Ukulungiselela abantwana ukukhulelwa kunye nosana olutsha

Usana olutsha lutshintsha usapho lwakho. Lixesha elinomdla. Kodwa umntwana omtsha kunokuba nzima kumntwana wakho omdala okanye kubantwana. Funda ngendlela onokumnceda ngayo umntwana wakho omdala ukuba alungele umntwana omtsha.

Xelela umntwana wakho ukuba ukhulelwe xa sele ukulungele ukwabelana ngeendaba. Zama ukubazisa ngaphambi kokuba wonke umntu obangqongileyo athethe ngayo.

Yazi ukuba umntwana wakho uyakuqaphela ukuba uziva udiniwe okanye uyagula. Zama ukuhlala unethemba ukuze umntwana wakho angalucaphukeli usana ngokwenza ukuba uzive ungaphilanga.

Vumela umntwana wakho athathe isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukwazi kangakanani kwaye ufuna ukuthetha kangakanani ngomntwana.

Lungiselela umntwana wakho ukubuza, "Uvela phi umntwana?" Yazi ukuba ukhululekile ukuthetha ngantoni. Gcina incoko kwinqanaba labo kwaye uphendule imibuzo yabo. Unga:

• Baxelele ukuba umntwana uvela ngaphakathi kwesibeleko esisemva kwesisu sakho.
• Funda iincwadi zabantwana ngokuzalwa komntwana wakho.
• Yiza nomntwana wakho kwindawo yokuqeshwa. Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba ave ukubetha kwentliziyo yomntwana.
• Vumela umntwana wakho azive umntwana xa umntwana ekhaba okanye ehamba.

Qonda ukuqonda kwexesha lomntwana wakho. Umntwana omncinci akazukuqonda ukuba umntwana akazukuza iinyanga. Chaza umhla wakho omiselweyo kunye namaxesha anengqiqo emntwaneni wakho. Umzekelo, baxelele ukuba umntwana uyeza xa kubanda okanye xa kushushu.

Zama ukungabuzi umntwana wakho ukuba bafuna ubhuti okanye udade. Ukuba umntwana akayona le nto bayifunayo, banokudana.

Njengoko isisu sakho sikhula, umntwana wakho uya kuqaphela:

• Abasakwazi ukuhlala ethangeni lakho.
• Awubacholi kakhulu.
• Awunamandla.

Bacacisele ukuba ukufumana umntwana ngumsebenzi onzima. Baqinisekise ukuba uyaphila nokuba basabalulekile kuwe.

Yazi ukuba umntwana wakho unokuncamathela. Umntwana wakho unokuthatha amanyathelo. Beka imida ngomntwana wakho njengoko uhlala usenza njalo. Yiba nenkathalo kwaye umazise umntwana wakho ukuba basabalulekile. Apha ngezantsi kukho izinto onokuzenza.

Umntwana wakho uyathanda ukuva ngaye. Bonisa umntwana wakho imifanekiso xa wawumithi kunye nabo kunye nemifanekiso yabo eselusana. Xelela umntwana wakho amabali ngento oyenzileyo xa wayeselusana. Xelela umntwana wakho indlela owawonwabe ngayo xa babezalwa. Nceda umntwana wakho abone ukuba kunje ukuba nomntwana omtsha.

Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba adlale ngonodoli. Umntwana wakho unako ukondla, ilweyile kunye nokunyamekela unodoli wosana. Vumela umntwana wakho adlale ngezinye zezinto zomntwana. Umntwana wakho unokufuna ukunxiba izilwanyana okanye izinto zoonodoli kwiimpahla. Xelela umntwana wakho ukuba banokukunceda ukwenza oku ngomntwana wokwenene.

Zama ukugcina iinkqubo zesiqhelo zomntwana wakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Yazisa umntwana wakho ngezinto eziya kuhlala zinje emva kokuba umntwana efikile, ezinje:

• Ukuya esikolweni
• Ukuya kwindawo yokudlala
• Ukudlala ngeethoyi zabo abazithandayo
• Ukufunda iincwadi kunye nawe

Kuphephe ukuxelela umntwana wakho ukuba aziphathe njengenkwenkwana okanye intombazana enkulu. Khumbula ukuba umntwana wakho ucinga njengosana lwakho.

Sukutyhala uqeqesho lweebhotile kanye ngaphambi okanye emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe.

Sukutyhala umntwana wakho anikezele ngengubo yakhe yosana.

Ukuba uhambisa umntwana wakho kwigumbi elitsha okanye kwibhedi entsha, yenza oku, kwiiveki ngaphambi komhla omiselweyo. Nika umntwana wakho ixesha lokwenza utshintsho phambi kokuba umntwana afike.

Jonga ukuba isibhedlele sakho okanye iziko lokuzalela linika iiklasi zokuzalwa kwabantakwenu. Apho, umntwana wakho unokutyelela eli ziko, kwaye afunde izinto ezinje ngendlela umntwana azalwa ngayo, indlela yokubamba umntwana, kunye nendlela abanokunceda ngayo ekhaya nosana.

Ukuba isibhedlele sakho okanye indawo yokubeleka ivumela abantwana ukuba baye ekuzalweni, thetha nomntwana wakho malunga nale ndlela. Uninzi lwabantwana lukufumanisa kukuzidibanisa okuhle namava nodade wabo omtsha okanye umntakwabo. Nangona kunjalo, kwabanye abantwana, ubukho babo bunokungafaneleki ukuba bancinci kakhulu ukuba bangaqonda okanye ubuntu babo abufanelanga amava anjalo.

Buza umntwana wakho ukuba ancede ekulungiseleleni umntwana omtsha. Umntwana wakho unokunceda:

• Pakisha ityesi yakho yesibhedlele.
• Khetha iimpahla eziza ekhaya zosana.
• Lungiselela isitya somntwana esitsha okanye igumbi elilungeleyo. Cwangcisa iimpahla uze uhlele amanabukeni.
• Uthengela izinto zomntwana.

Ukuba umntwana wakho akazukuya xa kuzalwa, xelela umntwana wakho ukuba ngubani oza kubakhathalela xa unomntwana. Yazisa umntwana wakho ukuba awuyi kuhamba ixesha elide.

Cwangcisa ukuba umntwana wakho akutyelele kunye nosana olutsha esibhedlele. Mndwendwele umntwana wakho xa zininzi ezinye iindwendwe. Ngosuku oya nalo ngalo ekhaya, umntwana wakho omdala eze esibhedlele ukuze "ancede."

Kubantwana abancinci, isipho esincinci (into yokudlala okanye isilwanyana esinezixhobo) "ezisuka emntwaneni" zihlala ziluncedo ekuncedeni umntwana ajongane nosapho elongeza usana olutsha.

Yazisa umntwana wakho ukuba umntwana uza kwenza ntoni:

• Apho umntwana azolala khona
• Apho isihlalo semoto somntwana siyakuhamba emotweni
• Usana luza kuncancisa njani okanye luthathe ibhotile qho kwiiyure ezimbalwa

Chaza nokuba yintoni engenako ukwenza usana. Usana alunakuthetha, kodwa luyakhala. Kwaye umntwana akakwazi ukudlala kuba mncinci kakhulu. Kodwa umntwana uyakuthanda ukubukela umntwana wakho edlala, edanisa, ecula kwaye etsiba.

Zama ukuchitha ixesha elincinci yonke imihla kunye nomntwana omdala. Yenza oku xa umntwana elele okanye xa omnye umntu omdala enokumjonga umntwana.

Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba ancede ngomntwana. Yazi ukuba oku kuthatha ixesha elide kunokwenza ngokwakho. Umntwana wakho unako:

• Culela umntwana
• Uncedo ngotshintsho lwe-diaper
• Nceda utyhale isitrato
• Thetha nosana

Cela iindwendwe ukuba zidlale kwaye zithethe nomntwana osele ekhulile kunye nokutyelela umntwana omtsha. Vumela umntwana wakho avule izipho zomntwana.

Xa uncancisa okanye uncancisa umntwana wakho ngebhotile, funda ibali, ucule, okanye ugone nomntwana wakho omdala.

Yazi ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuba neemvakalelo ezingafaniyo malunga nosana olutsha.

• Banokuqala ukuthetha kwintetho yabantwana. Banokudlala.
• Nceda umntwana wakho athethe ngeemvakalelo zakhe malunga nosana olutsha.

Abantakwabo - umntwana omtsha; Abantwana abadala - usana olutsha; Unonophelo lwangaphambi kokubeleka-ukulungiselela abantwana

IAmerican Academy yezonyango lwabantwana, iwebhusayithi esempilweni yabantwana.org. Ukulungiselela usapho lwakho umntwana omtsha. www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/prenatal/Pages/Preparing-Your-Family-for-a-New-Baby.aspx. Ukuhlaziywa kwe-4 ka-Okthobha i-2019. Ifikeleleke ngoFebruwari 11, 2021.