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Iifoto zenkqubela-phambili apho zikhoyo xa kufikwa kwiinguqu zokunciphisa umzimba kule mihla. Ngelixa ezi foto zingakholelekiyo nasemva kweendlela ziyindlela entle yokuhlala uphendula, zihlala zenza abanye bazive bengakhuselekanga ngokungeyomfuneko-ngakumbi abantu abebesokola ngemicimbi yomzimba.

Ngenxa yolu buntununtunu, amagqwetha aliqela omzimba anje ngoAnna Victoria noEmily Skye kutshanje bagqibe kwelokuba babelane ngezithombe "ezingezizo" zenguqu ezibonisa indlela ekungekho ngqiqweni ngayo ukubanomnye wabo babizwa ngokuba "yimizimba egqibeleleyo." Ukujoyina olu tshintsho nguMilly Smith, oneminyaka engama-23 ubudala ongumfundi womongikazi osuka eU.K.

Kwiposti yamva nje, umama omtsha wabelane ngomfanekiso wakhe ngaphambi nasemva kwakhe otyhila umahluko omkhulu ekufuneka uwukholelwe. Ukusukela ekufakweni kwayo, ifoto yadibana nabasetyhini abaninzi abonwabileyo ukubona icala elinyanisekileyo leendaba zoluntu, kwaye baqokelele ngaphezulu kwe-61,000 yokuthandwa ukuza kuthi ga ngoku.

"Ndikhululekile ngomzimba wam kuzo zombini [iifoto]," wabhala. "Ayikufanelanga okanye ayifanelekanga. Ayindenzi ukuba ndingaphezulu okanye ndingaphantsi komntu ... Simfanyekiswe kakhulu kukungabonakali komzimba wokwenyani, kwaye simfanyekiswe bubuhle, ukuze abantu bandifumane ndingathandeki ngaphakathi Ukutshintshela ukuma kwemizuzwana emihlanu! Bubudenge obungaka!?"

Ngelixa uMilly angabonakala njengomzekelo wokuzithanda nokuzithemba, izinto bezingasoloko zilula kangako. Kwezinye zeeposti zakhe ze-Instagram, ubonakalise ukulwa nokudakumba, ixhala, i-anorexia, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kunye ne-endometriosis. Usebenzise i-Instagram njengesixhobo sokuxhobisa ukumnceda. "Inceda ingqondo yam kakhulu nge-dysmorphia yomzimba kwaye indinceda ukuba ndilungelelanise iingcinga zam ezingalunganga," wabhala.

Esi ayisosihlandlo sokuqala uMilly ekwabelwana ngemifanekiso eguqulwayo ebonisa ukuba i-Instagram inokukhohlisa njani. Ngokusebenzisa ezinye izithuba, usikhumbuze ukuba siyeke ukuzithelekisa nabanye kwaye samkele imizimba yethu njengoko iyinto esinokuyifumana ngasemva.

Enkosi ngokuyigcina iyinyani, Milly. Siyakuthanda ngenxa yayo.

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