Lo mfazi ngekhe eme ebantwini abahlazisa iQumfu lakhe elincinci labantwana
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Umyili wefashoni wase-Australia u-Yiota Kouzoukas wabelana ngebhongo neefoto zomntwana wakhe onamaqhuqhuva kunye nabalandeli bakhe abangama-200,000 be-Instagram. Ngelishwa, ezinye zeempendulo azifumeneyo ayizizo ebezilindelwe.
Abantu baye bagweba isisu sakhe esincinci, bebuza ukuba utya ngokufanelekileyo okanye ukuba umntwana wakhe uphilile. Ke umntu oneminyaka engama-29 ubudala, oneenyanga ezintandathu ekhulelwe, uvale abo bamthiyileyo ngokwabelana ngokuchanekileyo ukuba kutheni iqhubu lakhe lincinci njengoko linjalo.
"Ndifumana ii-DM ezininzi kunye nezimvo malunga nobukhulu be-bump yam, yiyo loo nto ndifuna ukucacisa izinto ezimbalwa ngomzimba wam," utshilo ku-Instagram. "Ayikuko ukuba ndicaphukile / ndichaphazelekile ngala magqabaza konke konke, kodwa ngakumbi ngesizathu sokufundisa ngethemba lokuba abanye abantu ababagwebi abanye kwaye nabo ngokwabo."
Uye wacacisa ukuba unesizalo esithambekileyo (esibuyele emva) kwakunye namanxeba ngenxa ye-endometriosis. Ukuba awuzange uve "ngesibeleko esitshixekileyo" ngaphambili, ngekhe ube wedwa. Kodwa ibhinqa elinye kwabahlanu liyayifumana, ngokutsho kweU.S. National Library of Medicine. Ukubuyela umva kwenzeka xa isibeleko sowasetyhini sihlelisiwe sibuyele umva endaweni yokuya phambili. Ngamanye amaxesha ngexesha lokukhulelwa, inokuphinda ibuye iye phambili, kodwa njengakwimeko ye-Yiota, izicwili ezibomvu ezivela kwi-endometriosis zinokuyibeka kwindawo yayo.
Into elungileyo kukuba, le meko ayichaphazeli amathuba akho okuba ukhulelwe kwaye akukho bungozi kwezempilo bunxulumene nayo. (Kodwa abanye abafazi banokufumana intlungu ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ngenxa yesibeleko se-kilter kunye neentlungu zokuya esikhathini, izifo ze-urinary tract, kunye neengxaki zokusebenzisa i-tampon.)
Esi ayisosihlandlo sokuqala i-intanethi ineengcinga malunga nokukhulelwa komntu. Xa imodeli yangaphantsi uSarah Stage watyhila ukuba unepakethi emithandathu ngelixa iinyanga ezisibhozo ekhulelwe, abagqabaza bakhawuleza bammangalela ngokungacingi ngomntwana wakhe ongekazalwa. Umphembeleli wezempilo uChontel Duncan naye wagxothwa engqina ukuba abasetyhini abakhulelweyo abasempilweni beza ngazo zonke iimo kunye nobukhulu.
Ngombulelo, u-Yiota uyazi ukuba yintoni ngokwenene kubalulekile-kwaye ayisiyo i-intanethi troll: "Ndiphilile ngokugqibeleleyo, usana lwam luphilile ngokugqibeleleyo, yiyo yonke loo nto ibalulekileyo," utshilo u-Yiota.