Kutheni Simthanda uJese Pinkman (kunye naBanye abaGwenxa)

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Ngokuqinisekileyo, u-Jesse Pinkman ngumfundi ophuma kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo kwaye owayesakuba yi-junkie esebenza kwishishini leziyobisi kwaye wabulala indoda, kodwa uye wabamba ukunqulwa kwe-visceral kwawo wonke umfazi waseMelika ngentliziyo ebethayo kunye nokubhaliselwa kweTV. Ukutsala "inkwenkwe embi" ayisiyonto intsha, kodwa lo mlinganiswa, udlalwe ngu-Emmy ophumelele amatyeli amabini UAron Paul kwidrama yokulutha ye-AMC Iphula kakubi, Unesakhono esinye sokwenza ukuba umbukeli obhinqileyo avareke ngathi ebekade enobudlelwane obunesidima nompheki wemeth ukusukela ngo-2008.

Ukuhlonipha inkulumbuso ebelindelwe kakhulu kumdlalo weqonga 'weziqendu ezisibhozo zokugqibela ngo-Agasti 11, sagqiba kwelokuba sijonge nzulu malunga noJese okusenza simthande ngokuchasene nesigqibo sethu esingcono. Manenekazi, ukuba uhlala ukhetha umntu ongalunganga, qaphela. Olu hlalutyo ngugqirha wezengqondo kunye nelungu lebhodi yeengcebiso ye-SHAPE u-Belisa Vranich, i-PsyD, kunye ne-biological anthropologist kunye nomcebisi wezobunzululwazi kwiMatch.com uHelen Fisher, Ph.D., usebenza kubomi bokwenyani be-ne'er-do-wells kwisoka lethu eliyintsomi elinamehlo aluhlaza. (Izilumkiso ze-"Breaking Bad" ze-spoiler ukuba awubanjwanga!).

Okokuqala, okucacileyo: Obo buso! Ukuma nje ngo-5'8 ", isakhelo sikaJese sinokubonakala sincinci kwaye sincinci, esihlala sizifihla phantsi kwengubo ezigqithileyo kunye neembotyi, kodwa ubuso bakhe butyhila elinye ibali." Unayo yonke imiqondiso emihlanu esisiseko yendoda ephezulu kakhulu ye testosterone: 1 umhlathi omileyo oqinileyo 2) umqolo onzima 3) amathambo aphakamileyo 4) imilebe ebhityileyo, 5) ibunzi eliphakamileyo, utshilo uFisher, obhale le ncwadi Kutheni Yena? Kutheni yena?.

"Isizathu sokuba abesifazana bakuqonde oku kunomdla kukuba i-testosterone yinto ebaluleke kakhulu efuna amajoni omzimba omelele kakhulu ukunyamezela amanqanaba aphezulu ehomoni," uyacacisa. "Oku kuthetha ukuba la madoda abhengeza ngobuso bawo ukuba" amajoni am omelele omelele kangangokuba ndinganyamezela le testosterone. "Ngamanye amagama, imag yakhe eyindoda iyibhodi yebhodi ehamba ngempilo entle. Kwinqaku elinxulumene noko, i-testosterone ephezulu ikwathetha ukuba une-sex drive ephezulu, uFisher wongeza, kwaye ngubani ongafuniyo umntu olala naye onokuqhubeka?

Akaqikelekanga. Ukuba uthanda i-roller coasters, uya kumthanda u-Jesse, obonakala enamahla ndinyuka akhe nawuphi na umlinganiswa kuthotho. Unokuziva onwabile, edakumbile, enethemba, kwaye elusizi zonke kwisiqendu esinye. Ukungazi ukuba uya kusabela njani kwiimeko yinxalenye yesibongozo. "Abasetyhini bathanda izinto ezintsha," utshilo uFisher.

"Iqhuba inkqubo ye-dopamine kwingqondo kwaye ikunika amandla, ukugxila, inkuthazo, ithemba, kunye nokuguquguquka kwengqondo," utshilo. Ngokusisiseko, ukuba kunye nendoda engalindelekanga, njengoJesse, kunokuba mnandi kakhulu. Kwangaxeshanye, ukuziphatha okunjalo okuguquguqukayo kunokuphambana, yiyo loo nto kungasayi kusebenza.

Ubonisa ukukhanya kweengqondi. Amagama amathathu amancinci: "Ewe, njakazi! Iimagnethi!" Ngelixa iqabane lakhe leshishini kunye nowayesakuba ngutitshala wekhemistri wesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo uWalter White (edlalwe ngongagungqiyo UBryan Cranston) kwakusele kudala kusekwe njengengqondo yokusebenza, uJesse uye wafumana amaxesha akhe ebhalbhu. Ngexesha lesihlanu, umbono wakhe okrelekrele wokusebenzisa oomazibuthe ukutshabalalisa ubungqina obubambekayo kumhambisi we-meth ongasasebenziyo uGustavo "Gus" ilaptop ka-Fring eyayitshixelwe kwikomkhulu lamapolisa yabasindisa ekubanjweni. I-testosterone ephezulu kaJese, njengoko kubonisiwe bubuso bakhe, inokuba inento yokwenza nayo.

"Amadoda ane-testosterone ephakamileyo athanda ukuhlalutya, abe sengqiqweni, angqale, athathe isigqibo, abe nengqondo elukhuni, athandabuze, kwaye abe nobunjineli, oomatshini, iikhompyuter, kwaye, kule meko, apheke ikristal meth," utshilo uFisher. "Kwizigidi zeminyaka, abafazi babefuna kwindoda enokubetha loo nyathi entloko kunye nelitye kwaye yayinendawo entle, yokuhlalutya ukufumanisa oku. Abasetyhini banomdla kumadoda angabuya ekhaya nesidlo sangokuhlwa," utshilo.

Ungumphefumlo olahlekileyo. Alithandabuzeki elokuba uYese ufuna-kwaye ufuna ngokungazenzisiyo- mntu oza kumsindisa. Umntu owayekade eyijunkie uzame ukucoca isenzo sakhe ngaphezulu kwesihlandlo esinye, ngakumbi ukusukela ngexesha lesithathu xa wayeqala ukuthandana nomama ongatshatanga kunye nokufumana umlutha uAndrea. Kuyabonakala ukuba inxalenye yakhe ifuna ukukholelwa ukuba unokuba yindoda elungileyo, kodwa konke oko kuphuma ngefestile ekupheleni kwesizini xa enyanzelekile ukuba abulale indoda emsulwa, uGale, ukuze asindise ubomi bukaMnu White. Ukubona ukuthandabuza kwakhe ngaphambi kokuba akhuphe into eyoneleyo kwanele ukwenza ukuba naliphi na ibhinqa lifune ukungena ngaphakathi lize lithethe nalo.

"Abanye abafazi bavame ukuba ngumama kwaye bakholelwa ukuba sinokutshintsha abantu kwaye sisindise imiphefumlo yabo elahlekileyo. Ibhenela kwizakhono zethu zokondla, ezidibaniswa ne-estrogen, "kusho uFisher. Kwaye uthi uyamsindisa ngempumelelo? Inokuqhuma ebusweni bakho. Abasetyhini abaninzi bancede indoda ukuba ibone amandla ayo kwaye xa sele ifikile kuyo, ingamshiya kuba ingafumana iqabane elingcono ngoku, "ulumkisa uVranick. "Kufuneka uzibuze, iphi inethiwekhi yakhe yenkxaso? Kutheni engenayo? Kufuneka kubekho isizathu."

Uyadelela. Ngenxa yokhetho lwakhe lomsebenzi olungaqhelekanga kunye nolungekho mthethweni ngokupheleleyo, uJesse ukude nokuhambelana. Ukuba namandla okuba ngumntu wakhe kwaye engayilandeli imigaqo ehlala uluntu luhlala ngayo kushushu. "Abasetyhini bathanda ukuhlala ngokungathandabuzekiyo ngala madoda kwaye baye kumnandi, kodwa ezi ngcuka zodwa azenzi amadoda alungileyo," utshilo uVranick, umbhali wencwadi Unamandla.

Kwelinye icala, ukuphuma ngokwakho luphawu lobukhalipha, yiyo loo nto abafazi beyidinga kumaqabane abo emva kwemini ukuze bondliwe kwaye bakhuselwe. "Abasetyhini bafuna indoda engazisi ekhaya kuphela isidlo sangokuhlwa kodwa ibakhusele, kwaye oko kuya kuba ngumntu onoburharha okwaziyo ukuma nkqo," ucacisa uFisher. Kuwo onke amasizini amahlanu adlulileyo, umlingiswa omnyama kaJese uye wanyamezela ukubethwa okusongela ubomi, ukufa kothando lwakhe lokuqala, ukubulawa kwendoda emsulwa-kangangokuba uzimisele ukubeka yonke into emngciphekweni, kwanobomi bakhe, ngenxa yoko akholelwa kuko. Umzekelo ogqibeleleyo: Ngexesha awayejongene nabathengisi beziyobisi ababini ababekhuphisana ngokubulawa komninawa ka-Andrea owayeneminyaka eli-11 ubudala, uTomas.

Uneemvakalelo. Akangomntu weTin-unentliziyo! Ixesha lokuqala lakhawuleza labonisa ukuba uJese wayefudukele kumakazi wakhe uJenny owayesifa ukuze amkhathalele ngeentsuku zakhe zokugqibela elwa nomhlaza. Ngexesha lesithathu, waqala ukwakha unxibelelwano lukatata kunyana ka-Andrea, intombi yakhe, u-Brock. Kwaye kwasekuqaleni ubonakalise ukunyaniseka okukrakra kuMnumzana White, owathi ekugqibeleni wamtyhala emva kokubulawa kwenkwenkwana emsulwa (umntwana wayebabonile bephanga uloliwe we-methylamine) wenza ukuba uJesse afune ukuphuma. Ubuntununtunu bakhe obudibene nokuzisola yeyona nto imbi kakhulu kwinkwenkwe, uVranick uthi.

"Abasetyhini bahlala betya iimvuthuluka zesonka ezingathethi ukuba indoda ilungile kuba sinethemba kwaye sinethemba kwaye sithanda ukucinga ukuba abantu balungile ngokubanzi, utshilo. "Abasetyhini bawela umgibe onzulu ngaphakathi kuye olungileyo ngethemba lokuba uya kuqonda ukuba wambona ngedayimane kwimeko awayekuyo, nto leyo emenza azive ekhethekile, kodwa loo nto ayisoze yenzeke."

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