Kutheni le nto lo Mama ufanelekile kufuneke angathi uMzimba wakhe wasemva komntwana kwiBinder yakhe yangemva kokubeleka
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Umqeqeshi wokuzilolonga waseOstreliya odumileyo uTammy Hembrow wazala umntwana wakhe wesibini ngo-Agasti, kwaye sele ekhangeleka ethotyiwe kwaye eqingqwe njengakuqala. Abalandeli bakhe be-Instagram abazizigidi ezi-4.8 babongoze umama omncinci ukuba aveze iimfihlo zakhe kwaye achaze ukuba wakwazi njani ukufumana umzimba wakhe omangalisayo wasemva komntwana.
"Into endincedileyo ndabuya umva ngokuqinisekileyo yindlela enditya ngayo kwaye ndaziqeqesha ngayo njengoko ndandikhulelwe," utshilo umfana oneminyaka engama-22 kwividiyo kwisiteshi sakhe se-YouTube. "Nditya ukutya okucocekileyo kakhulu, ndinemifuno eninzi, iiprotheyini ezininzi, kwaye ndizamile ukunciphisa ukuphatha kwam ngeempelaveki, ke ngeentsuku zeveki bendisitya icocekile ngalo lonke ixesha."
Kunye nokutya kakuhle, ukusebenza ngaphandle rhoqo kwakudlala indima enkulu ekunciphiseni kwakhe ubunzima. U-Hembrow uthe wabetha indawo yokuzivocavoca amatyeli amane ngeveki kwaye wayehlala exakekile ebaleka umntwana wakhe wokuqala. Ndiqinisekisile ukuba ndiyenzile, utshilo.
Nangona wayeneentsuku apho wayediniwe kakhulu okanye engenakukhuthazeka ngokwaneleyo ukuba aqhubeke nomgaqo wakhe ongqongqo, uHembrow wahlala egxile kwiinjongo zakhe ngokucinga ngomzimba awufunayo emva kokubeleka.
Uthi: “Into eyayindenza ndiqhubeke yindlela endandifuna ukumgcina ngayo umntwana. "Ndazi ukuba ndifuna ukuphinda ndilunge kwakhona emva kosana kwaye ndibekwimo entle endinokuba yiyo, ke ndifuna ukwenza kube lula ngokwam ngokuhlala ndikhuthele ngelixa ndikhulelwe."
Emva kokubeleka, uHembrow uqhubeke nokugxila kwindlela atya ngayo kwaye wayenxiba nesinqe esinqeni ukumnceda anciphise umzimba.
"Malunga neveki, ndanxiba into yokubopha emveni kokubeleka - bandinika enye esibhedlele, utshilo. "Ngokuqinisekileyo khange ndibuyele nje emzimbeni wam wangaphambi kokuba umntwana ndiphume esibhedlele, usabonakala ngathi ukhulelwe xa uphuma esibhedlele."
"Ndandingekho ngokukhawuleza okanye nantoni na, kodwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba ndifike ekhaya ndandidla ukutya okucocekileyo, ndandinxibe i-postpartum binder, kwaye ndaqala ukusebenza malunga neeveki ezintandathu emva kokuzalwa."
Ngelixa kungekho zifundo zibonisa ukuba ii-corsets okanye abaqeqeshi esinqeni bayasebenza, oomama abatsha baye bazama ukulahla izisu zabo zasemva komntwana ngoncedo lwezi zixhobo. Ewe kunjalo, njengoko uninzi lweendlela zefad ezithembisa iziphumo ezikhawulezileyo, zinokubonakala ngathi ziyathembisa ekuqaleni ... kodwa akukho ngcali inokucebisa ukuba usebenzise enye ukunciphisa umzimba.
"I-corset iyasithintela isisu sakho, kwaye oko kunokwenza ukuba kungabikho mntu ungatya kakhulu," utshilo u-Brittany Kohn, u-RD waseNew York City uxelele i-Shape xa ebuzwa ukuba ngaba ii-corsets ziyimfihlo yokuncipha. "Ukuzinxamisa esinqeni sakho kuphinda kusasaze amanqatha asembindini wakho, ke ukhangeleka unciphile. Kodwa yakuba iphume i-corset, umzimba wakho uya kubuyela kubunzima bayo obuqhelekileyo kunye nokumila kwawo."
Ke ngelixa umzimba kaHembrow emva komntwana ungakholeleki ngokwenene, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukutya okucocekileyo nokusebenza ngaphandle rhoqo kunento yokwenza nempumelelo yakhe, kwaye hayi isibophelelo sesisu.