Xa Engathethi "Ndiyakuthanda" Buyela

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Ukuba uye wancama ukumamela uJuan Pablo kulo lonke ulawulo lwakhe ISidanga, isenokuba kukusilela kwakhe kwamagama okwenze ukuba ubuze isiphelo sexesha lokugqibela phezolo.

Emva koNikki-mfazi wonzakalisa ukukhetha-ukuphindaphinda igama le-L kwibhola ekhatywayo yaseVenezuela, waphendula ngokulula, "Ndiyakuthanda kakhulu." Uphinde wamxelela ukuba une ring yothethathethwano epokothweni yakhe-kodwa akazukuyisebenzisa. Amagama akhe ngqo: "Andiqinisekanga ngepesenti eyi-100 ndifuna ukukuphakamisa, kodwa kwangaxeshanye ndiqinisekile ngeepesenti ze-100 ukuba andifuni ukukuyeka uhambe."

Ngelixa kungafanelekanga ukuba uthathe abaninzi kakhulu Izifundo zothando ezivela kumdlalo obonisa ukuba abagqatswa be-whisky kwihlabathi liphela baya kwiindawo ezingaqhelekanga kwaye babonakalisa ukutya, isiselo, kunye nemihla ebonisa ukutsiba nge-bungee kunye nokukhwela ihashe, besithi "Ndiyakuthanda" kwaye ukungayiva kwakhona yinto uninzi lwethu eyoyikayo.

Ezinxulumene: Iimfihlo ezi-8 zokuya kuqhelekileyo ukuya kwisibini

“Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba abantu ababini bahambe ngesantya ezibini ezahlukeneyo,” utsho uTracey Steinberg, ingcaphephe yokuthandana esekelwe kwisiXeko saseNew York. Kodwa ukuba ukhona "Ndiyakuthanda," kwaye "Ndiyakuthanda," ngumahluko omkhulu. Bamba uqinise kwaye uzinike umhla wokugqibela-iinyanga ezimbini, yithi emva koko ujonge: Ngaba ufumene okanye ngaba kukho umsantsa omkhulu kwindlela enivakalelwa ngayo nobabini? Ukwenza oku kukunika ithuba lokuba ulwalamano lukhule kodwa kuqinisekisa ukuba awuhlali ecaleni ulinde into engenakwenzeka, utshilo uSteinberg.

Ngeli xesha, nikela ingqalelo kwizenzo zakhe.Ngaba ukudibanise nobomi bakhe? Ngaba uyabonakala xa umfuna? Ngaba uyakubonisa kusapho kunye nabahlobo bakhe? "Le yimiqondiso yokuba indoda iyakuthanda, nangona isenokungakulungeli ukuyithetha," utshilo uSteinberg. Ewe kunjalo, kufuneka uziphathe kakuhle kwaye ufuna ntoni (kwaye inokuba yindoda enokuthi ifikelele kwiimvakalelo zayo), kodwa ukuba umntu wakho wenza ngothando, ungafuna ukumnika ixesha elincinci avume ngokuvakalayo.

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