Nini Ukuyeka Ukubona Abanye Abantu kunye Nezingcebiso Zokuthandana Ngakumbi

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Ukuba awutshatanga kwaye uqhubeka nemihla, umbuzo omnye uqinisekisiwe ukuba uxutywe kunye nento oza kunxiba kunye nexesha lokubhalela: Mangaphi imihla ekufuneka yenzeke ngaphambi kokuba omnye wenu acebise ukuba ngobubusuku bubusuku (uyazi, ukuyifumana ivuliwe)? Okuvuyisayo kukuba, iTime Out iye yenza uhlolisiso kubantu abangaphezu kwe-11,000 kwizixeko ezingama-24 ehlabathini lonke ukuze bancede bawuphendule lo mbuzo.

Abangatshatanga kuyo yonke indawo baye bagqiba ekubeni 3.53 imihla nje ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo ukuba omnye wenu alahle ingcamango yokubuyela ekhaya kunye ngaphandle kokubonakala ngathi i-horndog. (Fumanisa ukuba yeyiphi i-Emojis kunye neCrossFit malunga noBomi bakho boLuthando.)

Ukuba ukulungele ukuba nobuhlobo emva kobusuku obunye, nangona kunjalo, isenokungahambi kakuhle: Kuphela li-1 kubantu abali-10 abavavanyiweyo abaqwalasele isini isicelo esifanelekileyo ekupheleni komhla wokuqala (nangona iipesenti ezingama-20 ziye zaphela kwi-buff emva isidlo sangokuhlwa esinye, ke, kubonakala ngathi abanye bethu bafuna ukuqinisa isigqibo sethu).

Ngokuphathelele ezinye iziphelo ngorhatya, ngaphezu kwesiqingatha sethu siphuzana kamnandi emva komhla wokuqala, ngelixa nje ngaphantsi kwekota sibambekile endaweni yokuvalelisa kakubi (sikujongile, ukuxhawula izandla). Amashumi amabini anesibhozo eepesenti athi imihla yabo yokuqala ihlala iphela ngokudana, kodwa phantse isiqingatha sele sithethile ngomhla wesibini. ("Yintoni engahambanga kakuhle?" Ukuthandana ngeDilemmas, kuchaziwe) Kodwa uphononongo luthi uya kuthi uyazi ukuba leliphi icala lobubanzi okulo phantse kwangoko: Phantse isiqingatha sabaphenduli sathi bayazi ukuba bafuna umhla wesibini kuphela imizuzu emithathu ukuya kweyokuqala (oko kukukhawuleza kunokufudumala kwejim yakho yonke!).

Ezinye izinto ezingaqondakaliyo uphando luye lwasicoca: Kufuneka uyeke ukubona abanye abantu emva kwemihla emithandathu, kwaye kulungile ukuba uqale ukuphosa "isoka" ngaphandle emva kwesithoba. Kwaye kulungile ukwenza ukukhanya okuthile phambi komhla wokuqala-ngaphezu kwesiqingatha singles kwizixeko kulo lonke ihlabathi ukuphanda umhla wabo online phambi kobusuku obukhulu. (Jonga ezi zinto zine zikwi-Intanethi ezithi Akangomntu othandana naye.)

Ngokubhekisele kubani esithandana naye, umntu omnye kwabahlanu wabantu ekwenziwe uphando kuye wakha wathandana nomhlobo wakhe, ngelixa omnye kwabali-10 ethandana nomphathi wabo. Amashumi amathathu anesibhozo eepesenti abantu, nangona kunjalo, sele bethandana nomntu okwenye ubudlelwane sele-iipesenti ezingama-41 zabo sele betshatile! (Ufuna iinyani ezingakumbi? Jonga uPhando lwethu lokungathembeki: Kukujonga Njani Ukukopela.)

Wonke umzi ngaphandle Paris ucaphula online ukuthandana njengendlela engcono amanqaku izicwangciso ebusuku ngoLwesihlanu. Kwaye ngelixa i-Tinder inokuthi itshintshe umdlalo wokuthandana ngonaphakade, abantu ngokwenene bavuya kakhulu ukuya esikolweni esidala kunye ne-setups ezilungileyo: i-62 ekhulwini labantu bathi imihla yabo eyonwabisayo kunye nomntu oye wadibana nabahlobo.

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