Iiprojekthi zeNesting ezi-7 ezonelisayo xa yonke into ofuna ukuyenza ilungelelaniswa

Umxholo

• Iimpahla zomntwana
• Izandla-phantsi
• Iincwadi zabantwana
• Ukutyala kunye nezikhululo zokondla
• Igumbi lakho lokulala
• Iikhabhathi zangasese
• I-Pantry, ifriji, kunye nefriji
• Ndiziva ndikulungele?

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Isidleke saphambi kokukhula komntwana akufuneki sikhawulelwe kwindawo yokugcina abantwana. Zama ezimbalwa zezi projekthi kule mpelaveki.

Xa ukhulelwe, zonke iintlobo zemvelo ziqala ukukhaba. (Kwam, eyona inamandla yayingumnqweno wokutya ii-cookies ezininzi zeetshokholethi kangangoko kunokwenzeka.) Kodwa ngaphandle komnqweno wokutya, uya kufumana umnqweno wokuba coca kwaye uququzelele ikhaya lakho ngendlela ongazange ube nayo ngaphambili.

Ingqondo yakho ikuxelela ukuba ulungele umntwana, ngokoqobo, ngokucoca into ongayifuniyo kunye nokwenza indawo yokongeza kwakho. Xa uziva ngathi kurhawuzelela indlwana, Nazi izinto ezisixhenxe onokuzilungiselela ukuze uhlale uxakekile.

Iimpahla zomntwana

Uyakutshintsha amanabukeni amaninzi - kunye neempahla ezininzi - xa sele ulapha umntwana.

Ukugcina zonke iimpahla ezincinci ngokulandelelana kuya kukunceda ufumane into oyifunayo nokuba ubaleka iiyure ezi-3 zokulala. Okokuqala, hlamba zonke iimpahla onazo. Emva koko, hlela ubungakanani bazo. Okokugqibela, beka yonke into emigqomeni okanye kwidrowa enesahluli.

"Ngenxa yokuba iimpahla zomntwana zincinci kakhulu, imigqomo kunye nezahluli zokwahlula ziya kukugcinela ixesha," utshilo uSherri Monte, ongumnini-mbumba we-Elegant Simplicity, uyilo lwangaphakathi kunye nenkampani eququzelela amakhaya aseSeattle. "Yiba nomgqomo okanye isahluli sento nganye - iibhibhi, amalaphu okubhaya, iinyanga ezi-0 ukuya kwezi-3, iinyanga ezi-3-6, njalo njalo-kwaye ubhale oko."

Izandla-phantsi

Ukuba ufumene izinto ezininzi zokunxiba, qinisekisa ukuba into nganye uyibeke phambi kokuba uyigcine, ucebisa umququzeleli oqeqeshiweyo we-KonMari uEmi Louie.

"Yenza le mfumba ngokungathi 'uyothenga,'” Ucebisa. "Thatha ixesha lokuthathela ingqalelo - ngaba umntwana wakho omncinci uza kuba nakho ukungena kule onesie ye-Thanksgiving ngo-Novemba?"

Kwakhona qaphela izinto ezinjengeethoyi kunye nezixhobo: Ngaba zonke ezi zinto ubuya kuzithenga ngokwakho? Ngaba ungazigcina ngokulula de ube ukulungele ukuzisebenzisa? Ngaba omnye umama uza kuzisebenzisa kuqala aze akubuyisele kuwe?

Ukwamkela izinto zomntwana ezisetyenzisiweyo ngobumnene sisipho, kodwa ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba into nganye oyigcinayo iya kuba luncedo kwaye ayizukugqibela ngokuxinanisa indawo yakho.

Iincwadi zabantwana

Iprojekthi elula ngokwenene kwaye imnandi- onokuyenza ngeyure, phezulu - kukwenza ithala leencwadi elonwabisayo lokufika kwakho kungekudala.

"Lungelelanisa iincwadi zabantwana ngombala," icebisa ingcali yokulungiselela uRachel Rosenthal. Umbutho we-rainbow uyathandeka kwaye uzisa ukukhanya kwelanga.

Olu luvo luluncedo ngakumbi ukuba ufuna i-nursery eneetoni ezingathathi hlangothi kodwa ufuna ukongeza umbala nje omncinci, okanye ukuba awukhethi umxholo. Awunakuhamba gwenxa ngomnyama!

Ukutyala kunye nezikhululo zokondla

Yenza izitishi ezinokusetyenziswa ukuze zonke izinto zakho ezibalulekileyo zibe sezandleni.

"Ukugcina izinto ezinje ngokuhombisa izinto, iisiesies, iikawusi kunye neepjs ezandleni zakho kuya kwenza umahluko omkhulu kulo lonke olo tshintsho lwe-diaper," utshilo uRosenthal. Ukuba neengubo ezingaphezulu ze-swaddle kunye ne-pacifiers yotshintsho lobusuku bobusuku kuyanceda, nako.

Ukwacebisa ukubeka ndawonye i-caddy njengesikhululo sokuhambisa i-diaper onokuhamba kuso ngokujikeleza indlu.

"I-caddy enee-diapers ezimbalwa, wosula, ibhotile yesibini ye-rash cream, i-pjs, kunye nephedi yokutshintsha [eza kusetyenziswa esofeni, emgangathweni, okanye kwenye indawo ekhuselekileyo] iyakunceda ukulungelelanisa ezo ntsuku zokuqala, utshilo. (UMonte uthi ungasebenzisa nenqwelomoya emnandi ukugcina izinto - xa kugqityiwe ukwenziwa, uya kuba nento enkulu ekhayeni lakho.)

Ukondla, setha isikhululo kunye nazo zonke izinto ezinokufunwa ngumntwana, njengokusula kunye namalaphu e-burp, kodwa qiniseka ukuba ugqunywe, nawe.

"Ukuba nenqwaba yamashwamshwam, ishaja yefowuni, kunye nezinto oza kuzifunda ziya kukunceda ukuba uphephe ukujikeleza xa umntwana elambile," utshilo uRosenthal.

Igumbi lakho lokulala

Ukukhulelwa okuphakathi akusiloxesha elifanelekileyo lokucoca izinto ezingafunekiyo kwikhabhathi yakho, kodwa yona ngu lithuba elihle lokulungiselela iimpahla zomzimba wakho oguqukayo, utshilo uLouie.

Ucebisa ukuba ahlele iimpahla zibe "zinxibe ngoku," "nxiba kamva," kwaye "nxiba kamva kakhulu," iindidi.

"Ukuba ufuna ukuzama ukuncancisa, qaphela ukuba zeziphi iisuphu, iilokhwe kunye neebras eziza kusebenza kakuhle," utshilo. "Ukuba ucinezelwe indawo, cinga ukuhambisa iimpahla zakho 'zonxiba mva kakhulu" kwigunjana lakho uye kwigunjana labakhenkethi okanye kwindawo yokugcina izinto. ”

U-Elle Wang, umsunguli wenkampani ezinxibayo yokubeleka, uEmilia George, uthi xa ulungisa ikhabethe lakho emva kokubeleka kubalulekile ukuba uxakeke ngentsasa xa ungenalo ixesha elininzi lokukhetha iimpahla zakho.

"Khumbula: Umzimba womfazi awuzinciphisi ngokuzenzekelayo iisayizi ezine kwilokhwe emva kokubeleka kwaye ayizizo zonke iimpahla ezilungiselela ukuncancisa okanye ukupompa kakuhle," utshilo.

Iikhabhathi zangasese

Uninzi lwethu lunemveliso eninzi engasetyenziswanga elele kwiidrowa zethu zangasese kunye neekhabhathi, zithatha indawo exabisekileyo.

“Eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokujonga imihla yokuphelelwa yisikhathi - phosa iimveliso ezingafunekiyo kwaye lahla naluphi na uhlobo lwenkqubo yobuhle ethatha ixesha elininzi, utshilo uKaty Winter, umseki weKaty's Organised Home. "Yenza lula inkqubo yakho ukuze ube nokuziva ukhululekile, kodwa mhlawumbi usebenzisa iimveliso ezimbalwa."

Oku kuya kukunceda ukhulule indawo yeemveliso zabantwana, nazo.

Qiniseka ukuba nawe uhamba kwikhabhathi yakho yamayeza, uWang uyongeza, asuse iimveliso ezindala okanye eziphelelwe lixesha kwaye ongeze ezintsha oza kuzifuna.

"Oomama banokufuna amanye amayeza okongeza iintlungu emva kokubeleka, kunye neentsana ezininzi zi-colicky-amanzi acocekileyo angaluncedo kakhulu, utshilo. "Kulungile ukufumana izinto ezibalulekileyo ezinje ngezi zilungele xa umntwana elapha."

I-Pantry, ifriji, kunye nefriji

Le projekthi inokuthatha ixesha elifanelekileyo kwaye kufanelekile. Khetha indawo kwaye ususe yonke into ukuze ucoce indawo ngokufanelekileyo. Emva koko, beka kuphela ukutya oza kukutya, ukuphosa nayiphi na into eseleyo okanye izinto eziphelelwe lixesha.

Kwi-pantry, yenza indawo yokugcina izinto zomntwana ezinje ngefomula, iziqwengana ezinamazinyo, kunye neepakethi ukuze ulungele ukuya xa usana lukhona.

Kwifriji, zama ukusebenzisa izinto ezinqabileyo ngaphambi kokuba umntwana afike ukuze wenze indawo yokugcina ukutya okulula kuwe, njenge-lasagna, isitshixo, isuphu kunye neekheri, ucebisa watsho uLouie.

Unokufuna kwakhona ukubeka indawo yokugcina ubisi lwebele. "Fumana ikhonteyina enobungakanani obufanelekileyo kwaye ubanga indawo yayo kwisikhenkcezisi sakho ngoku, ukuze ungazukumba ujonge iingxowa zakho zobisi xa uzifuna ngokwenene," uyacebisa. "Khetha indawo owaziyo ukuba iya kugcina ubisi lubanda, kodwa ayingcwatywanga ngokupheleleyo ngasemva."

Ndiziva ndikulungele?

Zonke ezi projekthi aziyi kuphela ukucima umnqweno wakho wokuhlalisa, kodwa ziya kukunceda uzive ngaphezulu kwezinto emva kokuba umntwana efikile.

Uya kukulungela ngakumbi ukufika kwakho okutsha ngayo yonke into ehleliweyo kwaye ukulungele ukuya. Kwaye, uya kuba unakekele nokuzimela kwakho kungekudala, naye.

Ingaba wenza lula ubuhle bakho, wenze kunye nokutya ukutya ngaphambi kwexesha, okanye ukhethe enye iprojekti yokulungiselela ukuzinyamekela ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana, uya kuba nexesha elininzi lokunandipha umntwana wakho omncinci ukuba wenza kwangaphambili.

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