Kuphele ixesha

"Ukuphuma kwexesha" yindlela abanye abazali kunye nootitshala abayisebenzisayo xa umntwana engaziphathi kakuhle. Kubandakanya umntwana oshiya imeko-bume kunye nemisebenzi apho kwenzeka khona isimilo esingafanelekanga, kwaye esiya kwindawo ethile ngexesha elimiselweyo. Ngexesha lokuphuma, umntwana kulindeleke ukuba athule kwaye acinge ngokuziphatha kwabo.

Ixesha lokuphuma yindlela efanelekileyo yoluleko engasebenzisi isohlwayo somzimba. Iingcali zichaza ukuba AKUKHO ukohlwaya abantwana ngokwasemzimbeni kunokubanceda bafunde ukuba ubundlobongela okanye ukubangela iintlungu emzimbeni akubazisi ziphumo zifunwayo.

Abantwana bafunda ukunqanda ixesha lokuphuma ngokuyeka isimilo esibangele ukuphuma kwexesha, okanye izilumkiso zokuphuma kwexesha, ngaphambili.

INDLELA YOKUSEBENZISA IXESHA

1. Fumana indawo ekhayeni lakho eya kulungela ixesha lokuphuma. Isitulo esiphaseji okanye ekoneni siyakusebenza. Kufanele ukuba yindawo engavali kakhulu, emnyama, okanye eyoyikisayo. Kufuneka kwakhona ibe yindawo engenakho ukuzonwabisa, njengaphambi kweTV okanye kwindawo yokudlala.
2. Fumana isibali xesha elenza ingxolo enkulu, kwaye umisele ixesha oza kulichitha ekuphumeni. Kucetyiswa ngokubanzi ukuba kwenziwe umzuzu omnye ngonyaka, kodwa ungabi ngaphezulu kwemizuzu emi-5.
3. Nje ukuba umntwana wakho abonise ukungaziphathi kakuhle, chaza ngokucacileyo ukuba yeyiphi indlela yokuziphatha engamkelekanga, kwaye uxelele umntwana wakho ukuba ayiyeke. Balumkise ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba abayeki ukuziphatha - ukuhlala esihlalweni ixesha elithile. Yilungele indumiso ukuba umntwana wakho uyeka ukuziphatha.
4. Ukuba isimilo asipheli, xelela umntwana wakho ukuba makaye exesheni. Baxelele ukuba kutheni-baqiniseke ukuba bayayiqonda imigaqo. Yitsho kanye, ungavuthi ngumsindo. Ngokukhwaza kunye nokukrokrela, unika umntwana wakho (kunye nokuziphatha) ingqalelo enkulu. Unokumkhokela umntwana wakho ukuya kwindawo yokuphuma kunye namandla amakhulu njengoko kufuneka (nokuba uthabathe umntwana wakho umbeka esihlalweni). Ungaze umbethe okanye umonzakalise umntwana wakho. Ukuba umntwana wakho akazukuhlala esitulweni, bambambe ngasemva. Musa ukuthetha, njengoko oku kubanika ingqalelo.
5. Cwangcisa ixesha. Ukuba umntwana wakho wenza ingxolo okanye ukungaziphathi kakuhle, setha kwakhona ixesha. Ukuba baphuma kwisitulo sokuphuma, babakhokelele esihlalweni kwaye basete ixesha kwakhona. Umntwana kufuneka athule kwaye aziphathe kakuhle de kube ixesha liphelile.
6. Emva kwexesha, umntwana wakho unokuvuka kwaye aqhubeke nemisebenzi. Musa ukuba nenqala-mayibe ngulo mbandela uhambayo. Kuba umntwana wakho ulenzile ixesha lokuphuma, akukho sidingo sokuqhubeka nokuxoxa ngokuziphatha okungalunganga.

• Kuphele ixesha

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