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Umxholo

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Ukuphulukana neepawundi ezili-115 ayisiyonto elula, yiyo loo nto uMorgan Bartley wayezingca ngokwabelana ngenkqubela phambili yakhe emangalisayo kwimidiya yoluntu. Ngelishwa, endaweni yokubhiyozela impumelelo yakhe, i-Instagram yacima umfanekiso we-19-ubudala ngaphambi nangemva kokulahlekelwa kwesisindo ngaphandle kwesizathu esicacileyo.

I-FWIW, izikhokelo zoluntu kwi-Instagram azikunyamezeli "ukusondela kweempundu ze", "umxholo oqukethe izoyikiso ezinokuthenjwa okanye intetho yentiyo, waphule nayiphi na yale mithetho. Jonga ngokwakho.

Eqonda ukuba iposti yakhe ayophuli mthetho, uMorgan uphinde wafaka umfanekiso wantlandlolo kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ngenqaku elinamandla. “Ndabelana ngohambo lwam kwi-Intanethi ngethemba lokukhuthaza abanye ukuba balawule ubomi babo,” utshilo umfanekiso omtsha, osele uzuze ngaphezu kwe-17,600 yokuthandwa. "Ndicinga ukuba iyabarhola abantu ukuba bavakalise ukungakhathali kwinto ethile ineenjongo ezintle kuphela, KODWA yiyo loo nto sikhangela uthando luzeleyo kwaye ukukhanya kwenza umahluko." (UMorgan yayingenguye yedwa owasetyhini oye wayenza le nto. Lo mqeqeshi wokomelela waqhwaba izandla emva kokuba iqonga lonxibelelwano licime ifoto ye-cellulite yakhe.)

Esi ayisosihlandlo sokuqala ukuba umntwana okwishumi elivisayo athumele umfanekiso wakhe wenguqu, kwaye ukufika kwindawo apho akhululekileyo ukuwathumela kuzo zonke akukhange kube lula. Ngelixa uMorgan wavuma ukuba ulwa nobunzima bonke ubomi bakhe, ezinye iingxaki zempilo zenza ukuba kube nzima nangakumbi. Kwiminyaka nje eli-15 ubudala kwafunyaniswa ukuba une-ovarian torsion, imeko ebuhlungu eyamenza waphulukana nelinye lamaqanda. Kamva, waqalisa ukubonakalisa iimpawu zokuyeka ukuya exesheni nto leyo eyayibangela inkxalabo malunga nokukwazi kwakhe ukuba nabantwana kamva ebomini. Ezi ndaba zibeka uMorgan luxinzelelo olunzulu olubangela ukuba aqalise ukutya kakhulu, nto leyo ekhokelele ukuba ubunzima bukaMorgan bufikelele kuma-300 eeponti. Iiposti zakhe ezininzi ze-Instagram zichaza indlela awayeziva ngayo ukuba umzimba wakhe uyamngcatsha, kwaye wasebenzisa ukutya njengendlela yokubaleka. (Ngaba kukuzinkcinkca ngokutya ukuba kuyenzeka ngamaxesha athile? Sifumanise oko.)

Kodwa wayesazi ukuba kukho into efuna ukutshintsha.

“Ndathatha isigqibo sokuba ndiphinde ndilawule umzimba wam ndisindise ubomi bam,” utshilo. Ukwazi ukuba ukutya kunye nokuzivocavoca akuzange kuncede kwixesha elidlulileyo, uMorgan wakhetha utyando lwe-gastric bypass, kodwa wayesazi ukuba utyando luyisixhobo kuphela sokunceda ekunciphiseni ubunzima kwaye kungekhona isisombululo sakhe esisisigxina okanye kuphela. Ulahlekelwe yi-115 leeponti. Kwaye nangona uMorgan esafuna ukuphulukana nenye i-30 ngaphezulu, ngekhe onwabe ngakumbi malunga nokufika kwakhe kwaye angavumeli nasiphi na isigxeko esingacelwanga simhlise. "Ungaze uvumele ukuphelelwa lithemba kwehlabathi okanye ukugweba kukuthintele ekubeni uphile ubomi bakho kwaye ubhiyozele into oyenzileyo ngayo," utshilo. (P.S. Le posi yebhlogi iya kutshintsha indlela ojonga ngayo iifoto zangaphambili nasemva kwanaphakade.)

Ngayo yonke into alwa nayo kwaye wayifeza, uMorgan unelungelo lokuzimela (kunye nezikhundla zakhe ezomeleleyo) ngokungqina ukuba lolona luvo lukubaluleke kakhulu. "Ndicinga ukuba ndijongeka njengebhombu entle kwisuti yokuhlamba elwandle," utshilo. "Kwaye emva kobomi bokuvumela ukungazithembi kundibambe kumava obomi. Ewe, ndizakuqhubeka nokunxiba ubuso obugcweleyo bezinto zokuloba elunxwemeni kwaye ewe, ndizakuqhubeka nokuba yi-DAMN ndinebhongo ngabo ndisebenze njalo kunzima ukuba. " Amen, ntombi. Ubonakala ungakholeleki.

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