti yeemfama okanye amakhethini inokuba yinto ekulingayo ukuba umntwana wakho ayibambe, kodwa inokuba yingozi yokuqhawuka.
• Izinyuko. Isango eliqinileyo lokhuseleko kufuneka ubenalo, ngokweKhomishini yoKhuseleko lweMveliso yabathengi yase-US, njengoko inokuthi igcine usana lungawi phantsi kwezitepsi. Amasango kufuneka abe phezulu nangaphantsi kwezinyuko.
• Iindawo zombane. Thenga i-stash yezikhuselo zokuphuma kwaye uzifake kuwo onke amashishini akho ukugcina iminwe inomdla ngaphandle.
• Iikona ezibukhali. Itafile yakho yekofu inokuba intle, kodwa ukuba ineekona ezibukhali, ikwayingozi. Iikona zerabha kunye nemiphetho zinokwenza ukuba ifanitshala kunye nendawo yomlilo ikhuseleke kusana lwakho ekuhambeni.
• Izinto ezinzima kunye nefenitshala. Ungafaka iiankile okanye ezinye izixhobo ukukhusela iithelevishini, iishelufa zeencwadi, kunye nezinye izinto ezinzima ukuze umntwana wakho angatsali ngengozi enye - kwaye uyitsale ngaphezulu.
• IWindows. Ungathenga oonogada abakhethekileyo befestile okanye ukhuseleko kwiminatha ukunqanda ukuwa kwiingcango okanye kwiibhalkoni.
• Iimpompo. Izixhobo ezichasene ne-scald kwiifompethi zinokuthintela ukutsha kwamanzi ashushu kakhulu. (Unokuphinda uhlengahlengise ubushushu bamanzi akho ashushu.)

IBhunga lezoKhuseleko kuZwelonke likwacebisa ukubeka ezinye izinto eziyingozi, ezinjengeebhetri kunye nemipu, kude apho usana lwakho lungenakufikelela khona.

Ngaba iintsana zize zirhubuluze zirhubuluze ngokupheleleyo?

Ezinye iintsana zitsibela lonke inqanaba lokurhubuluza ngokupheleleyo. Ziya ngqo ekutsaleni ukuma nokuhamba ngenqanawa (ukuhamba nenkxaso evela kwifenitshala okanye ezinye izinto). Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba uyazi, bahamba-kwaye uyabasukela. Umntwana wakho unokuba yinxalenye yale klabhu. Ekugqibeleni, phantse zonke iintsana ziya kubajoyina.

Kuxhalaba nini

Ngeliphi ixesha ekufuneka ukhathazeke ngalo? Ngaphambi kokuba woyike ukuba umntwana wakho une-9, 10, okanye iinyanga ezili-11 ubudala kwaye akakarhubuluzi okwangoku, masibaleke uluhlu lwakho lokutshekisha. Ukhe wa:

• babyproof ekhaya lakho?
• unike umntwana wakho ixesha elininzi lokudlala phantsi?
• ukhulule usana lwakho kwisitrato, ebhedini, kwisihlalo se-bouncy, okanye kwi-exersaucer kangangoko kunokwenzeka?
• ukhuthaze usana lwakho ukuba streeeeetch kuloo nto yokudlala phantsi nje?

Ukuba uzenzile zonke ezo zinto, kwaye umntwana wakho akafumani naziphi na iingxaki zempilo okanye olunye ulibaziseko lokukhula olunokuba yingxaki, inokuthi ivele iye kwinto enye: umonde. Okwakho, oko kukuthi.

Kuya kufuneka ubukele kwaye ulinde. Ezinye iintsana zifikelela nje kumanqwanqwa mva kancinci kunabanye. Nika umntwana wakho ixesha lokuzama kwaye ufumanise.

Kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho ubhiyozela usuku lwabo lokuzalwa lokuqala kwaye akabonakalisi mdla kwaphela ekurhubuluzeni, ukutsala ukuze ume, okanye ukuhamba ngenqanawa, qhubeka ujonge ugqirha womntwana wakho. Ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci akasebenzisi iingalo kunye nemilenze kumacala omabini omzimba wabo okanye urhuqa icala elinye lomzimba wabo, kunokuba kufanelekile ukuba uphande.

Ngamaxesha athile, usana lunokuba nengxaki yokukhula okanye ingxaki yemithambo-luvo, kwaye ngokuxhomekeke ekufumanekeni, ugqirha womntwana wakho unokucebisa ukuba uzame unyango lomsebenzi okanye lomzimba ukujongana nalo.

Ukuthatha

Kulula ukuphelelwa ngumonde xa ulinde umntwana wakho ukuba afikelele kwinqanaba elitsha, kodwa iintsana zihlala zinexesha lazo. Zama ukuhlala unomonde kodwa unike umntwana wakho amathuba akhuselekileyo okufumana izakhono kunye nokuzithemba abakufunayo ukuqala ukukhasa, nangayiphi na indlela abayithandayo.

Ukuba uqaphela into engabonakali ilungile, kulungile ukuba ungene kugqirha wabantwana bakho. Thembela amathumbu akho kwaye uthethe ukuba unomdla.