Abasetyhini abali-10 baFumana isiQinisekiso malunga nesizathu sokuba bayeke ukucheba iinwele zomzimba wabo

Umxholo

• "Indenza ndizive ndimhle, ndingowesifazana, kwaye ndinamandla."-I -oxane S., 28
• "Ndizive ndikhululekile kwaye ndizithembe ngakumbi." -U-Laura J.
• "Iyandinceda ukuba ndizive ndisabelana ngesondo kwaye ndiphila ngakumbi."-Lee T., 28
• "Ukuvumela i-razor itshise iphile kakuhle."-UTara E., 39
• "Ngenxa yokuba iinwele zomzimba ziyindalo."-Debbie A. 23
• "Ukwenza ingxelo malunga nemigangatho yobuhle."-UJessa C., 22
• "Ndayeka ukucheba xa ndiphuma njengolindelo."-Kori O., 28
• "Iqale njengengxaki kaNovemba engachetywa."UAlexandra M., oneminyaka engama-23
• "Indenza ndizive ndiqinisekile."UDiandrea B., 24
• "Kuba lukhetho lwam."-UAlyssa, oneminyaka engama-29
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Kusekho ibala elijikeleze abasetyhini kunye nabantu abachongiweyo abangabafazi abangachebiyo, kodwa u-2018 ubone intshukumo eya kwikratshi leenwele zomzimba elikhula ngamandla.

I-Peppered phakathi kwe #fitspirational post-workout pics kunye nezitya zesmoothie, imifanekiso enebhongo ngeenwele ezinehashtag ezinje nge#bodyhair, #bodyhairdontcare, kunye #womenwithbodyhair kusenokwenzeka ukuba ziyavela kwifidi yakho ye-Instagram. Ehlotyeni, uphawu lwentsimbi yabasetyhini uBillie lukhuphe isibhengezo esineenwele zomzimba uqobo okokuqala ngqa. (Ngokukrakra, ngonaphakade). Umfanekiso onomngxuma onoboya ka-Julia Roberts wase-1999 waphinda wavela kwisondlo sentlalontle emva kokuba u-Busy Philipps ebuze u-Roberts malunga nenkumbulo ye-Hollywood ngoku ye-E! Umboniso wothetha, Ngokuhlwa kuxakekile. Kwaye abanye abantu abadumileyo abanjengoHalsey, uParis Jackson, uScout Willis, kunye noMiley Cyrus bathathele kwi-intanethi ukunika iinwele zomzimba uthando, nabo.

Inceda ngantoni? Hayi, asikokugcina imali ngeencakuba. “Ngokuvuma kunye nokubhiyozela ukuba bonke abantu basetyhini baneenwele zomzimba kwaye abanye bethu bakhetha ukuzinxiba ngokuzingca, sinokunceda ukunqanda ukuhlaziswa komzimba kufutshane neenwele, kwaye sibe nokumelwa kokwenyani kwabasetyhini bokwenyani,” utshilo uBillie ongumseki-ntsapho uGeorgina Gooley. (Ivakala njengenye inxalenye yentshukumo yomzimba enokuthi ngokuqinisekileyo siyifumane ngasemva.)

Unoko engqondweni, apha ngezantsi, abafazi abali-10 abanekratshi lomzimba nge-IRL babelana ngokuba kutheni bengasazisusi iinwele zabo zomzimba kwaye ukhetho olo lubuchaphazele njani ubudlelwane babo nemizimba yabo.

"Indenza ndizive ndimhle, ndingowesifazana, kwaye ndinamandla."-I -oxane S., 28

"Ndayeka ukususa iinwele zomzimba wam xa ndandisebenza njengendoda kumdlalo othile kwiminyaka eyadlulayo. Khange ndizikhathaze ngeenwele kwaphela! Oko kwandenza ndabona ukuba bendicheba kuba bendiziva ndinyanzelekile. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu baya kwenza izimvo. ukundinyanzela ukuba ndichebe, kodwa khange ndivume ukuba indiphembelele. Ndiyazithanda iinwele zomzimba wam kunye nam njengoko ndinjalo. Indenza ndizive ndimhle, ndingumfazi kwaye ndinamandla.

"Ndizive ndikhululekile kwaye ndizithembe ngakumbi." -U-Laura J.

"Ndikhule iinwele zam zomzimba zisebenza njengenxalenye yesidanga sam sedrama ngoMeyi ka-2018. Bekukho iindawo ezithile ebezingumceli mngeni kum, kwaye ezinye zindivule kakhulu amehlo kwi-taboo yeenwele zomzimba emfazini. Emva iiveki ezimbalwa zokuziqhela, ndaqala ukuthanda iinwele zam zendalo.Ndaqala nokuthanda ukungabikho kweziqephu ezingathandekiyo zokucheba.Nangona ndandiziva ndikhululekile kwaye ndizithembile, abanye abantu ababendingqongile babengasiqondi isizathu sokuba ndingazi. '' '' '

Ndixhaswe kakhulu ngabahlobo bam kunye nosapho! Nangona kuye kwafuneka ndichaze ukuba kutheni ndiyenza kuninzi kubo eyothusayo, kwaye kwakhona, isizathu sokuba oku kubalulekile ukuyenza! Xa ndiqala ukukhulisa iinwele zam zomzimba umama wandibuza "Ngaba ulivila nje okanye uzama ukubonisa inqaku?" ... kutheni kufanele kuthiwe siyonqena ukuba asifuni ukucheba? Kwaye kutheni kufuneka sibonise inqaku? Emva kokuthetha naye ngayo kunye nokumnceda ukuba aqonde, wabona indlela ekumangalisa ngayo ukubuza loo mibuzo. Ukuba senza into / sibona izinto ezifanayo, siphinda-phinda iba yinto yesiqhelo. Ngoku uza kujoyina uJanuhairy kwaye akhule eyakhe inwele zomzimba ezingumceli mngeni omkhulu kuye nakwabasetyhini abaninzi ababandakanyekayo. Ewe ngumceli mngeni olungileyo! Eli ayilo phulo lomsindo kubantu abangaboniyo ukuba ziqhelekile njani iinwele zomzimba, kodwa ngakumbi yiprojekthi yokuxhobisa wonke umntu ukuba aqonde ngakumbi malunga neembono zabo ngaye nakwabanye. "

"Iyandinceda ukuba ndizive ndisabelana ngesondo kwaye ndiphila ngakumbi."-Lee T., 28

"Ndiyekile ngokwenene ukususa i-bikini kunye neenwele zomlenze, ngoko ke ngoku ndihamba nge-au naturel kuyo yonke indawo. Indenza ndizive njalo. mna ... ngathi andizami ukuba ngomnye umntu. Ndiziva ndisexesheni, ndiphila ngakumbi, kwaye ndizithemba ngakumbi eluswini lwam kunokuba bendisenza ngaphambili xa bendizama ukuzifaka kwibhokisi elindelwe luluntu ngokucheba, ukucheba, njl.

Ayilungele wonke umntu, kwaye andithethi ukuba ndishumayela iinwele zekhwapha. Wonke umntu kufuneka enze unothanda ngemizimba yakhe. Kodwa ayingabo bonke abanalo ilungelo-ndiyaqonda ukuba lilungelo kum ukuba ndinxibe ezi nwele esidlangalaleni ngaphandle kokhuseleko lwam emngciphekweni-nangona ndifumana isigwebo, ukugxekwa, izimvo ezinentsingiselo, kwaye ndade ndaphulukana nabalandeli abangama-4,000 xa ndithumela iinwele zam zomzimba. Kwi-Instagram. Ndenze nje ukuba ndiqiniseke ngakumbi ukuba ndenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo sokunxiba umzimba wam ngokuzingca, nangona ujongeka ngathi uyabonakala! "

"Ukuvumela i-razor itshise iphile kakuhle."-UTara E., 39

"Emva kwamashumi eminyaka ndibangela ukucaphuka mihla le kwizihlunu zam ezingaphantsi ekubeni ndichebe amakhwapha, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndivumele irash kunye nencakuba zitshise. Kutheni le nto bendisenza oku kum? ukuthanda nokwamkela umzimba wam njengoko unjalo. Kwakhona, iincakuba ziyabiza, ngoko bendikonwabela ukonga imali.”

"Ngenxa yokuba iinwele zomzimba ziyindalo."-Debbie A. 23

"Ndayeka ukucheba iinwele zomzimba wam kuba iyinxalenye yento endiyiyo. UMbutho uxelele abasetyhini ixesha elide ukuba iinwele zabo zimbi kwaye azifanelekanga. Kum, kuyinto yendalo kwaye wonke umntu unayo, kutheni ndingayithandi? Ndingumntu onesitshixo esiphantsi kwaye iincakuba ziyingxaki, kwaye, ndisengozini yokuba neenwele ezigobileyo ezibuhlungu...kakhulu.Sekuyiminyaka ndathenga i-razor-kunye ne-wallet yam, umhlaba, nomzimba wam. ndiyabulela ngayo.

"Ukwenza ingxelo malunga nemigangatho yobuhle."-UJessa C., 22

"Abasetyhini bahlala bexelelwa ukuba bathenge iimveliso kunye nonyango oluqinisa inkolelo yokuba ukungabinazihlunu kulungile. Sixelelwa ukuba imizimba yethu (enoboya) ayonelanga. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile kum ukuba ndilwele ilungelo lokuba abasetyhini bakhulise iinwele zabo zemizimba yabo (okanye hayi!) kwaye bakhululeke ukushukumisa iinwele zabo ngendlela abakhetha ngayo.Umzekelo, ndithulula amashiya am kodwa andiweki umlebe wam ongasentla, ndichebe intamo elahlekileyo okanye esilevini, okanye ndichebe. ikhwapha okanye imilenze.

Ekupheleni kosuku, into thina, njengabafazi, esikhetha ukuyenza ngemizimba yethu lukhetho lwethu. Kwaye ukuba sikhetha ukugungqa istache esincinci okanye imilenze enoboya okanye i-wax okanye siyichebe kube kanye ngeveki, yeyethu ukuba sikhethe hayi eyoluntu okanye abantu abanoluvo lokuyalela. Ngokhetho lwam lweenwele zomzimba, ndinethemba lokuzikhupha kancinci kancinci intombazana encinci eyoyikayo ngaphakathi kum eyafundiswa ukuba yoyike umntu obona unwele olongezelelweyo emzimbeni wam. Iindidi "Ukuzekelisa ukuhlekwa kweMigangatho yobuhle)

"Ndayeka ukucheba xa ndiphuma njengolindelo."-Kori O., 28

"Ndiqale ukukhulisa iinwele zam zomzimba kanye ngexesha endaphuma ndisiya kubahlobo bam kunye nosapho njengeminyaka emihlanu eyadlulayo. Ndithe ndakukhululeka kwisini sam, ndaqala ukukhululeka ngomzimba wam kunye nokuzazi kwam. Ndicinga ukuba ukuba ngumfazi oluthambileyo ngombala kwaye ndikhululekile ukuba ndingubani le nto kufuneka ndiyenzile. Abantu abancinci abanomdla (njengodadewethu oneminyaka eyi-6) ngoku bayabona ukuba andifani nabanye abafazi abalingana nam kwaye kulungile! ( Kwaye i-TBH, uyayamkela ngakumbi kunaye nabani na ongomnye kusapho lwam!) Ndiziva njengomfazi okhulileyo ozithembileyo oneenwele ezikhulileyo zomzimba wam."

"Iqale njengengxaki kaNovemba engachetywa."UAlexandra M., oneminyaka engama-23

"Ndiqale ukuyikhulisela uNove-Shave kaNovemba kuba bendicinga ukuba izakuba mnandi. Kwaye, ukunyaniseka, kum, khange kube lula. Zakuba iinwele zam zinde kwaye zijiyile, ndafumanisa ukuba ndifuna ukuyicheba qho xa ndingena kwi shower.. We are conditioned from a young age to see hairless and smooth as the standard, as what is beautiful, ndasokola.kodwa andikachebi kuba ndifuna ukumelana ne societal beauty standards. zimiliselwe kum ukusukela ndimncinci kwaye nditshintshe indlela endibona ngayo ubuhle kum."

"Indenza ndizive ndiqinisekile."UDiandrea B., 24

"Khange ndiyichebe iminyaka ngoba indenza ndizive ndinomdla wokuzonwabisa, ndizithembile kwaye ndizithembile. Yinto elula nje leyo. Ukukhetha ukungachebi kunokuba lukhetho lokukhetha. Usapho lwam luneembono ngalo (abelana ngazo) abanye babantu endibaziyo ukususela ebuntwaneni - kodwa olu lukhetho endinokuma ngalo emva. Kwaye andizukujola naye nabani na ongakwaziyo ukuma emva kokhetho lwam kunye nam (okanye ongazifumaniyo iinwele zam zintle).

"Kuba lukhetho lwam."-UAlyssa, oneminyaka engama-29

"Iinwele zomzimba wam zilula yi. Kwaye, kum, yile ngongoma: ekhoyo emzimbeni wam, ngokuzingca. Nokuba ndizishiya iinwele zam okanye ndizilahle ngokupheleleyo, lukhetho lwam. Ukuba nayo, ndingenayo, ayitshintshi indlela endiziva ngayo ngokuzixabisa kwam. Ekugqibeleni ndiyikhathalele ngakumbi leyo kunemilinganiselo yobuhle engqongqo. "

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