Kutheni uAlex Morgan efuna iimbaleki ezingakumbi ukuba zamkele uMama kwiKhondo labo

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Umdlali weQela leSizwe leBhola eKhatywayo yase-US (USWNT) u-Alex Morgan uye waba lelinye lawona mazwi abalaseleyo kumlo womvuzo olinganayo kwezemidlalo. Wayengomnye wabadlali abahlanu abafake isikhalazo esisemthethweni kwiKhomishini ye-Equal Employment Commission ngo-2016, etyhola ucalucalulo ngokwesini yi-US Soccer Federation.

Ngoku kutshanje, uMorgan waba ngomnye wamalungu e-28 e-USWNT ukumangalela ngokusemthethweni i-Soccer yase-US ngenxa yokungaphumeleli ukubonelela iqela lomvuzo olinganayo kunye "nokudlala ngokulinganayo, uqeqesho kunye neemeko zokuhamba; ukukhuthazwa okulinganayo kwemidlalo yabo; inkxaso elinganayo kunye nophuhliso lwemidlalo yabo; kunye neminye imimiselo nemiqathango yengqesho elingana [neQela leSizwe laMadoda]," ngokutsho CNN. (Idibeneyo: U.S.Umdlalo webhola ekhatywayo uthi awunyanzelekanga ukuba uhlawule iqela labasetyhini ngokulinganayo kuba ibhola ekhatywayo yamadoda "ifuna ubuchule obungaphezulu")

Ngoku, kwiinyanga ezisibhozo ukhulelwe, uMorgan uthetha ngomnye umlo kumlo wokulingana: ukubeleka kwezemidlalo.

Imbaleki eneminyaka engama-30 ubudala iza kuzala intombi yayo ngo-Epreli, kwaye kude kube mva nje, ibicwangcisa ukukhuphisana kwiiOlimpiki zaseTokyo zowama-2020, uxelele. Ubuhle kudliwano-ndlebe olutsha.

Ewe kunjalo, imidlalo ngoku imisiwe ngenxa yobhubhani we-coronavirus. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba kuhlehliswe, uMorgan uxelele Ubuhle ukuba uqeqesho lwakhe aluzange luthathe umva. Uye wathi uyaqhubeka nokwenza iiseshini ebaleni, uqeqesho lobunzima, ukujikeleza iiklasi, kunye nokubaleka, de kwaba ziinyanga ezisixhenxe ekhulelwe. Kutshanje uphelise ukucofa njengoko esondela esiphelweni sokukhulelwa kwakhe, etshintshela kwimidyarho yesiqhelo, unyango lomzimba, umthambo womqolo, kunye neyoga yokubeleka, uxelele indawo yokuphuma.

Ngokubanzi, nangona kunjalo, uMorgan uthe akazange akuphathe ukukhulelwa kwakhe njengesithintelo kuqeqesho lwakhe. Abagxeki, nangona kunjalo, kubonakala ngathi baziva ngenye indlela, wabelana. "Abalandeli abaqhelekileyo bomdlalo babefana nje, 'Kutheni esenza into enje ngexesha lakhe eliphezulu lomsebenzi wakhe?'" Uxelele uMorgan. Ubuhle, ebhekisa kwisigqibo sakhe sokufumana umntwana.

Kodwa kuMorgan, kwakungekho nto inkulu kangako, watsho. Uqhube wathi: “Akufani nokuba abafazi abakwazi ukwenza zombini ezi zinto—imizimba yethu iyamangalisa—yinto yokuba eli hlabathi alimiselwanga ukuba abafazi baphumelele,” uhlabela mgama wathi: “Ndazicingela, ndinenkxaso endinayo Akukho sizathu sokuba ndiyeke nje ukuqala usapho. ”

Oko kwathethi, uMorgan uyazi ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu okholelwa kumfazi ukuze akwazi ukulinganisa ukuba ngumzali kunye nomsebenzi ophumeleleyo, ngakumbi kwezemidlalo; Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ezinye iimveliso zokomelela komzimba ziye zajongana nokugxekwa kwimigaqo-nkqubo engazange iqinisekise ukhuseleko lwabadlali abaxhasiweyo abakhulelweyo okanye abazali abatsha.

UMorgan uthe ufuna ukuvuleleka ngohambo lwakhe lokukhulelwa njengembaleki eqeqeshekileyo ukunceda abantu basetyhini "bazive ngathi akufuneki bakhethe enye okanye enye," uxelele. Ubuhle. "Okukhona iimbaleki ezibhinqileyo ezingoomama kumsebenzi wazo, kokukhona zingcono. Okukhona icela umngeni kwinkqubo, kokukhona iya kutshintsha."

UMorgan ke wakhwaza abanye abadlali, kubandakanya i-American track and field sprinter u-Allyson Felix, ukumkanikazi we-tennis uSerena Williams, kunye neqela lakhe lase-USWNT uSydney Leroux. Yintoni abafana ngayo aba bafazi (ngaphandle kokuba ziimbaleki ezimbi): Bonke babonise ukuba ubumama bejuggling kunye nomsebenzi ngu kunokwenzeka-naxa kukho ucalucalulo kunye nabagxekayo. (Idibeneyo: Ama-Moms aFanelekileyo aBelana ngeendlela eziBalulekayo kunye neNyaniso ezenza ixesha lokuSebenza)

Umzekelo: NgoSeptemba 2019, abanye abantu babenamathandabuzo malunga nokuba uFeliks-ugqirha wegolide we-Olimpiki izihlandlo ezithandathu kwaye (ngelo xesha) yintshatsheli yexesha eli-11-wayenokukwazi ukulungela ubuNtshatsheli beHlabathi okanye iTokyo yowama-2020. IiOlimpiki emva kokubeleka intombi yakhe, uCamryn, kwiinyanga ezili-10 ngaphambili. Kodwa njengokuba usenokuba uyazi, uFeliksi wenza imbali eDoha, eQatar, engafumani mbasa yegolide ye-12 kuphela kodwa waphula nerekhodi lika-Usain Bolt lelona lawulo lwe-World Championship.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uWilliam, wafika kumjikelo wokugqibela weGrand Slam kwiinyanga nje ezili-10 emva kokubeleka intombi yakhe, uAlexis Olympia. Kwakungemva kokuba efumana iingxaki ezisongela ubomi ngexesha lokubeleka, i-BTW. U-Williams ukusukela oko waya kwiGrand Slam, eWimbledon, nase-US Open kumjikelo wokugqibela, kwaye ukufutshane kunanini na ngaphambili ukwaphula irekhodi lehlabathi lamagama angama-24 abanjwe ngumdlali we-tennis wase-Australia uMargaret Court. (Jonga: USerena Williams 'Ikhefu lokuBeleka lenze utshintsho olukhulu kwiTonamenti yeTennis yabaseTyhini)

Nogxa kaMorgan, umdlali we-USWNT uSydney Leroux ubuyele ebaleni lebhola ekhatywayo nje Iintsuku ezingama-93 emva kokubeleka umntwana wakhe wesibini, intombi uRoux James Dwyer. "Ndiyawuthanda lo mdlalo," wabhala watsho uLeroux kuTwitter ngelo xesha. "Kulo nyaka uphelileyo bekugcwele amahla ndinyuka kodwa ndenza isithembiso kum ukuba ndizakubuya. Nokuba kunzima kangakanani oko. Ibiyindlela ende kodwa ndiyenzile. Iinyanga ezintathu nolunye usuku. emva kokuba ndibelekile umntwana wam oyintombazana."

Aba bafazi ababonakalisi nje ukuba ukuba ngumama akukunciphisi (ukuba kukho nantoni na, kubonakala ngathi kukwenza isihogo somelele kakhulu). Njengokuba uMorgan esitsho, bakwangumceli-mngeni kwingcinga ephosakeleyo yokuba iimbaleki zabasetyhini "azinabuchule" njengamadoda abo-ingcinga ekhuthaza imigaqo-nkqubo yocalulo ethintela amandla okuphumelela kwabasetyhini.

Ngoku, njengoko uMorgan elungiselela ukuphatha itotshi, nantsi ithemba lokuba ilizwe liphela liyaqhubeka ukubamba.

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