Ukuthetha nomntu onengxaki yokuva

Kunokuba nzima kumntu onengxaki yokuva ukuba aqonde incoko nomnye umntu. Ukuba kwiqela, incoko inokuba nzima nangakumbi. Umntu ophulukene nendlebe unokuziva ekhethekile okanye enqunyulwe. Ukuba uhlala okanye usebenza nomntu ongeva kakuhle, landela la macebiso angezantsi ukuze unxibelelane ngcono.

Qiniseka ukuba umntu ophulukene nokuva uyabubona ubuso bakho.

• Yima okanye uhlale i-3 ukuya kwi-6 yeenyawo (i-90 ukuya kwi-180 yeesentimitha) kude.
• Zibeke endaweni yakho ukuze umntu othetha naye abone umlomo kunye nezimbo zomzimba.
• Thetha kwigumbi apho kukho ukukhanya okwaneleyo komntu onengxaki yokungeva ukuze abone imikhondo ebonakalayo.
• Ngelixa uthetha, SUKUVALA umlomo, yitya, okanye ungahlafuni nantoni na.

Fumana indawo elungileyo encokweni.

• Ukunciphisa inani lengxolo yangasemva ngokucima umabonwakude okanye unomathotholo.
• Khetha indawo ethuleyo yerestyu, indawo yokulinda, okanye iofisi apho kungekho msebenzi ungako nengxolo.

Yenza umzamo owongezelelweyo wokubandakanya umntu kwincoko nabanye.

• Ungaze uthethe ngomntu ophulukene nokuva ngokungathi akekho.
• Yazisa umntu xa isihloko sitshintshile.
• Sebenzisa igama lomntu ukuze bazi ukuba uthetha nabo.

Thetha amagama akho kancinci kancinci nangokucacileyo.

• Ungathetha ungaphezulu kunesiqhelo, kodwa UNGAKHANGELELI.
• SUKUXOXA ngamazwi akho kuba oku kungayijika indlela evakala ngayo kwaye kwenze kube nzima ukuba umntu akuqonde.
• Ukuba umntu ongeva kakuhle akaliqondi igama okanye ibinzana, khetha elahlukileyo kunokuliphinda.

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UNicastri C, uCole S. Udliwanondlebe nabaguli abadala. Ku: Cole SA, intaka uJ, ii-eds. Udliwanondlebe lwezonyango. Ngomhla wesi-3. IPhiladelphia, PA: Elsevier Saunders; 2014: isahluko 22.

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