Isizathu Sokuba Ndisele Ngexesha Lokukhulelwa Kwam

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Iimeko ezijikeleze ukukhulelwa kwam zazingafani. Mna nomyeni wam uTom sachitha ihlobo eMozambiki, kwaye saceba ukuchitha iintsuku ezimbalwa eRhawutini ngaphambi kokuba sibhabhe siye kwisiXeko saseNew York kwaye siye eChicago kumtshato nokubuyela ekhaya eNew Orleans. Ngexesha lethu lokugqibela eMozambiki, ndaqala ukuba nerhashalala; Ndacinga ukuba inxulumene nesepha entsha yokuhlamba iimpahla kwaye ndingakhathazeki.

Ulusu lwam lwaya lusiba mandundu, kwaye nangona lwalungekho buhlungu, lwalukhangeleka lunkwantyisa (ukuba unemicimbi yolusu, zama ezi Greens zi-5 zoLusu oluKhulu). Ukufika kwethu eNew York, ndaya kwikliniki yongxamiseko. Bafumanise ukuba ndine-Pityriasis, ekwabizwa ngokuba yi "The Christmas Tree Rash" -endiyifumene kamva ngamanye amaxesha iqhelekile ngexesha lokukhulelwa-kwaye bandinika ikhrimu eyomeleleyo ye-steroid kunye nepilisi. Yayilixesha leeholide, ndandisela kakhulu kunesiqhelo. Ndandingazi ukuba ndikhulelwe.

Ixesha lam lalisemva kwexesha, kodwa ndacinga ukuba linxulumene nokuhamba (ezi Ziyi-10 Ezinye Izinto zemihla ngemihla ezinokuchaphazela iXesha lakho nazo zinokubangela ukuba uphoswe). Kodwa xa umhlobo wam endixelela ukuba waphupha ndibuyela ekhaya ndikhulelwe, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndenze uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ekhaya. Yayintle. Ngoko nangoko ndafowunela ugqirha; Ndandinexhala lokusela kwam utywala, kodwa eyona nto yayindikhathaza kakhulu ngezi steroids. Andiqhelekanga ukuthatha amayeza amaninzi-ndiyathandabuza nokuba ndithathe i-Advil ngaphandle kokuba kuyimfuneko ngokupheleleyo-kwaye ngenxa yokuba ingeyonxalenye yendlela yam yesiqhelo yokubeka amayeza emzimbeni wam, ndandinexhala malunga nefuthe le-steroid. Iyeza lize nesilumkiso malunga nokulithatha ukuba ukhulelwe, malunga nokukhulelwa, okanye ukuncancisa, kodwa ndicinga ukuba sisilumkiso esisemgangathweni malunga nayo nantoni na kwezi ntsuku.

Sekunjalo, ugqirha wam wandiqinisekisa ukuba izigulana zakhe ezineLupus zithatha imimiselo eyomeleleyo kune-steroids endandikuyo, kwaye wandixelela ukuba ndingazikhathazi ngotywala kuba umzimba ukhusela i-embryo ngokwemvelo kwezo zityhefu de kufakwe, okwenzeka rhoqo kwiiveki ezine. Ukukhulelwa kwam kwakusezinsukwini zokuqala kakhulu. Ugqirha wam wandazisa nokuba ifuthe loxinzelelo emzimbeni, kunye ne-hormonal kunye nolunye utshintsho olubangelwa luxinzelelo, belubi kakhulu kuneglasi yewayini ngamanye amaxesha kwaye wandikhuthaza ukuba ndihlale ndizolile kwaye ndisempilweni; Ugxininise ukuba ukusela ngamanye amaxesha ukubhiyozela akuyi kulimaza usana okanye mna (kodwa ezi Ukutya oku-6 ngokuqinisekileyo akunamida ngexesha lokukhulelwa). Ndicinga ukuba oogqirha abafuni ukukhuthaza ukusela ngenxa yokoyika ukuba abafazi banokungena elwandle, kodwa sesinye sezizathu endimthanda kakhulu ugqirha wam: Undixelele ukuba inqanaba lam lokusela lilungile kwaye isiselo esinye okanye ezibini ngenyanga ndisempilweni. Ukutya kunye nokuzilolonga akunakwenzakalisa. Ndenze uphando oluncinci ndedwa kwaye kukho amacandelo kwiincwadi zokukhulelwa malunga nokusela utywala kunye nokutya ukutya okuthile-kwaye ndakuba ndidlulile kwikota yokuqala yokuqala kunye namaxhala okuphuma kwesisu, ndiye ndaziva ndinokuba neglasi yewayini bhiyozela izihlandlo ezibalulekileyo nosapho kunye nabahlobo. Iincwadi ngokubanzi zilumkisa “ngokuzinkcinkca ngotywala” kunye nokusela rhoqo; Bendingenguye umntu osela kakhulu kwaye kucacile ukuba bendingaselanga.

Kuyo yonke i-trimesters eseleyo yokukhulelwa kwam, mhlawumbi bendineglasi enye ukuya kwezimbini zewayini ngenyanga, kwaye kancinci ngaphezulu kwexesha leeholide. Andinxila. Kwaye xa ndisela, yayiyinto enye ngokuhlala kwaye ngesiqhelo ngelixa ndisiya kwisidlo sangokuhlwa okanye ukubhiyozela into ekhethekileyo. Khange ndisele nenye into ngaphandle kwewayini. Ngelixa ndihlala ndiyithanda ibhiya, ukucinga kwayo ngelixa ndikhulelweyo akuzange kundenzele nto, kwaye andisoloko ndisela i-cocktails okanye utywala obunzima, ke ayilulo utshintsho olukhulu kum. Bekuluncedo nokuba nabahlobo abacinga njengaye endikwaziyo ukuthetha nabo ngezinto ezininzi ezinxulumene nokukhulelwa kwam, eziquka ukusela. Uninzi lwabahlobo bam nabo bayonwabela iglasi yewayini ngelixa bekhulelwe, ngoko ke yayingeyonto ingaqhelekanga kubo, kwaye umyeni wam wayeluqonda ukhuseleko lwam lokusela ngamaxesha athile. Ndisempilweni kakhulu, nditya kakuhle, kwaye bendizilolonga rhoqo ngelo xesha (kwaye nazi izizathu ezisi-7 zokuba ufanele uzilolonge xa ​​ukhulelwe). Ezo zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo yomntu jikelele.

Ngoku ukuba intombi yam iyinkwenkwana encinci esempilweni, ndiqinisekile ukuba ukhetho lokusebenzisa iglasi yewayini ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwam yayilungile. Ukuba ndinokuphinda ndikhulelwe, mhlawumbi bendiya kwenza izinto ngendlela efanayo. Oko kwathiwa, njengayo yonke enye into enento yokwenza nomzimba womfazi, lukhetho lomntu. Yile nto indisebenzeleyo, kwaye ndingakhuthaza wonke umntu wasetyhini ukuba enze uphando kwaye athethe nogqirha wakhe athathe isigqibo sokuba yintoni emsebenzelayo.

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