15 Amagama neziBinzana kufuneka siyeke ukuthetha

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Ngamandla. Sifumana ukuba kutheni USheryl Sanberg iqalise iphulo lokuvala igama le-B, kodwa sicinga ukuba lifuna ukulungiswa kancinci. Lahla i-"y" kwaye ngequbuliso iyeke ukwenza lula into yokuba abafazi baphethe-kwaye sele kulithuba elide.

Igephu yethanga. Akukho ndlela yokutya okanye yokomelela komzimba enokwandisa umlingo ezinqeni zakho ukwenza indawo engeyomfuneko phakathi kweempawu zakho ezintle. Ngaphandle kokuba wazalwa unenye, libala ngayo.

Njengentombazana. Njengokuba ukunyuka kweembaleki ezinamandla njengabadlali beetennis USerena Williams, ukumkanikazi wekhephu Lindsey Vonn, kunye nentsomi yebhola ekhatywayo UMia Hamm khange ndiyenze ixesha elide le ngcinga. Xa sisoloko siyivula kwiphulo layo lakutshanje, asikwazanga ukuzibamba kodwa sicinge, "Fumana namaxesha, bantu."

Indebe yomfazi. Ukucinywa kwe-ABC sitcom yegama elifanayo emva kwexesha layo lokuqala kule ntwasahlobo bubungqina obungakumbi bokuba yingcinga ediniweyo neyitrite. Isayensi iyavuma: Uphando olutsha kwiYunivesithi yaseNotre Dame epapashwe kwi Uphengululo lwezeNtlalontle laseMelika iqinisekisa ukuba umxholo wokusebenzisa ubuhle ukuphucula imeko yezentlalo nezoqoqosho ikakhulu yintsomi eqhutywa ngabantu abacaphukisayo abagcina beyomeleza.

Omnye umfazi onomsindo. Kungenxa yokuba unomdla malunga neenkolelo zakho (kwaye mhlawumbi unokufumana oopopayi abancinci kunye nokuphakama xa uveza amanqaku akho) oko akuthethi ukuba ucaphukile. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukubona umfazi ophambeneyo, olu luhlu lwamagama luya kuyenza. Ingcebiso yethu: Musa ukuya apho.

Ukwenza konke. Ngaba abantu basabhalisela le ngcamango ingenakwenzeka? Injongo engcono: Ukucwangcisa imva kwemini xa ungenayo into enzima yokwenza.

MILF. Ngokwahlukileyo kwinkolelo eqhelekileyo, kunjalo hayi ukuncoma okanye ukuthathela ingqalelo ukuncoma umama ngokungamvumeli ukuba ahambe emva kokuba nabantwana. Kukrwada nje.

Umfazi obetha. Amagama amabini angcono okuchaza le mhlophe, ingenamikhono, ingubo efanelekileyo: itanki ephezulu.

Omnye wamakhwenkwe. Ngenxa yokuba uthathwa ngokuba upholile ngokwaneleyo ukuxhoma akaniki la madoda ilungelo lokuthetha nokwenza izinto ezingafanelekanga (ezifana nokuthetha "ngeenja eziphambeneyo" kunye nokudlula igesi) phambi kwakho. Newsflash: Uyintokazi nokuba bayafuna ukulala nawe okanye hayi, ke, bafo, yekani ukuba ngoodyakalashe.

I-Cougar. Iindaba ezimnandi: Abasetyhini ekugqibeleni bathi "bayijikeleze" kwimikhwa yoluntu kunye nokuguqula imigangatho emibini kwintloko yayo. Ayilotyala lakho ukuba abancinci bakwazi ukuhlala bhetele kunabadala.

Kwiragi. Xa lelo xesha lenyanga, into yokugqibela oyifunayo sisikhumbuzo usebenzisa into evakalayo enesandi. Endaweni yoko sonke (amadoda nabasetyhini) masibe nombulelo, siqonde, kwaye sihlale, nceda, kuba ngaphandle kwayo, akukho namnye kuthi obeya kuba lapha ngoku.

Imiba katata. Inyani yeyokuba, uTata unokuba nengxaki nawe esithi laa ngxelo iphezulu yokugweba ethetha ukuba uswele, ulihule, kwaye ufuna ukuvunywa ngamadoda ohlobo lotata.

Tomboy. Mhlawumbi yayiyileyibhile eyamkelekileyo xa wawusengumntwana kwaye wawungafanelani ncam namanye amantombazana amantombazana eklasi yakho. Kodwa ngoku uyazi ngcono, lixesha lesini ekufuneka lisuswe kwizizukulwana ezizayo ngolwimi lomthonyama. Ezinye izichazi zamantombazana amancinci asebenzayo: "iimbaleki," "i-superstar," kunye "nokunyanzeliswa ukuba kubalwe." [Khuphela oku!]

Umfazi. Yinto enye ukuba u-hubby wakho uyayithetha-kwaye mhlawumbi kukubuyisela emva ngokumbiza "hubby" okanye "hub." Kodwa xa abantu osebenza nabo okanye abahlobo abangatshatanga nawe bethetha, kuyacaca ukuba uyazithoba. Ngexesha elizayo bakubiza ngokuthi "umfazi," benze ukuba bahlawule isidlo sakusihlwa okanye bakunike i-massage yeenyawo njengaye nawuphi na umyeni olungileyo.

Khulisa iibhola. Umhlekisi uBetty White uthe: "Iibhola zibuthathaka kwaye zibuthathaka. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuba lukhuni, khulisa ubufazi! Ezo zinto zithatha ukubetha!" Olu qwalaselo luluqilima lukwasebenza naku "Yithathe njengendoda," "Musa ukuba yipussy," kunye ne "Man up."

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