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Umxholo

• Zeziphi iziqinisekiso ezinokukwazi kwaye zingenakukwenza
• Ukwenza eyakho ingqinisiso
• Qala ngo “Ndi” okanye “Owam”
• Zigcine kwixesha langoku
• Musa ukoyika ukwamkela iingcinga ezixhalabisayo
• Zibophelele kumaxabiso asisiseko kunye nempumelelo
• Uzisebenzisa njani
• Yenza inkqubo yemihla ngemihla
• Zigcine zangoku
• Zigcine apho unokuzibona khona
• Ukufikelela
• Umgca wezantsi

Uqinisekiso luchaza uhlobo oluthile lwesiteyitimenti esiqinisekileyo esihlala sijolise kuwe ngenjongo yokukhuthaza utshintsho kunye nokuzithanda ngelixa ubeka ixhala kunye noloyiko.

Njengohlobo lokuthetha ngokwakho, iziqinisekiso zinokukunceda utshintshe iingcinga ezingacacanga.

Ukuphindaphinda ibinzana elixhasayo, elikhuthazayo kuyinika amandla, kuba ukuva into ihlala yenza ukuba uyikholelwe. Emva koko, inkolelo yakho yenza ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba wenze izinto ezenza ukuba isiqinisekiso sakho sibe yinyani.

Iziqinisekiso zinokukunceda ukomeleza ukuzixabisa ngokwandisa umbono wakho oqinisekileyo ngawe kunye nokuzithemba kwakho ekuphumezeni iinjongo zakho. Banokunceda ekulweni iimvakalelo zoloyiko, uxinzelelo kunye nokuzithemba okuhlala kuhamba noxinzelelo.

Xa iingcinga ezixhalabisayo zikongamela kwaye zisenza kube nzima ukugxila kumathuba amahle, iziqinisekiso zinokukunceda uthathe ulawulo kwakhona kwaye uqale ukutshintsha ezi patheni zokucinga.

Zeziphi iziqinisekiso ezinokukwazi kwaye zingenakukwenza

Iziqinisekiso unako kukunceda udale kwaye uqinise izimo zengqondo ezintsha kunye neepatheni zokuziphatha, kodwa azinakho ukucima umlingo ngomlingo

Nantsi into abanokuyenza:

• phucula indlela oziva ngayo
• ukukhulisa ukuzithemba
• yonyusa inkuthazo
• kukunceda ukusombulula iingxaki
• yandisa ithemba
• kukunceda ujongane neengcinga ezingakhiyo

Xa kuziwa kuxinzelelo ngokukodwa, ukugcina iziqinisekiso ezisisiseko ngokwenyani kunokwenza umahluko omkhulu kwimpembelelo yabo. Ukuba uzama ukuzixelela ukuba ungenza izinto ezingenanyani, ungasokola ukuzikholelwa kwaye ubuyele kwingqondo apho uziva ungenakho kwaye ungaphumeleli.

Yithi unezinto ezininzi ezixhalabisayo malunga neenkxalabo zemali. Ukuphindaphinda "Ndizakuphumelela iLotto" yonke imihla, nangona kunjalo ngokuqinisekileyo, akunakunceda kakhulu. Ukuqinisekiswa okufana, "Ndinetalente kunye namava okufumana umsebenzi ohlawula ngcono," kwelinye icala, kunokukukhuthaza ukuba usebenzele olu tshintsho.

ucebisa uqinisekiso lunokusebenza ngokuyinxenye kuba ukuziqinisekisa ngokwakho kusebenze inkqubo yomvuzo wobuchopho bakho. Le nkqubo, phakathi kwezinye izinto, inokukunceda ukunciphisa ukuqonda kwakho kwentlungu, ukuthambisa ifuthe loxinzelelo lomzimba kunye neemvakalelo.

Ukuziqinisekisa, ngamanye amagama, kuyanceda ukuphucula amandla akho kubunzima bemozulu.

Ukuziva ukwazi ukujongana nayo nayiphi na imiceli mngeni evelayo kunokukubeka kwindawo engcono yokusebenzela utshintsho olungapheliyo.

Ukwenza eyakho ingqinisiso

Ukuba sele uqalile ukuphonononga uqinisekiso, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ulufumene uluhlu oluninzi, kunye neengcebiso zokuba "ukhethe uqinisekiso oluvakala kakhulu kuwe."

Olo sisikhokelo esivakalayo, kodwa kukho indlela ebhetele nangakumbi yokufumana iziqinisekiso eziva ngathi ziyindalo kwaye zilungile: Zenzele ngokwakho.

Cinga ngesi siqinisekiso esivumayo: “Andoyiki.”

Ungathini ukuba unoloyiko kunye noxinzelelo oluninzi kuphela olubazisa kugxilwe ngakumbi? Ungasiphinda esi siqinisekiso ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kodwa ukuba awukholelwa ngokwenene ukuba awoyiki, akunakulindeleka ukuba ungoyiki kwisiqinisekiso sodwa.

Ukuyisebenzisa ngokutsha uyikholeleke ngakumbi kwaye kuluncedo kunokukushiya unayo: "Ndineengcinga ezixhalabisayo, kodwa ndinamandla okucela umngeni kwaye ndizitshintshe."

Ukulungele ukuqalisa? Gcina ezi ngcebiso engqondweni.

Qala ngo “Ndi” okanye “Owam”

Umbono womntu wokuqala unokubopha ukuqiniswa ngamandla ngakumbi kwindlela oziva ngayo. Oku kubenza bahambelane ngakumbi kwiinjongo ezithile, ezenza ukuba kube lula ukukholelwa.

Zigcine kwixesha langoku

Mhlawumbi "Ndiza kuziva ndizithembile xa ndithetha nabantu kunyaka ozayo" kubonakala ngathi yinjongo elungileyo.

Ukuqinisekiswa akuzona iinjongo ezifanelekileyo, nangona kunjalo. Uzisebenzisela ukuphinda ubhale iipateni zokucinga esele zikho ezinxungupheleyo kunye neengcinga zokuzibetha. Ngokumisela ixesha elizayo, uyazixelela, "Ngokuqinisekileyo, inokwenzeka loo nto ekugqibeleni.”

Kodwa oku akunakuba nefuthe kakhulu kwindlela oziphatha ngayo ngoku. Endaweni yoko, hlela ubungqina bakho ngokungathi buyinyani. Oku kwandisa ithuba lokuziphatha ngendlela eyiyo yenza yinyani.

Umzekelo: "Ndizithembile ngokuthetha nabantu endingabaziyo ndize ndenze abahlobo abatsha."

Musa ukoyika ukwamkela iingcinga ezixhalabisayo

Ukuba uhlala noxinzelelo, unokukufumanisa kuluncedo ukuyamkela le nto kwisiqinisekiso sakho. Yinxalenye yakho, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kunye neziqinisekiso ezigxininisa kubunyani zinokubanika amandla ngakumbi.

Namathela kwisicatshulwa esihle, nangona kunjalo, kwaye ujolise ekubonakalisweni okuyinyani kwento ofuna ukuyizuza.

• Ngaphandle kwe: "Andizukuvumela iingcinga zam ezixhalabileyo zichaphazele umsebenzi wam."
• Zama: "Ndiyakwazi ukumelana namaxhala am malunga nokusilela kwaye ndifezekise iinjongo zam ngaphandle kwazo."

Zibophelele kumaxabiso asisiseko kunye nempumelelo

Ukuqhagamshela ukuqinisekiswa kwiinqobo zakho ezisemgangathweni kukukhumbuza okubaluleke kakhulu kuwe.

Njengoko uphinda ezi zinto zingqinayo, uqinisa imeko yakho yesiqu sakho kunye nokukholelwa kubuchule bakho, oko kunokukhokelela ekuzixhobiseni ngokwakho.

Ukuba uyayixabisa imfesane, ukungqina ukuba eli xabiso kunokukunceda ukhumbule ukuzisizela kubalulekile:

• "Ndenza ububele obufanayo kum endibubonisa abantu endibathandayo."

Ukuqinisekiswa kunokunceda ekulweni neengcinga zokuzibetha xa uzisebenzisa ukuzikhumbuza ngezinto ozifezileyo ngaphambili:

• “Ndiziva ndicinezelekile, kodwa izakudlula. Ndiyakwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo zokothuka kwaye ndiphinde ndizole, kuba ndakhe ndakwenza oko ngaphambili. ”

Uzisebenzisa njani

Ngoku ukuba uneziqinisekiso ezimbalwa zokuba uqalise, uzisebenzisa njani?

Akukho mpendulo ichanekileyo okanye ingalunganga, kodwa ezi ngcebiso zinokukunceda uzenze ngobuninzi bazo.

Yenza inkqubo yemihla ngemihla

Ukuphindaphinda iziqinisekiso kumzuzu oxinzelelekileyo kunokunceda, kodwa ngokubanzi banefuthe elikhulu xa uzisebenzisa rhoqo endaweni yokuba uzifune kakhulu.

Cinga ngabo njengawo nawuphi na umkhwa. Kuya kufuneka uzilolonge rhoqo ukuze ubone utshintsho oluhlala luhleli, akunjalo?

Zibophelele ekuziqinisekiseni ubuncinci iintsuku ezingama-30. Gcina nje engqondweni kunokuthatha ixesha elincinci ukubona ukuphucuka.

Bekela bucala imizuzu embalwa amaxesha ama-2 okanye ama-3 ngosuku ukuphinda uqinisekiso lwakho. Abantu abaninzi bakufumanisa kuluncedo ukusebenzisa into yokuqala ekuseni ngaphambi nje kokuba balale.

Nangaliphi na ixesha ohlala kulo, zama ukunamathela kwinkqubo yesiqhelo. Cwangcisa ukuphindaphinda okungama-10 kwesiqinisekiso ngasinye- ngaphandle kokuba unenombolo ethamsanqa ekhuthaza ukuzithemba ngakumbi.

Ukuba ungumxhasi "Ukubona kuyakholelwa," zama ukuphinda uqinisekiso lwakho phambi kwesipili. Gxila kubo kwaye ubakholelwe ukuba bayinyani endaweni yokubarhuqa nje.

Unokwenza iziqinisekiso ziyinxalenye yenkqubo yakho yokucamngca yemihla ngemihla okanye usebenzise ukubonwa ukuze ubabone njengenyaniso.

Zigcine zangoku

Ungahlala undwendwela kwaye uhlengahlengise iziqinisekiso zakho ukubenza basebenze ngakumbi.

Njengoko ixesha lihamba, jonga ngokwakho. Ngaba iziqinisekiso zikunceda ukuba ugcine ulawulo lweengxaki zakho kunye nokuzenzela imfesane xa uzihlalela? Okanye ngaba banefuthe elincinci kuba awukakholelwa kubo okwangoku?

Xa ubaqaphela besebenza, sebenzisa le mpumelelo njengokhuthazo-inokude ivelise isiqinisekiso esitsha.

Zigcine apho unokuzibona khona

Ukubona iziqinisekiso zakho rhoqo kunokunceda ukuzigcina ziphambili kwaye zibekelele kwiingcinga zakho.

Zama:

• Ukubhala amanqaku ancangathi okanye iimemo zokushiya indlu yakho kwidesika yakho
• ukuseta njengezaziso kwifowuni yakho
• ukuqala ukungena kwincwadi yemihla ngemihla ngokubhala uqinisekiso lwakho

Ukufikelela

Ukuxhalaba ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba nzima ngokwaneleyo ukuba kuchaphazele zonke iinkalo zobomi, kubandakanya:

• ubudlelwane
• impilo yomzimba
• intsebenzo esikolweni nasemsebenzini
• uxanduva lwemihla ngemihla

Ukuqinisekiswa kunokuba nokufumana isicwangciso sokuzinceda, kodwa ukuba uhlala neempawu ezixhalabisayo okanye eziqhubekayo zoxinzelelo, zisenokungonelisi ukukunceda ubone isiqabu.

Ukuba unxunguphalo luchaphazela ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla, thetha nogqirha malunga neempawu zakho. Ngamanye amaxesha, iimpawu zinokubangelwa yingxaki yonyango.

Abantu abaninzi bafuna inkxaso yonyango xa befunda ukulawula iimpawu zabo zoxinzelelo, kwaye oko kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Oko akuthethi ukuba iziqinisekiso zakho azonelanga.

Unyango unokukunceda ukuba uqale ujonge izizathu zoxinzelelo, ezingqinisisayo. Ukufunda ngakumbi malunga neempawu ezibangela uxinzelelo kunokukunceda ufumane iindlela zokujongana ngokufanelekileyo nezi zinto zibangela.

Isikhokelo sethu kunyango olufikelelekayo sinokukunceda uthathe utsiba.

Umgca wezantsi

Abantu abaninzi bafumana ukuqinisekiswa njengezixhobo ezinamandla zokutshintsha iipateni zokucinga ezingafunekiyo kunye neenkolelo- kodwa azisebenzi kubo bonke abantu.

Ukuba uqinisekiso luziva lungasebenzi okanye longeza kuxinzelelo lwakho, oko akuthethi ukuba wenze into ephosakeleyo. Kuthetha nje ukuba unokuxhamla kolunye uhlobo lwenkxaso.

Ukuqinisekiswa kungakhokelela ekuzibonakaliseni okuhle ngokuhamba kwexesha, kodwa abanamandla onke. Ukuba awuboni kuphucuka kuninzi, ukufikelela kunyango kunokuba linyathelo eliluncedo ngakumbi.

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