Amanyathelo ama-5 okufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba angachami ebhedini

Umxholo

• Nini ukuya kugqirha wabantwana

Kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana bachame ebhedini bade babe neminyaka emi-5 ubudala, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba kwiminyaka emi-3 ubudala bayeke ukuchama ebhedini ngokupheleleyo.

Ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba angachami ebhedini, amanyathelo onokuwalandela ngala:

1. Musa ukunika abantwana izinto ezilulwelo ngaphambi kokuba ulale: Ngale ndlela isinyi asizali xa ulele kwaye kulula ukubamba inkohliso kude kube kusasa;
2. Thatha umntwana achame phambi kokuba alale. Ukukhupha isinyi ngaphambi kokulala kubalulekile kulawulo lomchamo olungcono;
3. Yenza ikhalenda yeveki nomntwana kwaye ubeke ubuso obonwabileyo xa ngeentsuku engachami ebhedini: Ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kuhlala kuluncedo kwaye oku kuyamkhuthaza umntwana ukuba alawulwe ngcono umchamo wakhe;
4. Musa ukubeka i-diaper ebusuku, ngakumbi xa umntwana eyekile ukusebenzisa i-diapers;
5. Kuphephe ukutyhola umntwana xa echama ebhedini. Ngamanye amaxesha 'iingozi' zinokwenzeka kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ngexesha lokukhula komntwana ukuba kubakho iintsuku ezingonwabanga.

Ukubeka iphedi yomatrasi egubungela umatrasi uphela yindlela entle yokuthintela umchamo ekubeni ufike kumatrasi. Ezinye izinto zifunxa umchamo ngokupheleleyo, kuthintela irhashalala.

Ukutsalaliswa ebhedini kuhlala kunxulunyaniswa nezizathu ezilula, ezinje ngotshintsho kubushushu, ukonyuka kokutya kwamanzi emini okanye utshintsho kubomi bomntwana, ke xa iimeko ezinje zikhona, akukho mfuneko yakuzixhalabisa.

Nini ukuya kugqirha wabantwana

Kuyacetyiswa ukuba uye kugqirha wabantwana xa umntwana engachazanga ebhedini iinyanga ezimbalwa, ebuyela ekumanzeni ebhedini rhoqo. Ezinye iimeko ezinokuba nefuthe kolu hlobo lokuziphatha zihamba indlu, abazali abalahlekileyo, ukungonwabi kunye nokufika komntakwabo omncinci. Nangona kunjalo, ukoyiswa ebhedini kungabonisa iingxaki zempilo ezinje ngeswekile, usulelo lomchamo kunye nokungahambi kakuhle komchamo, umzekelo.

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