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Umxholo

• Yiza neencwadi etafileni
• Thatha uhambo
• Yiba neqela lomdaniso
• Dlala ibhola
• Yenza uvuyo lwamanzi-kunye-neqamza
• Hlanganisa iibhloko kunye neetraki kunye nexesha lesisu
• Wonwabele umzuzu

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Ukuya komnye umntwana uye kubini lutshintsho olukhulu, ngeendlela ezininzi kunenye. Umceli mngeni omkhulu kukufumana iindlela zokuba umntwana wakho amdle kancinci ukuba adlale nomncinci, enikwe amandla abo ahlukeneyo (kunye nokuhamba!) Kwamanqanaba.

Kodwa ungabakhuthaza bobabini abantwana- kwaye ubancede benze olohlobo lubalulekileyo kubantakwabo- ngemisebenzi embalwa elula.

Ezi ngcamango zintandathu ziya kugcina abantwana bobabini bonwabile kwaye zikuvumela ukuba ukonwabele ukubukela abantwana bakho benxibelelana.

Yiza neencwadi etafileni

Yenza ukutya ngaphezulu kokutya (er, ukulahla) ukutya. Yizisa imfumba yokomelela- kwaye ke ngokokusula- iincwadi zebhodi kwitafile ngexesha elizayo xa nihlala phantsi kwisidlo sasemini okanye isidlo sangokuhlwa emini ekhaya.

"Enye into phakathi kokondla abantwana kunye nokufunda," utitshala wabantwana abancinci kunye nosapho uNanci J Bradley ucebisa. Phosa ingoma enye okanye ezimbini ukuze ufumane isidlo esimnandi kakhulu nesinemveliso. ”

Bobabini abantwana baya kukonwabela ukujonga imifanekiso kwaye umntwana wakho omdala angade afune "ukufundisa" umntwana wakho ngale mifanekiso. Umzekelo, ngencwadi emalunga nomyezo wezilwanyana okanye ifama, banokwenza izandi zezilwanyana xa bejonga amaphepha.

Thatha uhambo

UBradley ukwacebisa ukuba uhambe uhambo olukhokelwa ngumntwana ngaphandle kwendlu yakho okanye ezantsi kwesitrato sakho nosana lwakho kumphathi (okanye ezingalweni zakho).

"Ukuba uhamba ngesantya somntwana wakho omncinci kwaye ulandele umdla wabo, baya kuhlala begxile ngelixa ugcina umntwana onwabile," uyachaza.

Jonga iintyatyambo ozibonayo zikhula phambi kweyadi yakho, iintanda ezisecaleni kwendlela, iimbovane zikhasa emigceni - nantoni na ebamba umdla womntwana wakho omdala. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uye kude ukugcina ingqalelo yabo, kwaye amava anokuphumla ngokwenene ukuba uhamba kancinci kwaye uhlale emzuzwini nabantwana bakho.

Yiba neqela lomdaniso

Abantwana bayo yonke iminyaka bayawuthanda umculo kunye nentshukumo, ke ukucula kunye nokudanisa lukhetho lwendalo lokugcina umntwana wakho omncinci kunye nosana lwakho.

"Iipati zomdaniso kunye nomntwana wam omncinci zizinto ezinkulu, njengoko ndinokuhamba nomntwana ngaxeshanye," utshilo u-Alexandra Fung, u-CEO wesiza sokwabelana ngesincomo Umzali, ongumama wabantwana abane, oneminyaka eli-13, 10, 2, kunye neenyanga ezi-4. “Umntwana wam omncinci kunye nam sicula ikaraoke ngelixa ndibambe usana. Usana luyayithanda, nayo - eyona nto ayifunayo kukuba umntu ambambe kwaye 'athethe' naye kanye emva kwethuba. ”

Tshintshela uhlobo lomculo ukugcina lo msebenzi utsha. Unokufumana uluhlu lwadlalwayo lomculo wabantwana kwiSpotify okanye ukwazisa abantwana bakho kumabhanti owathandayo - akukaze kube kudala kakhulu ukuqala.

Dlala ibhola

Ukwenza umsebenzi olula ngokwenene oya kuthandwa bobabini abantwana, yonke into oyifunayo yibhola.

"Nika umntwana wakho omncinci ibhola kwaye ubonise ukuba uyilahla njani, emva koko uxelele umntwana ukuba ayigange okanye ayibuyisele kumntwana omncinci," ucebisa watsho uBrandon Foster, umzali, utitshala kunye nebhlog ku-myschoolsupplylists.com.

"Umntwana omncinci wonwabile kukuphosa, kwaye umntwana uyakonwabela ukukhasa okanye abaleke ayokufumana," utshilo. Utshintsho-okanye ukuba umntwana wakho akakashukumi okwangoku-tshintsha iindima kwaye umntwana makaphose kwaye abuye.

Ewe kuncinci (kulungile, kuninzi) ngathi abantwana bakho badlala ngokuzolana. Kodwa bobabini bayonwabele intshukumo kunye nokuphinda ubuchule bezithuthi. Kwaye baya kufumana ukuziqhelanisa nokwabelana, nabo.

Ivenkile yeebhola ezilungele abantwana kwi-intanethi.

Yenza uvuyo lwamanzi-kunye-neqamza

Ukuba unendawo yangaphandle-kunye nokukhanya kwelanga-unokwenza i-oasis yamanzi kubantwana bakho ababini abaza kubagcina bevuya kwaye bavuya ixesha elide.

Umama webhlogi u-Abby Marks, onamakhwenkwe amabini kwizigaba zentsana kunye neentsana, weza nombono wokubeka indawo yokudlala yomntwana wakhe phakathi echibini lakhe lomntwana osakhasayo ukwenza indawo emanzi, ezele ulonwabo bobabini abantwana bakhe banokuyonwabela kunye.

"Oyena mdala wethu wayeqokelela izinto zokudlala echibini kwaye edlala nomncinci wethu ngelixa wayephosa izinto zokudlala ngokukhawuleza," utshilo. Yongeza kwibhafu yokuhlambela kwaye ufumane usuku lokugqibela lweephuli wena kunye nabantwana. Olu luvo lusivumela ukuba siqulathe ezincinane kwaye sizenze ukuba zinxibelelane nabanye ngendlela eyonwabisayo. ”

Thenga izinto zokudlala zamanzi kwi-intanethi.

Hlanganisa iibhloko kunye neetraki kunye nexesha lesisu

Uninzi lwabantwana abancinci luyathanda ukwakha kwaye iintsana zihlala zinomdla wokubukela abantwana abadala bebeka iibhloko, bakhe iinqaba kwaye, ewe, babukele yonke into iwa phantsi.

Ngelixa abantwana bengenakudlala kunye, unokumisela umntwana wakho omncinci ngezinto zokudlala kwaye unike umntwana wakho isihlalo esingaphambili ukuze abukele isenzo.

"Iibhloko kunye neelori zigcina umntwana wam omncinci amnandipha ngaphandle kwakhe efuna ukubandakanyeka kakhulu kum, nangona ndihlala ndikwazi ukudlala kunye ngelixa umntwana esenza ixesha lesisu - uyakuthanda ukubukela umntakwabo omkhulu edlala," utshilo uFung.

Ngale ndlela, umntwana wakho omncinci ufumana ixesha lokwakha kunye nawe kwaye umntwana wakho ufumana ithuba lokusebenza kwizakhono zakhe, ukongeza ekujongeni ukuba umntakwenu omdala uphezu kwantoni.

Ewe awuphelelanga kwiibhloko okanye iilori. Nawuphi na umsebenzi obandakanya ixesha lomgangatho- oonodoli, iiphazili, imibala - inokwenzeka ngelixa ilungu losapho elincinci lijinga kufutshane.

Thenga iibhloko kwi-intanethi.

Wonwabele umzuzu

Ukufumana imisebenzi elungileyo yokugcina umntwana wakho oxakekile kwaye umntwana wakho onwabile kunokuthatha uvavanyo kunye nephutha. Kodwa xa ufumana umxube olungileyo kwaye uvuzwa ngokugigitheka kunye nodumo lwe-gummy, kufanelekile wonke umsebenzi.

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