Baqala nini ukuhleka abantwana?

Umxholo

• Umntwana wakho kufuneka aqale nini ukuhleka?
• Iindlela ezi-4 zokwenza umntwana wakho ahleke
• 1. Ingxolo ehlekisayo
• 2. Ukuthinta okuthambileyo
• 3. Abenzi bengxolo
• 4. Imidlalo eyonwabisayo
• Ukuba baphose isiganeko esibalulekileyo
• Nazi ezinye zeendlela zeenyanga ezi-4 onokuthi ujonge kuzo:
• Thetha nogqirha womntwana wakho
• Yise kude

Unyaka wokuqala wosana lwakho ugcwele zonke iintlobo zeziganeko ezingalibalekiyo, ukusuka ekutyeni ukutya okuqinileyo ukuya ekuthatheni amanyathelo abo okuqala. Ngamnye "wokuqala" ebomini bomntwana wakho uyimbalasane. Isiganeko ngasinye lithuba lokuba uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho uyakhula kwaye uyakhula njengoko kulindelwe.

Ukuhleka linyathelo elibalulekileyo lokufikelela. Ukuhleka yindlela umntwana wakho athetha ngayo ukuze uyiqonde. Kungumqondiso wokuba umntwana wakho uphaphile, unomdla kwaye wonwabile.

Funda ukuze ufunde malunga nexesha eliqhelekileyo leentsana ukuba ziqale ukuhleka kunye nento onokuyenza ukuba baphoswa leli linyathelo libalulekileyo.

Umntwana wakho kufuneka aqale nini ukuhleka?

Uninzi lweentsana luya kuqala ukuhleka malunga nenyanga ezintathu okanye ezine. Nangona kunjalo, ungakhathazeki ukuba umntwana wakho akahleki kwiinyanga ezine. Umntwana ngamnye wahlukile. Abanye abantwana baya kuhleka ngaphambili kunabanye.

Iindlela ezi-4 zokwenza umntwana wakho ahleke

Ukuhleka kokuqala kosana lwakho kunokwenzeka xa uncamisa isisu sabo, wenze ingxolo ehlekisayo, okanye ubangxola phezulu nasezantsi. Kukho nezinye iindlela zokwenza ukuhleka kumncinci wakho.

1. Ingxolo ehlekisayo

Usana lwakho lunokuphendula xa luvela okanye luwanga izandi, ilizwi elixineneyo, okanye ukuvuthela imilebe yakho kunye. Ezi zimpawu zokuva zihlala zinomdla kunelizwi eliqhelekileyo.

2. Ukuthinta okuthambileyo

Ukukhanya okukhanyayo okanye ukuvuthela ngobunono kulusu lomntwana wakho kuyonwabisa, uvakalelo olwahlukileyo kubo. Ukuphuza izandla okanye iinyawo zabo, okanye "ukuvuthela i-raspberry" esiswini sabo kunokubangela ukuba bahleke.

3. Abenzi bengxolo

Izinto kwindawo yentsana yakho, ezinje nge-zipper okanye ngentsimbi, zinokubonakala zihlekisa kusana lwakho. Awusoze wazi ukuba zeziphi ezi zinto de umntwana wakho ahleke, kodwa zama ukusebenzisa abenzi bengxolo abahlukeneyo ukubona ukuba yintoni ehlekisayo.

4. Imidlalo eyonwabisayo

I-Peek-a-boo ngumdlalo omnandi wokudlala xa abantwana beqala ukuhleka. Ungadlala i-peek-a-boo kunye nosana lwakho nangaliphi na ixesha, kodwa abanakuphendula ngokuhleka de kube ziinyanga ezine ukuya kwezintandathu. Kule minyaka, abantwana baqala ukufunda malunga "nokuhlala into," okanye ukuqonda ukuba kukho into nokuba awuyiboni.

Ukuba baphose isiganeko esibalulekileyo

Ngokwamanqaku amaninzi abalulekileyo, iintsana zihlala zihleka phakathi kweenyanga ezintathu ukuya kwezine. Ukuba inyanga yesine iza kwaye ihambe kwaye umntwana wakho akahleki, akukho mfuneko yenkxalabo.

Ezinye iintsana zinobuzaza kwaye azihleki okanye ziqokelele njengabanye abantwana. Oku kunokuba kulungile, ngakumbi ukuba bonke badibana namanye amabakala ophuhliso.

Gxila kwiseti yonke yeminyaka efanelekileyo yokuhamba, hayi inye kuphela. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, usana lwakho alukafikeleli kumanqanaba athile kuphuhliso lwabo, kufanelekile ukuba uthethe nogqirha wabantwana.

Nazi ezinye zeendlela zeenyanga ezi-4 onokuthi ujonge kuzo:

• ukuncuma okuzenzekelayo
• ukulandela izinto ezihambayo ngamehlo
• ukubukela ubuso nokuqonda abantu abaqhelekileyo
• ukonwabela ukudlala nabantu
• ukwenza izandi, ezinje ngokubhabha okanye ukuncwina

Thetha nogqirha womntwana wakho

Ukuba unenkxalabo yokuba umntwana wakho akahleki okanye ahlangane nezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo, zisa oku kutyelelo olulandelayo lomntwana wakho. Njengengxenye yolu tyelelo, ugqirha wakho uya kukubuza malunga nayo yonke into ebalulekileyo umntwana wakho odibana nayo.

Ukuba akunjalo, qiniseka ukuba ubandakanya ezi nkcukacha kwincoko yakho.

Ukusuka apho, nina nobabini ninokuthatha isigqibo sokuba ungathanda ukubukela kwaye ulinde uphuhliso lwexesha elizayo okanye ukuba ungathanda ugqirha wosana lwakho ukuba acebise olunye uvavanyo. Kukho iindlela zonyango zokunceda umntwana wakho akhule ngakumbi ngesantya nabanye abantwana abakwiminyaka yabo.

Yise kude

Ukuhleka yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ukufikelela kuyo. Ukuhleka yindlela yokuba umntwana wakho akwazi ukunxibelelana nawe. Kodwa khumbula ukuba umntwana ngamnye wahlukile, kwaye bakhula ngesantya esahlukileyo kubo. Melana nokuthelekisa umntwana wakho komnye wabantwana bakho okanye komnye umntwana.